How do you know if a guy cares about you over text?

Question

He hardly initiates any conversation and Is super busy with his work and We just started talking like more than a week. Should I keep on with the conversation?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Determining whether a guy cares about you based solely on text conversations can be challenging, as it's important to consider the full context of your interactions. However, here are a few signs that may indicate he cares about you:

1. Consistent and meaningful engagement: Even if he doesn't initiate conversations frequently, pay attention to the quality of his responses. Does he engage in meaningful conversations when you do chat? Does he ask questions, show interest in your life, and offer support or encouragement? These can be signs that he cares about getting to know you and values the connection.

2. Thoughtful gestures: Look out for any thoughtful gestures or actions he takes. This can include remembering important details about your conversations, sending you messages or articles related to your interests, or showing concern for your well-being. These actions demonstrate that he is attentive and invested in your interactions.

3. Making time for you: While he may be busy with work, if he genuinely cares, he will make an effort to find time for you. Even if it's not frequent, if he consistently carves out time in his schedule to chat or check in on you, it can be a positive sign.

However, it's important to note that a week is a relatively short time to gauge someone's level of care or interest. Some people take time to open up or may have other priorities that affect their availability. If you're enjoying your conversations and want to continue getting to know him, it's worth giving it a bit more time. However, it's also essential to maintain your own boundaries and ensure your emotional needs are being met. If you feel consistently neglected or unimportant in the relationship, it may be worth reevaluating whether this is the right connection for you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

cares about you if he asks for a pic of your juicy jiggly jugs to beat off to! (Isaiah 27:12)

catiecatie · Accepted Answer

I’m in the same boat with my guy. We are both terrible texters, but we are both better in person. He gets nervous and clumsy when I’m around. I get a little nervous when I’m around him as well. I haven’t seen him in over a month and we haven’t texted in a little over a week. I think we are trying to keep it professional as he is my flight instructor.

hsshannah96 · Accepted Answer

Guys don’t usually show they care about you over text. usually it’s best to not text guys until you’ve been dating a while and then text regularly. Only be as available over text as they’ve been toward you in person

Sanser · Answer

I don't know what kind of relation you have with him but its better in person... There can be a lot of things that make him be like that... Maybe he is not a phone guy... but lets look at this deeply:
-When you both talk does he ask about your day?
-Is he happy or do u feel he is energetic/excited talking with you?
-Does he talk u about how his day was?
-Do you express more atraction towards him than just iniciate the conversation?
-Do you make the conversation charming or just make it a good conver?

About this two last questions, a lot of women think that only talking with him is enought and at the end the conver feels boring and people tend to not want that kind of interactions... One day I met this girl and we talked a lot but she wasn't giving a lot and I got bored, after sometime she asked me why I wasn't atracted and I was like "What? Our convers were boring as shit and I was the only one giving good conver , why sould I keep talking with you when i feel this way?"

But yeah, try to be excited talkin with him and at the end he will be like that even if he is not a phone guy :D

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you want to establish a relationship with someone, relying on texting is extremely foolish. Most of the emotional content of communications is lost when it is converted into a digital format. This is like asking a blind man to paint a picture of an elephant.

SunnyRS · Answer

If you are interested in him or curious about him then yes.
And for your main question, you can't be hundred percent certain that a guy cares about you over text but you can know a little if his responses to your texts mostly don't start with an "I" sentence unless you are asking him personal questions.

DermalPunch · Answer

Texting is not that meaningful. It's a small part of an entire way of relating. If he's consistent and initiates that's good. If the only thing he is good at is texting and it is a text-based relationship like, he is just playing you.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

The best way to know isn’t through your chats but through those random texts. If he’s not that interested in you, he’s not going to go and randomly wish you a good day or something like that.

SolitarySolace · Answer

It’s funny how it’s obvious to me and I’m not even interested in men 😂 if someone continuously texts you on and off daily, it’s a good chance they’re into you. Stupid questions like this make my head hurt

Jessicasmidgen86 · Answer

Impossible. You need face to face interaction. How busy with his work is he? Did he confess that he likes you?

RingOfFire · Answer

"How do you know if a guy cares about you over text?" You don't. Text is fantasy. The only way you can know if someone cares is by spending time with them IRL.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You can't. Texts are emotionless and a pointless way of trying to communicate.

strateguy632 · Answer

if he wrote about the things you talked about.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

You need to have a conversation outside of text. Not talking on the phone or being too shy is not an excuse

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

Your going to have to talk and be familiar with him in person before you be accurate with assume things over text. Of course, that takes some time.

KatherineJ · Answer

I don’t think text can convey anything other than words.

bowenw · Answer

If he cares he should reply and not leave you wondering.

cosmosis181 · Answer

You don't. Guys like face to face physical contact.

ChisRockss · Answer

If he’ll text you saying let me know once you get home from a date with him or work. It shows he cares to the point that wants to know you safe.

Wise4myage · Answer

He takes the time to get to know you, and he doesn't make up excuses.

SoJust · Answer

Mate if you don't cares , you he not cares , because you should know your own value.

spartan55 · Answer

You can't. Texting=fail guaranteed

sheikalana · Answer

When he actually replies to your texts.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Do you know this guy in person?

driven159 · Answer

you can't really know

007kingifrit · Answer

if he responds, he cares

shades777 · Answer

you don't better to see him in person

RHK36 · Answer

Ask him

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes meet

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Um call him!

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