He just doesn’t get it I don't know how to get it to sink in?

[Kelster8822]

So my boyfriend of 5 years lies to me constantly about all these women he talks to and hides EVERYTHING from me. He lies about having Snapchat, says he needs it to talk to his buddy that he talks to on FaceTime all of the time 🧐. I told him I’ve had it with the lies and the cheating and if he wants to stay with me he needs to PROVE to me that his words actually MEAN something. That I’m done hearing what he says when his actions show me the complete opposite. So how do I get it through to him that Snapchat is GONE PERIOD!! And that every so often if I feel like he’s screwing me over again I need him to show me his phone to PROVE that his word is true. Or is that too demanding of me?

[SphynxUK]

Why can’t he have snap chat? He’s an adult and can do as he wishes.
You said he can’t keep nothing from you, so you would know exactly who he’s talking to and when anyway.
If you don’t trust him don’t be with him. It’s that simple.

[devilish-cutie]

Im sorry but you cannot change someone like that, especially if you told him and he is unwilling. He doesn't sound like boyfriend material and you couldnt provide you with what you said. Its better to leave him then.

[richardcory]

This doesn't seem likely to stop. So its up to you whether you want to stay or leave. If its making you unhappy (as it would most people) then you are better off leaving

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why would he change? You've demonstrated that you're going to stick around. If you didn't get the hint in 5 years he's not worried about you getting it tomorrow.

[Nikki1989]

Dump him, then he might wake up to himself.

[spartan55]

He won't take you seriously at this point because you have let him treat you like trash. Either break up or put up with it.

[Avicenna]

I think he won’t take anything you say seriously. You should dump him.

[boobliker]

leave him that will fix it for you but No boy in your life

[Bobbysworld]

Tell him exactly what you wrote and if he doesn't get it. Dump him

[Anonymous]

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