Do men not chase women anymore?

[Anonymous]

I mean why chase them? If a man is onto big things why would he waste his time and energy looking for a woman that will likely add stress/problems to his life.

Men don’t anymore

Men don’t as much

Same as usual

They chase more than ever

[Heartache0405]

I say they don’t anymore because they shouldn’t anymore. I believe this due to personal experience and none of that experience was ever worth it. There is far more to life than women and sex. Yes, they’re attractive and soft and seem kind and gentle. But we all know about the rabbit in Monty python holy grail. 😂 they seem all soft and innocent and gentle and sweet until they use that against you.


I haven’t been chasing women for almost 5 years now. I’ve had 2 girls interested in me and I’ve rejected them both and am currently in the process of rejecting a 3rd without making things awkward at work. And I think there might be a 4th that is also interested but I will reject them too. I’m happy being single. I can’t fathom having another relationship again. I’ve always felt extremely suffocated, and/or trapped in my 4 relationships I have had in my teen years. Sense I’ve hit my 20s I’ve been focusing on myself. My hobbies and my job. I finally have my own apartment. I’ve started driving more even though I have a major phobia of driving. I’m far more independent than I once was and it feels amazing. I will not allow a woman to make me lose my independence

[TheorionMage]

For some, they grow weary of the 'games'...
of women who CLAIM 'they want it ALL and 'freedom'
but can't commit to discerning exactly WHOM they genuinely want
and knowing WHEN its time to get off the 'hook-up's merry-go-round;
for others its just a life's milestone to be checked off
on their 'bucket list'
driven by biological imperative.

[whirled_up_girl]

I kind of think this is one of the reasons dating apps have become popular. No man (or woman) should have to chase after someone for a relationship or to date and no one should have to be chased if they have reasons they want to stay single. As much as I hate to say it at least with dating apps the notion is that person you matched with or howevever it works on the app is at least looking for some type of dating or relationship. Also in most academic school settings and work places chasing after someone can be considered sexual harrassment by both men and women, so chasing after someone in certain settings isn't a good idea anyway.

[Msputiton]

I wish they stop chasing women.
Ask us out. If we say no move on.
But some guys will chase and bother us over and over and over again.
If we say no we ain't playin hard to get

[Asker]

Yet many women play this game of hard to get.

[Msputiton]

They say no move on.
Those women will learn a valuable lesson.
Doesn't mean women like me need to suffer for the women who do that

[Asker]

It’s hard to know if you should move on maybe she’s a little unsure of you. It takes time to build trust with women

[Msputiton]

And this is why we get frustrated, tbh.
A clear no is not interested.
Anything else is the guy trying to make something out of nothing.

And if the woman is playing mind games why would you wanna pursue someone like that?
If they doin it before y'all start dating its only gonna get worse

[bamesjond0069]

Chasing is for cucks. If my good looks, personality and being highly successful isn't enough to have you put effort into getting me, you have mental issues of some kind or we are not a match. Only two options. Now ill put effort into a girl for sure but not chasing. Say you want me, put effort into me too. No stupid games, thats for retards and honestly enough girls dont play games i dont need to waste my time with ones that do.

[Anonymous]

You have a Damn good point. A God damn woman can make you or break you, really fuck you up while you are working on more important things in your life. It is best to get your life set, made and situated before taking on the problem of a woman.

[AngelMegumin]

Your logic goes both ways. So, according to it, there is a point in time, when families become redundant

[MCheetah]

Not as much because dating is a source of depression for men less than a 7, nowadays.

[Dchrls78104]

No (at least I don't), because it's just not worth it.

[Chthou95]

Ever heard of simps? That's all those fucking losers do is chase women

[Browneye57]

No women = no pussy. Loser.

[EaterPeter]

Chase career, have things going on for your self.

[Jmmmfi4]

I agree with you