Why does he notice when I notice another guy when he is just a friend?

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It’s clear we’re just friends.. but when I glance at this other man in our circle he notices and looks at him too. Sometimes I would notice him looking at me but we’re definitely just friends although we hang out alone sometimes..

MJackson1234 · Accepted Answer

We are too old for this question like we don't know that lines can easily be crossed especially with the just friend or a coworker. Unless you are saying you two are just above temptations. We respect out relationship so avoid questionable situations and avoid certain situations. I never get drunk with certain people. Why would I risk my relationship being in a moment where I can't think clearly. Also if they are just "friends" why are you checking them out? It's like checking out your brother or sister. That is just disgusting. I am a complete stranger and you are giving me the vibe that you will cheat on him. So I could only imagine how does he feel. The guy that you can't stop checking out in front of your boyfriend is just a friend that you hangout with all alone. Yeah and I was born yesterday.

Emelina · Accepted Answer

He likes you, and gets jealous that you check out other guys. He doesn't want to say anything bc its going to ruin your relationship that you both have at the present moment, and scared of losing you for good if you have a boyfriend and all goes well for you. My son is going through thesame situation as what you're experiencing 😕. I just told him, just be a good friend and be happy for her, and let her do her own thing with her life, and you will have her as a friend always.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Men are weird a lot of men might like you but they're not ready yet they think very selfishly that you are theirs and you're supposed to know that you're supposed to know that they like you and you're supposed to wait forever for them so when another guy starts talking to you they want to know what's going on thinking that you are theirs LOL

Some will even get pissed off some will even get angry because you're making them make a choice about you that they're not ready for yet LOL they want you but they only want you when they want you or when they know somebody else is going to get you or might be able to get you and you force them to make a choice in their head like I said guys are weird

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Oh man I thought this question was from a teenager or something. It’s cause he likes you. Probably gets a little jealous cause you’re giving your attention to someone else. Rather than being mad at you, which really he has no right to as you two are just friends, he’s mad at the other dudes for taking you from him even though you two aren’t a couple.

KingslayerC · Answer

He wants to get out the friendzone. If you want that too, it's ridiculously easy. A text with "we should go on a date" will be met with 100% success. If you don't want that, a text with "I think I met the perfect guy I'm gonna start dating. I don't want to say too much just yet, but you'd like him" will be met with 95% success in getting him to switch that off. Just accept that he'll probably stop orbiting you, but a normal person sees that as a relief.

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

I once had a friend that made me behave the way your friend behaves. Truth is I liked her a lot more than I revealed and I was scared that if I told her, the friendship was going to become immoral fast and I was going to lose the chance of having a true friend. It was tough but I got what I wanted eventually, a true friend.

Billlewis · Answer

Whether you're friends with a guy or he's your boyfriend, men are always fascinated with your sexual encounters with other guys. For me personally, there is literally nothing more exciting.

spartan55 · Answer

How would he not notice? I don't get what you mean?

Anonymous · Answer

You should bring this up to your friend next time you sleep with him and tell him your boyfriend is onto you

In_Trance · Answer

probably for the same reason you notice him noticing you. You're definitely not just friends

Anonymous · Answer

He is just observant. No point overthink that. You two are just friends.

Anonymous · Answer

Your better off asking him. It shouldn't be that hard, Especially if He Is your Friend.

boggboss · Answer

Why wouldn't he notice it lol

strateguy632 · Answer

only looking no big issue

foxtrotmike47 · Answer

He's probably just observant

Anonymous · Answer

No guy is ever “just a friend”

Talksik6 · Answer

Your giving him head

Why does he notice when I notice another guy when he is just a friend?

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