He was everywhere?

[ArieEira_29]

It is normal that your boyfriend hired someone to watch over you whenever you go? And why he do this things?

[California_Poppy]

RUN, don't walk away from this guy.
He might make it sound endearing but it's not. He's either super paranoid that you're going to cheat or he can't stand not knowing who you're with and what you are doing at all times of the day. Either one is giant red flag.
That kind of controlling behavior will definitely get worse.
Typically I'm not a fan of the 'just leave him' type of answers on these relationship questions because it's not usually helpful and people are not very likely to listen to that advice, but this definitely calls for that.

Do yourself a favor and plan an exit before you are too committed and he gets even more control of your life.

[8UniquelyBoring8]

No, it is not normal for a boyfriend to hire someone to watch over their partner's moves. This behavior is a violation of privacy and trust in the relationship. It can also be a sign of possessiveness and insecurity on the part of the boyfriend.


It is important to have open and honest communication with your partner if you feel uncomfortable or concerned about their behavior. It may be helpful to seek the advice of a trusted friend or therapist to help navigate the situation. Additionally, it may be necessary to reassess the relationship and consider whether it is healthy and supportive.

[Anonymous]

Awe... he wants to protect you! Keep you safe and make sure you're always being watched over 😊

He's totally NOT a total fucking paranoid psychopath

[DrKrieger]

I can't say I've ever wanted to hire a professional stalker to stalk my girl

[kobeni]

lol what the fuck no? huh? This has to be fake

[XXblack88]

No that's beyond creepy.

[Anonymous]

No, that is very creepy.