Would a man, from my age, only stare at a woman with big boobs because of her boobs?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering. Would they make it obvious just to look at the boobs and figure or also the face?
What way does it say, I see more than only your figure and boobs.

I think they would only stare at the boobs, because they like what they see

[Anonymous]

Yes. There are women who men refer to as butter faces. Meaning everything looks good butter face. I’ve met a lot of women w hot bodies who had an ok face who I’d still plow because of their perfect body. So that’s hard to say if he likes your face as wells not knowing what your face actually looks like.

[Asker]

I've never heard about that. Wow. I think I'm like that haha. They'd rather stare at my boobs, then my face. But they also look constantly at my body and then suddenly at my face too. It's weird

[Opinion Owner]

Well like I said no way to really tell w out actually seeing what your face looks like. Do you have a curvy body? How big we taking rack wise?

[Asker]

I do yeah. Not what you normally see, it's not the standard. I am very insecure about it but yeah I live with it..

[Opinion Owner]

Why you insecure about it? Because men stare?

[Asker]

That's indeed why. I can't do anything about it that they are big. It's just the way my body is. I don't know if it's a good thing

[Opinion Owner]

How big we talking? Ok let me ask you this. I mean sure I get it’s hard because you don’t know if they like you for you or your body. I get that. But now if you hadn’t been blessed in this way, would you be complaining that men don’t give you attention?

[Asker]

Way bigger than cup D. That's not even close tho.
That's how big haha.

Yeah okay that's so true! You are right. But even me dancing in public because I listen to music and yet men stare, that's how obvious it is how big my boobs are. It's like they zone out or something like that.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so either you find a way to embrace it, or get a breast reduction. I wouldn’t be insecure about it. I’m sure there’s a lot of women who would love to have larger breast. Find a way to move on from that insecurity kiddo, because in the end you’re going to avoid doing a lot of things in life because of that insecurity. Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed. Would you say you have a cute face?

[Asker]

You are absolutely right. I already did but I don't want a second one.

I don't think so.. I am not attractive. But when I talk longer to a guy I kinda like, they say he still thinks I'm good looking and attractive. I just don't believe it because of my boobs that I think they say it so they think I want more and have some fun with them.

I really don't know how to find out if they mean it 😶

[Opinion Owner]

Well honestly most men gravitate toward women they find attractive. Because honestly what does a man really know about a woman other than what she looks like? Usually nothing. So I kind of wonder if you are pretty. There a a lot of pretty women out there who are insecure about their looks. But only after a man starts talking to you do all the other things become relevant as far as your likes, personality, etc.

[Asker]

You mean men gravitate toward women they find attractive when they only stared at her and nothing else?

Ohh okay that's how I can find it out. That makes it easier to understand and where I need to focus on.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. But here’s the thing that I know you’re concerned about. Does he like me for me or just cause he wants to hook up? That is hard to say as a male cause it could go either way. Just know that he does like you in one way or another. But if you’re getting a lot of male attention chances are you do look good. Like myself, I love a girl w a nice backside. I like tits as well but prefer a better backside.

[Asker]

Omg yeah! I do think about that. I just want that romance one day.

I thought so too that it can go either way. Yeah to think about it like that, makes it better.

Yeah a lot of male attention. But I still think it's another reason 😶🤣

Ohh that's why others like the view. Depends what they prefer. Like a booty? That's my goal too. To achieve a good booty

[Opinion Owner]

So why do you want to achieve a nice ass?

[Asker]

Well when I wear a dress or a pants, then you can see I have a juicy good ass. But now you don't. So that's why 🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Ok so is this for a man’s attention? I’m assuming that juicy good ass is for a man yes? Lol but you’re insecure about your tits? Lol well I wish I could see it

[Asker]

No it's not for a man. It's for me. I want to look better in clothes. I don't like the way my booty looks. I can't change my boobs so I want to change my booty 🤣 it's really that simple for me.

