Why is it that what girls think is creepy tends to differ from what guys think is creepy?

[Anonymous]

I was listening to a coworker say how she fond something a guy did to her creepy and before she said "yeah, it was creepy", i thought, well, that doesn't sound that bad, or it actually sounds kind of romantic

And then she said it, and I'm like "what? why"

[Anonymous]

It's funny I watched a video today about what guys don't understand about what women have to fear when it comes to men. And one of the comments that stuck with me was "guys don't seem to understand the helplessness a woman feels with the knowledge that a guy can hold her down with one hand. So even if he appears to be a good guy she knows he could overpower her anytime he wanted to, if he wanted to. And all I could think is "If that's your view of men why would you EVER date at all"? I mean any woman could ACCUSE a man of rape at any time. But I don't live my life with that fear. If I did I promise you I'd never date.

So this kind of tells you from start point go there are some people that are NOT starting from a healthy place when it comes to the opposite gender. Some people ruled and heavily influenced by fear, paranoia, past bad experiences that they've allowed to fester and infect thier overall beliefs.

[misogynistic_pig]

Women allow "creepy" behavior from attractive but not unattractive men.

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12147-015-9142-5

[jennifer_bloom]

Girls find abuse and arrogance to be creepy and guys find anxiety and depression to be creepy.

[dustybiker]

Men that grew up with woman tend to see the differences a lot easier.

[Bethany22]

Because women are physically more fragile than men

[Anonymous]

Guys have little to no filter when it comes to creepy behavior.