Guys, what is your go to move to get a girl's attention?

[_Maya_]

For the girls, what is the best or cutest way a guy has got your attention?

[DaveJord]

I dress up as a clown and dance around on my car hood, for dollar bills to get a woman's attention, duh? ;)

So, I left the big city life and moved into the mountains, the only thing that I regret about the move is that lack of singles in the area. There really are not a lot of options up here. So, I online date a lot.

So, I read the profile and I see where she lives or is from. If it's not listed, then this person is not into online dating and may just be testing the waters... or not really sincere about finding someone.

I go with a simple;

Hi, @_Maya_ , how's your day going? How long have you lived in Timbuktu?

When I first started out online, I would be all creative and try to open with some humor or something. Once I resorted to the simple approach my activity more than doubled.

Once you get her to reply to the first message then you can really engage in more in-depth subjects but start it light and keep it light at first.

Usually, they reply with a Hi Dave! :) I have only lived her for three years.

Or she will be like I was born and raised here or anything in between. If at the end of the response she says, "What about you? how long have you lived in Timbuktu?" Then your chance of getting a date just doubled. But double of zero is still zero.

But with the simple opening... How long have you lived in Timbuktu?

There is one of three responses...

1. I move her about three years ago. Then follow up with what brough you in the area? See you are getting her to talk about her, while you are expressing an interest in getting to know more about her. Most times family and work are the reasons, and that's an open to start talking about family and work with her.

2. I have lived here all my entire life. This respond is the only reponse that require a different tact to the orignal question and conversation. You got to go with the,

"Wow, that awesome, I moved here 3 years ago. Being in the same area your entire life, must feel pretty good. Do you have lots of family and freinds here?"

Now you got the conversation back to where you wanted to take it, to her family, and then her job and work or you can ask her about her travels, like when was the last time you took a trip, where did you go, what did you do?

3. She views your profile does not reply at all... that could be for any reason honestly. But if she expects more than a simple ice breaker... then just be happy she didn't respond at all.

But if she ends her response with a question back at you... then that's the best sign.

If she responds without even looking at your profile... you're in troubled waters. Catfish is most likely.

[coachTanthony]

Pound my fist on a juke box and make it play a song without putting any money into the damn thing.

[Still-alive]

This song just starts playing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SwYN7mTi6HM

[Minahh]

One time I was kind of hiding in the corner on a highschool freshman party and this cute junior/senior came to me and literally dragged me to the stage and danced with me. It was like the cutest thing ever. Yes I know it depends on the girl but I was so flattered of course me being a shy 15 year old I ran away to hide in the bathroom but that's not the point. Pls more guys like this! Like guys need to start being romantic, cute and thoughtful more and not creepy and sexual that's not the vibe okay

[CoolCatMar1]

Yess queen exactly

[BunBun369]

Oh I'm not a dude but I have had quite a few women call me daddy 😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️.

Just be yourself. Unless you're a douche then be someone else.

Personally what works for me is if you can make them smile or blush or laugh. 1 of those 3 yah be in there like swimwear. 🙋🏽‍♀️

[dynamicyandere]

I just vibe and the magic happens from there.


We could be doing anything and if she enjoys my vibe and my company she’ll want to spend more time with me.


I’m all good energy and I know how to have fun, relax, and talk about anything really.


What makes me stand out is my vibe, my energy, and my natural charm.


If she wants something more, I’ll feel it from her.


I’m intuitive. Whenever I liked a girl, and suspected that they liked me back, I’ve asked them out, and my gut feelings were never wrong.

[Gleezer]

Smile.

If I bump into a total stranger that I find attractive, let's say a girl sitting in front of me on the train, i will smile at her with a playful attitude (read: not creepy).

It might sound cheesy or very simple, but I find that an honest smile is pretty much always well received, and if there's interest on the other side it's easier to start a conversation.

If it's someone I know a little, let's say we're a group of people, I make sure I cross her looks from across the room, hold the look and - again - smile playfully.

Being able to read her eyes and body language is key here, because you understand if she's interested or not pretty quickly.

[Billlewis]

I'll approach her and very meekly and humbly ask her if I can give her a compliment. If she gives me permission to compliment her, I'll tell her that she is absolutely gorgeous, and that I know I'm not worthy even to kiss her dainty feet.

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much for giving me a point, Goddess.

[_Maya_]

You are most welcome!

[strateguy632]

sounds like "beg grovvel"?

[Billlewis]

@strateguy632 Yes, sir, that's me.

[BigDog1989]

@strateguy632 Likely has a BDSM fetish

[DaveJord]

How often does this work for you?

[Billlewis]

@DaveJord Only occasionally, but you could say that about any strategy that's used to try to seduce a woman.

[DaveJord]

True!!!

