What would you do in this situation? please read below?

[Finchie40]

Girl I been dating has been giving me a runaround with her emotions to the point I feel like a convenience to her and feel like I am dating my ex somewhat , we have are ups and downs but for the most part we have a good connection but not the greatest we tend to butt heads but over stupid things , I am still trying to balance it out , this past week things have been good between us , the sex has been amazing and I was feeling her and I got even closer , but now she tells me yesterday that she loves me and that I am amazing in bed but she doesn’t really feel passion with me but I am a great guy and that she isn’t seeing anyone else and not thinking of anyone else but doesn’t know what’s wrong with her and why she is feeling this way , I didn’t yell at her and told her what does she want to do? , she said she still wants to be with me but she also wants to get help , I was at work so I told her we would talk later when I got home. When I got home I sat down with her and asked her if she wanted to talk and she said No , that everything is fine and she wrapped her arms around me and kissed me, Now I am feeling this girl is a basket case and now don’t know if I want To be with her anymore, my passion for her has faded now that she told me all this , like I feel is it worth it for me to hold on to her , What should I do? I do like her but I am also scared to give myself completely to her , I can’t be another punching bag to someone but then I feel that maybe I am being selfish if I don’t. Bottom line Relationships suck ,

[DizzyDesii]

You shouldn't sex her anymore until she talks with you. I dont have time for that hot and cold shit. She sounds like she's tempted to cheat or she sounds like she's not sure if she really loves you. If the sex was lacking, she should just suggest trying some new things or some shit. But she definitely lied about one of those statements above

[Finchie40]

Which statement do you think she is lying about? And part of me feels like she is breaking away from me in a calm way , like she is scared that I am going to go ballistic on her and I told her that is not the case what so ever , I told her I would be hurt but know I can’t force her to be with me or want to be with me , I said if you are not happy in this relationship then let’s go our separate ways , shit happens it’s better than faking it or pretending and stringing someone along and using someone until something better comes along , I told her go be free if that’s what she wants but she says she doesn’t want that , So what am I suppose to do? Just sit here and pretend everything is ok and be her wind up toy? Part of me wants to go meet someone else honestly I hate to sound that way but I am tired of games in relationships , you either want to be with me or you don’t is the way I look at it , i am not a fucking convenience of you want to treat me like one then I will do the same , I don’t even think I want a relationship anymore the way people treat each other these days , but I love sex to much lol And only sex with someone that just wants me , I just need a girl that wants to suck and fuck lol FWB’s NSA , cuz I am tired of this mixed emotion shit and games. I know I am somewhat talking out my ass but I am just so frustrated why people do this kind of shit to people that treat them good

[DizzyDesii]

Im not sure what she's lying about but she may fear commitment. Either way, no one had time for people who are not sure of what they want. I want someone whos decisive

[Juxtapose]

If she starts doing that crazy woman stuff where she is hot and cold and doesn't make sense then you better bet your ass you can't give yourself emotionally!

As soon as you let down your guard all that warmth is going to vanish, that has been my experience in scenarios like that. Maybe I am wrong, but I can only speak based on what you have told me.

[Finchie40]

No I hear ya brother , same way I am feeling , she either wants me or doesn’t is that way I look at it , I am not a fucking convenience, if she wants to treat me like one , I will do the same in return , I am just tired of games , I think I am done with relationships I need to find a FWB’s with no strings attached. Cuz the drama that comes with relationships is not worth it , I am not a fucking punching bag or a wind up toy , I put my foot down to her and told her if she doesn’t want to be with me then move the fuck on , she said she doesn’t want to leave me , then I said well I am not going to stay with someone that can’t give me the same in return , life is too short to settle for convenience is the way I look at it , I told her I like her and care about her but if I am not getting in return of what I am giving then I am going to move on , when I tried to talk to her she said we are fine that she doesn’t want to talk , so I am like ok so now I am just supposed to pretend that never happened lol I don’t know what I am going to do honestly

[Juxtapose]

"Cuz the drama that comes with relationships is not worth it , I am not a fucking punching bag or a wind up toy"

Boy do I feel that..

"when I tried to talk to her she said we are fine that she doesn’t want to talk , so I am like ok so now I am just supposed to pretend that never happened lol I don’t know what I am going to do honestly"

All you can really do is not fall into the trap unfortunately.

[Juxtapose]

Hopefully you can find a fun woman who is not a drama queen.

[RobT312]

Basically she said, you’re nice to have around until I find the right guy.
F that!
talk to her, but if it were me I’d get ready to move on...