Why did he glance at me a few times when I arrived and his girlfriend noticed him noticing me?

[Anonymous]

Then later in the evening, in spite of the fact there was plenty of space he walked right into me, brushing past. I was sitting down at the time. He used to stare, tease, make flirtatious comments a lot. But he’s had a girlfriend for months who he chose above me but still carried on with all of this. They spend a lot of time together it seems. But still when I’m around he tries to get my attention (we’re in the same friendship circles)..

[spartan55]

I think your imagination is running wild because you like him. He isn't consciously paying that much attention to you. Much of what you said here involves, assumptions and, intent, not facts.

[Gent207-2]

Clearly you're hot

Wo ask him what's up

[Asker]

Okay but he has a girlfriend and he still behaves like this. Why? And now she’s starting to notice him noticing me..

[Gent207-2]

The presence of his girlfriend doesn't stop his eyes from wandering. So ether he's a player or conflicted.
Just ask him the next time you catch him staring at you - are you okay?
That'll swap him out of it

[Akam93]

I had a married man who's eyes were wondering on me. But I liked him also. So I didn't mind his wife wasn't to happy what he thought now she's afraid she's gonna lose him to me or something.

[Lauliss]

That's really weird, all I'll say is that I feel bad for the girlfriend...

[Tragee78]

Same. Don't worry the asker will 'reap what she sow😂!

[Asker]

What did I do? I was sitting down and didn’t even look at him..

[Tragee78]

Girl, the fact that you cared enough to write a whole question asking us why another women's boyfriend is being flirtatious, etc speaks a lot about your character. You obviously like the attention and most definitely like him.

[Lauliss]

@Tragee78 Indeed, I guess it takes experience to understand.

[Asker]

But I haven’t done anything wrong. I nipped it in the bud from the beginning and told him I’d be keeping my distance..