Boyfriends stopped chasing after winning their girlfriends, do you agree?

[Anonymous]

Just a light discussions or rant, means no harm. It’s not only me as it also happened to most of my friends. At first the “boyfriend” would chase the “girlfriend” and do whatever for her attention and constantly wanted updates but after the boy got the girl, it turned to the other way around. The girls would instead ask them for attention or care more about the guy, wanting the the guy to talk to her more. Even though the guy love the girl, they are just being too chill and thing the guy used to do they just barely do it anymore but I’m not gonna get too detailed about it and the thing is that this happened to every close girls I know that are in a relationship and it also happened to me haha. Do you agree?

[Anonymous]

Because things turn into a routine. It gets boring sometimes. She’s not as exciting as when you were trying to get her, but now that you have her that chase is gone. She stops doing things as well. My girl use to swallow all the time, not anymore. There’s a lot more excitement in the chase w someone new who you’re pursuing.

[MementoMori777]

It does happen because normally the getting to cuff her is the hardest part and once you got her you can relax and not be seeking the approval as much or whatever so I can't say it's not sometimes true that they try less after they cuff the girl.

[LazerBean]

That is mostly a problem where couples have sex before marriage. For men like that who sleep around, once they are getting what they want (sex) they stopped putting the effort in because they know they can get by with it.

[kylee2437]

I agree. And that’s why you never show a guy you are more interested in him than he is interested in you because once you allow that, you are giving him full power to play you like a violin.

[Asker]

Well one of the couple, I’m very close with the “boyfriend” and he’s gonna ask her to get engaged even though he behaved like what I wrote above which I find really funny in guys at this point but you are also right

[kylee2437]

Honestly, any guy can propose but that doesn’t mean he is exhibiting habits of care in a relationship. There’s plenty of married men that are cheaters

[DextroShade]

Wrong, after sex it is the woman's job to keep the man around, because it's the man's job to attain the woman and it's the woman's job to retain the man.

[Anonymous]

Im sure it happens, I wouldn’t say it happens to every relationship. My boyfriend have kept giving the same effort, if not even more.

[Wise4myage]

Its all about the chase for some guys, and girls.

[In_Trance]

disagree