Yeah I am. Because men keep staring at my boobs. And then I don't know if that's the only area they are interested in.
I just don't know what to do at that moment, then I laugh awkward and walk away or look away weird 🤣🤣

Thank you 😜

[Opinion Owner]

Well either way embrace what you have. Work on what you want. You’ll get there. Who knows maybe you’re in my city. Maybe I’ll see that ass one day walking down the street lol

[Opinion Owner]

Have you ever had a long lasting relationship?

[Asker]

I hope so too 🙏

No never actually. Might sound weird but most men I met always had a thing for my boobs and how we were in bed, but then I found out they never really got me and only focussed on what they wanted..

[Opinion Owner]

So were these just hookups? Sounds like it to me if you weren’t in an actual relationship. Not judging just trying to understand you better.

[Asker]

Yeah. Well I also few dates too but never met someone who wanted to know me or just accepted me for who I am.

No they weren't.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. So would I be wrong in saying there’s a low self-esteem level there? I mean I get you feel insecure about your breast, but low self-esteem overall?

[Asker]

Not really tho. I just think they have the wrong person to look at 😆🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Well if a lot of men are looking there has to be something going on there that they’re interested in. May I ask what your race is?

[Asker]

What's going on there? I'm Brazilian

[Opinion Owner]

Meaning she’s more than likely cute. She’s stacked or something. A lot of Brazilian women are hot, got a nice backside especially. So is that true? The backside? If that’s true does that make you feel inadequate to other women who are built that way?

[Asker]

I don't have a good backside haha. I need to workout for it. I don't compare myself to other women

[Opinion Owner]

Well grg forming on that ass lol you can do it. Will tskr time “butt” will be worth it lol

[Asker]

Haha thank you!

[Opinion Owner]

So where don't see what you look like once you've achieved your goal?

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Meaning is there somewhere I can see what you look like?

[Asker]

No I'd rather stay anonymous

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Just asking. I wish you the best w your endeavors.

[Asker]

Thank you! Likewise. It was fun talking to you

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

No. There are not that many men who do that. Women judge all men based on few men. I made it my habit to focus on the face only. Nowhere else.

In fact you can say that I may even move away from women with big boobs as they pose higher risk for me be coined as the kind of person you say.

[Asker]

Oh okay. What do you mean with coined?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

As in, being called or be referred as the kind of person you said in your question.

[Asker]

Oh like that! Thank you for explaining

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I mean, look at it from a guy's perspective na. If a guy gets a brand like this, he is certainly bound to get infamous among the girls as such.

Even the office may react to it. As they are much more on heels when it comes to girls related problems. I think it is better, at least for me, to follow a strict code of conduct when with girls because if a handsome guy says something, it is much more likely to be taken positively as compared to an average guy or a guy whose looks are below average.

They may get called creeps and other things even when they did not mean to.

I overthink too much lol.😅😭

[Asker]

Ohh like that. No I don't mean it like that tho. I just don't get if they would only stare at the boobs or also at my face. If it's only lust for them. I just don't get men.

For me, no matter if it's a handsome man or average, it's the same, I wouldn't like it. I would get awkward and turn around

[Asker]

I don't mind that you want to talk. I overthink too! So you are not alone

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

For me, it is the face only. I have interacted with many many girls in my college. Looking at the boobs never even crossed my mind. I was like, approach her, talk what needs to be spoken, and leave. Completely robotic or business like you can say.

And the girls I got attracted to, even then, did not cross my mind. I was more or less busy looking at their personality rather than their body.

I am 157 cm tall. Pretty short, honestly. And I found girls taller than me attractive as well. So it is not the body for me. And even if it is, then certainly not the boobs lol.

[JeffersonA]

O heck yes at a lot of ages they would. But go for the ones looking at your cute face! Those are the ones worth it.

But from time to time they might look down. Kinda a taught action. Do it all the time with my wife but I'm staring at her eyes at dinner.

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on how horny and immature they are. I've always loved big tits but I rarely ever (IF ever) just sit and stare at them!!