I (22) let my boyfriend (28) borrow $750 last year in June he also owes my $200 because he broke my laptop he has only paid me $150 back and has not been making a effort into paying me the rest of my money back. I have been being very patient with him because he has been having a hard time with his bills lately. I told him he could pay me back $50 a month or $100 a month and he still has not given me anything back. A few days I lost my card and I asked him if he could deposit $100 of my money onto his account because I needed to order something for my home. He deposited my money and later that day we got into a argument before he sent me my money a few hours after we made up he told me he spent my money gambling and he would pay me back later on in the day with his winnings. I got really upset and cussed him out because he basically stole my money he told me I’m overreacting and if the roles were reversed he wouldn’t be so upset should I give him more time to give me my money back or break up with him since he used my money to bet without asking?
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The thing about friends, family and boyfriends is that there are no consequences to unresolved debts. You're never gonna see that money again.
Not without a whole lot more crippling fights anyway
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How many more redflags will it take before you leave? This guy must be really good looking or an expert in bed for you to still be sticking around...
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First, never loan money in a relationship especially if you need it.. Second, leave him.. There are too many red flags to count
I doubt you will ever get your money back. It is always a bad idea to mix romance and finance.
Time to ditch him and kiss your money goodbye he'll never pay you back
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