What type of relationship is this?

[Anonymous]

There is one of my classmate. We do chatting on Insta but we never talk face to face cuz we both are introverts (maybe this is the reason or maybe I'm a shy person). He mostly act like he is my boyfriend. He also flirt with me and gets angry on me and so on. Sometimes he ask me my photos (ik that's all guys behaviour). Definitely, I've asked him so many time that he likes me or not, but he never respond. And sometimes if I'll ignore him then he will start saying that I'm cheating on him or I'm talking to other guys or I don't have time for him or I've change and so many things like this. Sometime he ignore me. And the biggest thing is that one day I asked him that what is luv for him, he just simply replied "efforts". I can understand his words but he never shows efforts towards me:( . This was from his side behavior.

From my side I'm so confused that am I in love with him? I always think about him. And whenever I miss him I always find a new message from him which makes me happy. Ofcourse I also flirt with him. N whenever he ignores me I felt bad. But Ik I'm never gonna accept that I'm in love with him cuz I don't have any feeling for him (maybe). And the most important thing is that maybe he thinks that I like him.

I just want to know that what type of relationship is this. He is not even my boyfriend. Am I just attracted towards him? Does he love me too? Why he never say that he loves me? Why he is just making me confuse. We aren't in a relationship so what is this?

[KingslayerC]

Do you have someone older in your life that you can talk with about this? I know this is an advice forum, but it sounds like you would benefit from someone in the real would that you can trust to talk to regularly and give you ongoing directions and advice.

To the question... at this point you should just ask him straight up if he thinks you two are in a dating or girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. And tell him that's exactly what you want. Don't pressure him. Give him room to answer honestly or it will cause a ton of hardship to you both.

[ohsheeT]

This is a guy is not an intervert this guy is a fool.*sorry* but it's true this guy only wants you when he wants you
And then he trys to manipulate you into what he wants
Or he trys to make you feel guilty to get what he wants . The sad part about it is that he is going to miss out on the perfect girl you are more than an introvert your an Empath you feel and see things deeper than most.
And you are real. With a heart to prove it

[Asker]

you are right. I wish I had seen your message on time. He is not right. He talks bad about me with his friends.

[ohsheeT]

Yes this guy here is not right and he would break your heart in so many different ways I would stay away from him don't give him the time of day because if you open that door for him he's just going to keep trying to come through it until he gets what he wants and then he'll slam that door on you

[Asker]

You are right.
I texted him and he is ignoring me.

[ohsheeT]

That's probably what you should do to I know it's hard but something's are just better if you let it go be happy within. And you will attract other guys don't talk any crap about him just let it go

[DarkWinterNights]

Sounds like some communication would clear things up. It sounds like the two of you have some feelings for one another, but you’re a little socially awkward. I would just be direct. Figure out what you two are and where you’re going.

[Gent207-2]

A typical high school-ship? Slight cringe?

Honestly you need to talk about it with him and accept the boundaries of whatever you both are comfortable with.

[kinggeorge007]

I'm not an expert but all I'm saying here is one sided relationship. If I were you I'd leave. It's just toxic. Take care of yourself too.

[boggboss]

Its too people that to some degree liking eachother and wanting the other to make it official

[Asker]

We are talking for 8 months and he didn't said anything till now. And I'm confused :(.

[boggboss]

Him making comments about u cheating on him or not having time for him shows he clearly values the time he spends with you again if you are both shy both are waiting for the ither to put the work in

[Vikkrram]

Can you please send me an DM maam i really need to ask you something please.

[whistlingwh0res]

You are becoming whore fully and he is becoming an thief fully