What does it mean when a guy asks a girl about how many exes she has?

[Anonymous]

Does it mean that he's showing interest in her or could he be asking just as a friend?

[Anonymous]

It could mean a lot of things. It could mean that he wants to see how stable your relationships have been. Meaning was she w 10 dudes in a short period of time or w two dudes over 20 years. I’m more likely to go w a girl who has been w someone longer as opposed to someone who has been w multiple men over a short period of time. Makes me think she’s the reason why all these relationships didn’t last. Also makes me think if she’s been w multiple partners in a short time she’s a hoe. Then I start thinking ok maybe I can just get a piece of ass from her, or at the least her to swallow my load w out committing to her.

[KingslayerC]

He could just be making conversation and doesn't realize that's pretty personal. More often, he's interested and is curious if you're the type he's looking for. Which could be anything from a fling type chick to a LTR type. If you're interested in him, it's best to just be honest so you don't build something on false pretenses that ends up collapsing anyway.

[Asker]

Thank you for your detailed explanation, it helped me understand the situation better :)

He looks like the player type, but I'm not looking for a fling so should I also ask him if he has many exes to confirm it?

[KingslayerC]

Yeah, definitely. No sense wasting your time with a player and he already broke the ice with that type of talk so you're all good to ask.

[KingslayerC]

Oh, and you're welcome. Always happy to help.

[mommymommymommy]

He wants to know if you have a commitment problem, no matter if he likes you or not

[Anonymous]

He thinks you're hoe...

[Berweic]

I dont like