Do you realise that creepy is never about behaviour it's about perception?

[Babygirl_S]

So the same thing done by someone you like is called being cute or flirtation.

A jealous guy recently called me a creep for having a crush on Henry Cavill. So many guys feel like insulting him when they find out that no one likes them the way I like HC but they know he's too famous. So they attack me instead.

In my case it's because of RACISM. I have understood it very well. If I were an ugly girl from another race no one would call me a creep. So I don't take these comments seriously and I know there's nothing I need to change.

[KostasKouvalis]

Your assertion is 100% spot on. I've seen examples of this. Something that's considered "sexual harassment" is considered "flirting" if it's done by a guy the girl finds attractive. It's fucking bullshit! The worst are hypocrites. I had a girl on this website call me a "creep" for doing the same exact shit that she was doing. But suddenly she was better then me, because she got a boyfriend. I have other examples of this. These people are pathetic.

And me too. I've been called creepy for putting Indian actresses and models on my profile. People are fucking pathetic.

[Babygirl_S]

Anyone who is Indian or interested in them is automatically considered a creep because of racism.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, I wrote some celebrity fan fiction on an erotica site and someone posted this comment

"White men are busy being ugly and copulating with dogs so now white guys are trying to miscegenate and racially conquer other races"

It's funny how other races, and even White women can salivate over other races and it's completely fine, but as soon as a White man says he's attracted to another race, he's suddenly a creep with a race fetish. It's absolutely pathetic.

Though in other races I feel it's the reverse, with women being shamed for liking other races, because it hurts the egos of their men.

I was out with my Mexican friend, and I was getting dirty looks from both Mexicans and Whites, who looked as if they'd never seen a White dude with a Mexican girl before.

[KostasKouvalis]

Mexican MEN and White WOMEN were giving us dirty looks

[KostasKouvalis]

Though honestly the vast majority of Indian girls I've interacted with were extremely happy when they found I'm into them

[Babygirl_S]

I can't believe they're calling people dogs just because of their race.

[KostasKouvalis]

For real. WTF did THAT come from? And of course the coward posted that anonymously

[Babygirl_S]

They're always anonymous.

[DextroShade]

A guy is only creepy if the woman doesn't find him attractive, regardless of what he's doing.

[Babygirl_S]

It applies to girls as well especially non-white girls.

[Potteplante]

No.

I've had attractive PEOPLE - be creepy towards me. Creepy is about behaviour from someone who doesn't care they're making someone uneasy or uncomfortable. However, you're right - it is highly indivual on when people feel discomfort or uneasy & something being creepy for one indivual - isn't necessarily creepy for the next.

[Jennz6]

I get it now

[Siri137]

Yes, unfortunately this is true. If you happen to be very attractive you can (in some cases literally) get away with murder, but if you're just average or worse "ugly", then there's no avoiding jail time.

[Wise4myage]

You do seem to be obsessed with Henry Cavill.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes I love him