What does it mean when a guy says I guess we can date and see where this goes?

[Anonymous]

Does this mean that he isn't that interested and that he is dating other women? He also wants kids and knows I am 40 so he said he can't take me seriously unless he gets me pregnant. What does that mean - is he planning to just use me for sex?

[RespectfulGuy]

It's unwise to get pregnant in your 40s. May lead to medical complications.

Anyway, is he also in his 40s?

If yes, maybe he's an insecure guy, thinking that "sex with a purpose" can win you over than mere attempt to have casual vain fuck. He could be real. You may need to ask him.

If he's a lot younger, then I think he's just trying his luck to get into your vagina. I don't think he's serious to enter a relationship.

[Asker]

he is in his 40's too

[RespectfulGuy]

If he has a career and is responsible, perhaps you can overlook his apparent lack of confident in relationship.

[barn_stormer]

he'd be a fool to choose a 40 year old in any serious way if he wants kids. he's not that into you.

[Anonymous]

Seems like he doesn’t trust women anymore and is being cautious

[Asker]

thank you, but I dont understand... how is this not trusting women anymore? do you mean women promised him a LTR and kids and they bailed and that's why he wants to seal the deal?

[Opinion Owner]

That sounds very plausible