I was talking to a guy for a month and we were supposed to go on a date. We had a great connection and he kept saying how excited he was to meet me. The day of the planned date he asked to take a “rain check” because he got some bad news from back home. He eventually told me after I reached out to him to see how he is doing that his dad got a rough diagnosis and he went back where he is from for a few months but he is coming back here. He also said that he missed me. Whenever I reached out to him he said he missed me but he never reaches out to me anymore ( which is understandable, it seems like a rough situation). This last time I reached out to him he made the “sorry who is this? I lost my contacts” excuse which is what I say when I delete someone’s phone number. I said that’s what I say to people when I deleted their number and he didn’t reply so I’m pretty sure he just deleted me from his contacts. Why would he delete my number? I didn’t ask much about the situation because I didn’t want to overstep. Do you think he thinks I didn’t care about him when I didn’t ask details? I know this isn’t the right time to date but why would he just completely erase me from his phone? He acted very interested before all of this and either way I still feel like we were also great friends.
No, you cared and showed enough interests, but he must have lost interests for reason and he did lie about losing his contacts, so the hell with him.
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He lost interest. I don't know why.
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