What would you do? What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

(F) So this guy and I have been snapping each other for days.
Today he snap chatted me his eye and so did I.

We did that for like a couple of minutes and then he didn’t open my snap even though he was active and his snapscore went up.

I sent a gn snap to everyone and he sent me a blank wall and so did I

He then sent me half side face, so I send him my hair, but left me on delivered, turned off his location and his snap score went up

Updates

10 mo

Is he doing all of this because he is uninterested or is he some sort of a playboy?

should I turn off my location, snap other people and leave him on delivered for some time?

[Anonymous]

This is what a relationship between you two of any sort is being built on? An eyeball, some hair and a wall? I don't know how you found each other or why there’s so much secrecy but it sounds like a big glaring red flag, very strange and unusual on top of that. Cut your losses.

[Asker]

We went to same school together before, I know what he looks like and he does know how I look too, it’s just that we always snapped like shoulders, eyes, hair and all of a sudden he sends a wall on snapchat

[Opinion Owner]

I find that very bizarre, no offense lol I know everyone is different, it just adds this element of secrecy regardless that’s like what gives? Is he trying to sneak around and send these snaps or what? If I were you I’d be super good on talking to him. Like, a wall? A shoulder? Half of face? Do you genuinely find excitement or joy when you open that snap and already know it’s gonna be some random piece of his body with no explanation and no sense to it? This connection between you two is lacking substance and purpose. You can do better than that.

[Asker]

We did talk even though I made the first move and then he talked to me and that was it

[Opinion Owner]

Just saw in another comment your ages, so that text style makes more sense. Not a lot of sense but a bit more lol, the boy is immature, that’s all there is to it. It’s summer, he’s probably off doing his own thing and not looking to invest seriously into you. Keep that in mind next time you make the first move, it’s totally fine do it but be prepared for if they don’t reciprocate, as they may not be in the same place as you emotionally, and that’s ok!

[Asker]

Yes, 16. I don’t know, I just realised I put the wrong age and yeah, he probably is immature and so am I for caring what he does

[spartan55]

Further evidence that Snapchat is the dumbest shit ever.

[Asker]

I totally agree

[California_Poppy]

Tbh he's probably waiting for your nudes

[Asker]

we live in the same city and we seen each other, and nudes in our city are very rare because everyone knows everything

[California_Poppy]

I get that. But I think that even if a guy has seen you naked, he still wants your nude pics.
I get the impression that that's one of the big reasons men even use SC

[Asker]

We are 16. He wouldn’t think, or even ask for nudes because he would already know the answer. Should I ignore him too?

[California_Poppy]

Yeah. If he's not responding to you, don't bother continuing to pursue him.
And yeah, def don't send or receive nudes at your age.

[Asker]

do you think he feels pursued by me, if so why?

[Asker]

and yeah I know, sending nudes in general is very bad and can leave you with big consequences

[California_Poppy]

Ummm... Maybe. I don't know what's normal with your generation and I don't know your relationship with him. But it sounds like he is initiating the snaps, so maybe he is interested in you? I'm not sure.

Are you guys having a conversation with these snaps? Because look at it this way,
If you are snapping the same thing back to him, he pretty much knows what the snap will be before he opens it, right?
If he is busy having a conversation with someone else, it's not really pressing for him to return to the forehead photo. Ya know what I mean?

If you like this guy, strike up an interesting conversation with him in these snaps. Snap what you are doing or something interesting.
I could see how a back an forth between you two of random things can get repetitive.
Making it more interesting might help to keep the conversation going. But again, I'm not suggesting nudes. Yes, like you said, it's risky, but it's also illegal for minors to do so in a lot of states. So it's not a good idea.

[Asker]

I get your point like, he knows what will my snap be and I do know his too, half side face and probably no text or question but the the thing that bugs me the most is that he turned on and off his location, and left me on delivered while his snapscore goes up, that means he’s snapping with other people but not me

[ashish804]

he got someone to sext

[Asker]

what do you mean?

[ashish804]

he is getting someone to chat where he can get more satisfaction

[Asker]

What would you do?

[ashish804]

talk where i get it more

[ashish804]

anyone would like getting satisfied

[Asker]

do you think he snapped me before just because he would get satisfaction, and not because he likes me or anything?

[ashish804]

he was in a chance that u could get naughty

[Asker]

Really?

[ashish804]

yeah

[Iron_Man]

And your point

[Asker]

is he doing all of this because he is uninterested or is he some sort of a playboy?

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’s just playing around

[Iron_Man]

Ask him

[Asker]

playing around as in “I don’t care about you” or like “I’ll turn off my location, snapchat others and see her reaction”

[Iron_Man]

You probably just met right he doesn’t know you it’s just horse play

[Asker]

we snap chated for like 1 month, even tho he did remove me 1,2 times

[Iron_Man]

Immature guys

[Asker]

I get that he is immature but what actions would be immature for me? Like caring for that or

[Iron_Man]

If you don’t wanna do that just show your whole face just have a normal conversation

[Asker]

Isn’t it normal for people such as our age, 16 to snap random things even without conversation?

[Iron_Man]

You’re 29 years old

[Asker]

I am 16 years old

[Iron_Man]

16. Your profile is wrong change it.

[Iron_Man]

No wonder you’re a kid

[Asker]

I asked for them to change my age and they still haven’t

[Iron_Man]

you have to talk to an administrator? If you need help, I can mention him.