[Billlewis]

@DaveJord I don't know why this is, but it seems like the worse I'm treated, the more turned on I get. I asked a question yesterday, and after I'd commented on it a couple of times, a guy called me a loser, and I swear I almost came in my pants right then and there... lol

[DaveJord]

@Billlewis Dude so you brother. I ain't judging you... just having fun.

I am worried about myself brother. I mean I date all these women, I hate crazy bitches... but man the crazy ones fuck so good... it really turns me on.

But i am not attracted to crazy bitches... like I really just want a normal descent women... but me and the crazy bitches are drawn to each other like a moth to the flame. Until one of us gets burned and its over.

So dude I ain't judging you brother... do you!

[stratford]

Doing helicopter dick. Just joking 😂

Honestly, it depends on the girl I'm trying to get the attention of - every girl is different so the concept of a 'go to move' doesn't really apply.

[_Maya_]

😆😆

[stratford]

My turn to try and make you laugh 😉

[_Maya_]

That was a good one.

[stratford]

Not as good as pass the pickle 😂

[_Maya_]

Lol that was a good one too. 😆

[DaveJord]

@stratford There is wisdom in this... if you think you are picking up on a vibe... take the chance and go off script.

[AlbantheGreat]

Hum... I get to know her, like in an association or at work. My motto, is "fun, interesting, marriage-material". If we click, we date. It takes time, and it's not always efficient (I don't date ladies every week), but it works pretty well.

[Still-alive]

In the past i would go the opposite direction because i was super shy and unconfident in myself.

now though yeah ill just walk up and strike a conversation. ill read her body language if she seems receptive to our chat or not. if she does then i may ask her out.

At least thats what i would do if i was single still hehe ;)

[DryGermanGuy]

I stuff a huge banana in one of my trousers’ front pockets. 🤔

[_Maya_]

😆😆

[Wonderingguyy]

Usually just a smile works. Not too forward or creepy, but shows that your friendly and maybe up for a chat.
If I’m feeling very confident and assess the situation to be appropriate, a good old fashioned finger salute is also a successful one.

[DaveJord]

I like the finger salute... if you got a good vibe. If you think she might be interested, then totally acknowledge her is some way and see what she does. 80% of the time they just look away really fast... but if she waves back... oh, that's a follow up situation.

But just a smile, seriously? You must be a very pretty man. ;)

[BoopBoopBeep]

I usually just say hi. I save the attention getting for the other guys. It just happens more organically with me. Typically by the time I've seen her I already have her attention.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Have none. All the girls that been attracted to me just are.

I'm just myself and try to treat people with respect.

[_Maya_]

Absolutely nothing wrong with that.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Smiling. Quickly build rapport with her and ask her to meet me for drinks and an appetizer; sometime sooner rather than later.

[Longshank]

Be spontaneous as surprise her, shock her but make her feel sexy and wanted, if this is done perfectly you will definitely get the rewards 😂

[Longshank]

Anddddd @_maya_you my dear are OTH 😉

[_Maya_]

Thank ya

[Longshank]

Oh no you are very welcome! Why not let me be your first and give me a follow back! Don’t ask don’t get 😉

[_Maya_]

I follow you and then have to follow everyone. 😆 I just keep it simple and also in control of my DMs.

[Longshank]

I can’t DM You?

[_Maya_]

No one can. There is a reason for that.

[Longshank]

Work hard okay hard…. life’s too short GG keep smiling x

[DaveJord]

LOL... why is @_Maya_ every post you put up you get guys throwing lines at you... who the fuck are you? :)

[_Maya_]

@DaveJord I always say there must be something in the water.

[DaveJord]

I mean your cute @_Maya_ but come on guys... I don't know what you all are drinking... but keep drinking it! ;)

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Make a clever comment, if her eyebrows go up that's the first good sign. A woman's face will always tell you everything you need to know.

[ohsheeT]

I'm just me. I don't have one and would be kind of embarrassed if I did and I wouldn't be able to do it anyway LOL

[TonyMetal___86]

Smile and be nice with her, if i know her well, buy her a candy or chocolates plus juice 😌

[_Maya_]

Oooolala! Candy and chocolates! 💜

[TonyMetal___86]

😁👍🏻

[Sparkie460]

I treat all women the same. It doesn't matter if im trying to date her, which being married im not, or just being nice to her. I treat them with respect. I give women compliments all the time just to make their day a little bit brighter.

[AydenHazor]

I don't have a go to move to get a girls attention. I take the time to get to know them, befriend them, usually cook for them, and if something more comes out of it, great, if not, I've got a great friendship

[Anonymous]

I'm horrible at this. I've only really diveritly walked past her or given her. A smirk. I have been caught staring, which was unintentional, but effective.

[Alex-Snow]

I find something to compliment her about, like her clothing, smile or hair and I'm genuine about it.

[genericname85]

i just try to be around them. not in a creepy way. but find mutual interest and generally try to increase the space that i take up in her life.