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First of all watch your language. I don't mean swearing either. The word 'objectify' has been deliberately jammed into the collective consciousness of most people in the western world by a very small minority of men and women alike who seek to control the conversation between the sexes. To say it's a loaded word is a significant understatement. For every busty woman who feels 'objectified' by men, there's a man with a fat wallet who feels 'objectified' by a woman. The word is poisonous in the extreme. The purpose of using it is to paint with one brush one half of society as the victim and the other half as the victimizer. Reality rarely works out in so simple a set of parameters. It's used usually by the 'victim' group to try and gain special consideration, 'the upper hand' as it were, in any social interactions. It's used to demand respect. The truth is that respect can never be demanded, it cannot be given either. True respect can only be earned, on an individual basis. When you keep your word, treat others fairly and how you would expect to be treated you earn respect from them. When you use words like 'objectify' you're engaging in a form of social coercion. The 'objectifier' has no choice but to comply with your wishes or face the consequences of being labeled and potentialy ostracized. That's not respect he/she is suddenly giving you it's compliance through fear.
I will be the first to admit, I do like busty women and I find large breasts quite attractive. However I also understand that I'm not perfect and that even though I do like larger breasts, if a woman is genuinely interested in me I will give her a chance and see if we click. If we do then I will accept her for the way she is, I do this because she is accepting me for the way I am, so it is the least I can do in return. Lastly I also understand that there is a woman under those large breasts and I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate me objectifying her. It comes back to her accepting me, if she accepts me then I accept her, and I will always try to be considerate of her thoughts, dreams and feelings.
Objectifying someoen is independent of your preference in the opposite sex. It's more of a cultural thing, a product of the guy's environment/how they were raised whereas them preferring smaller or larger boobs is somewhat random, sort of like their favourite colour. A frame of mind.
When I first got with my boyfriend, he straight up said he was more of an ass-guy, not too crazy about boobs at all. That was back when my own boobs were probably around DD. He loved 'em and still does, but is the last guy I would imagine to objectify a woman based on that. No relation.
Hmm... I wouldn't say that's true... Everybody has their preferences, but I feel like objectifying women falls into a different category (and that those men need to stop it!)
But, I have big boobs, and I get a lot more 'stares' than my smaller breasted friends... Which is sometimes pretty embarrassing and annoying! I think big boobs a just a thing that people can't deal with. But big breasts happen, so I guess the answer is sometimes?
I'd believe that.
Especially if it's like unnaturally big. I mean he can't possibly see her like a person if he wants women to look like that
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I'm fairly endowed and I've definitely had a difficult time dating and trying to find men who want me for more than my boobs. I've finally gotten lucky and found one.
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There are definitely men who prefer big boobs, and there are definitely men who objectify women, and there is definitely some overlap of those groups, but it's not correct to say that "guys who like big boobs objectify women", because that's definitely not always the case, even if it is sometimes the case.
Myself? I love boobs, particularly firm/shapely ones of any size, but I don't date girls because of the kind of boobs they have - I date them because of the kind of personality/attitude they have. If they have great boobs, that's an awesome bonus, but not a requirement by any means.
No matter how nice a girls boobs are, if I don't like her personality, or if we aren't compatible in some way, then her great boobs aren't going to be enough to keep me with her. And vice versa.
So now you preference makes you an asshole? So what if I prefer women with small/average boobs? Why is wanting big boobs a sign of someone objectifying a woman?
If a girl wants a guy with muscle, is that objectifying him too? -_-
I personally prefer small/average boobs, but I won't turn down a woman for having big boobs.
I've read sh** like this too and Honestly I think it's bullsh**
I love boobs.. And I don't objectify women at all.. I have a sh** ton in respect for you women.. More then I have for my own gender...
That study is stupid as fu**
Everyone on Earth has a preference on the genders they're into.. Doesn't make them more inclined to objectify women and those that do.. Are pathetic idiots
I will be honest. I don't get people. First someone posts a question that should women be allowed to remain topless in public and I say no because it is like making them party to their own objectification and I am downvoted because they think it is I because I am some orthodox Muslim who is all about religion. If I say it will lead fat or ugly women into inferiority they again accuse me of being rascist and that I don't want women to become free or that I am one myself.
Now this comes in. The irony. :) want to see the link go ahead it is below with my name.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1678093-should-women-be-allowed-to-go-topless-on-beach
Some do, but I don't think all do. it might just be what they find attractive. To each their own, some like certain things.
Objectifying people is wrong.
Being attracted to certain attributes is natural. Respectfully utlizing or exploring this with others is great.
I have a conundrum about a female friend who happens to also have big breasts. Could you check out my question on my profile page pls?
BS.
Objectifying women and big breasts are not exclusive to each other.
I don't understand objectifying women.
Isn't the whole point to be sexually attracted to a woman physically enough to want to have the sex?
Isn't that the reason women wear high heels, do their hair and makeup and wear sexy clothes so they can attract male attention?
I like breasts... all sizes, it seems. I used to have a preference for busty women but my tastes have diversified somewhat over the years, so I'm finding petite girls as attractive as busty girls... I suppose my appreciation for women has transcended from breast size to other qualities that women may possess, which means that I find more women attractive than I did before...
no no... I'm an equal opportunity objectifier.. No discrimination here.
Guys who objectify women tend to like bigger boobs, that does not mean that guys who like big boobs are all objectifying women. I will say that guys who say bigger is always better tend to be that type of guy though. For normal people there is usually a limit on what we find attractive.
Women objectify themselves far more than any guy does. I mean look at some of the questions that get asked on this site.
Hell the fact that you're even asking THIS question sorta' stands as testament to that.
I would definitely consider it.
As for objectifying, women on either end of a a scale will be objectified more than an average woman. And for the records, studies show women objectify each other as much as men do. It's just evolution.
When it comes to sexual thoughts, all guys objectify women.
Has nothing to do with whether or not they like bit boobs.
u I prefer smaller boobs - I am very content with something in the range of 32A - 34B - and I would never date a woman with DD boobs.
This sounds like nonsense made up by someone that hates men for liking large breasts. That being said, I prefer smaller breasts so I'm ok with it.
Some guys yes. But don't just generalize all. It's like telling all naturally big breasted women to piss off and saying any guy that likes them will only see them as pieces of meat.
The body is an object for the soul. Therefore, people who are attracted to mostly the body of the opposite sex are objectifying, no matter it is male or female. I think.
I read somewhere that guys who tend to be boob guys are more immature. I have natural DDDs and I believe that some men who are more into boobs do tend to be more immature than others. It depends on the guy
I like Bs and Cs. I guess this is true for me. I don't objectify anyone. I have been with what she called double Js.
I like boobs to fit the woman... if that makes sense.
tits are tits. I like them all as long as im able to grab them when we're spooning at night.
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