What does it mean when guy thinks he’s not the right fit for me?

[Anonymous]

Also can I change his mind?

[ProbablyClueless]

It means exactly what he said; he doesn't think you are a good fit for his lifestyle. Can you convince him otherwise? Maybe, if your behavior radically changes to meet whatever he is looking for.

[BlackJeep]

It's a nice way of saying he doesn't want a relationship with you.

[Asker]

Because of our different life goals?

[Anonymous]

He's trying to let you down in a nice way. Just move on.

[Asker]

Because of our different life goals?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes.

[Asker]

I told him about my plans (to get my masters i. e study more, get better job and wanting to move abroad). After that he broke things off because of different life goals)

[Asker]

During our date he even asked me if I would like to work or stay at home if I had kids

[Opinion Owner]

His loss.

[Asker]

Can I change his mind? Should I talk to him?

[Opinion Owner]

Go ahead and try.

[Asker]

Why do you think so? Wouldn’t be desperate?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it would be.

[Asker]

Then why do you said go ahead lol

[CallmeTheKnight]

He’s not that into you. Just cut it

[Asker]

Because of our different life goals?

[CallmeTheKnight]

It doesn’t matter. Just leave it be

[honestanswersonly_]

he's not interested and being nice

[Asker]

He’s not interested because he thinks he’s not enough/ can’t give me what I want?

[honestanswersonly_]

Sounds like he's just not into you. Not attracted to you.

[honestanswersonly_]

Whats the whole story

[Asker]

He said “ I strongly believe you’ll meet more suitable guy than me “ I don't know if he felt inadequate or something. He said it was because of our different life goals but he didn’t tell what plans didn’t align

[honestanswersonly_]

Tbh sounds like he's not interested in you. Sorry

[Asker]

Because of different life goals?

[honestanswersonly_]

No sounds like he's just not attracted to you

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[honestanswersonly_]

Sounds like he's trying to let you down easy with a excuse.

Have you acually asked him what life goals

[Asker]

Yeah and he said ” just in general level they don’t align”

[honestanswersonly_]

Yea he's not interested. Move on. His loss

[Asker]

by the way whh did he sent loong paragraph to let me down? He even said ” may god bless you” and ” you’re very nice person and have a kind heart”

[honestanswersonly_]

Yea. He was being nice. Letting you down. Sorry hun

[spartan55]

Nope, not a chance.