Guys would you be bothered if your girlfriend wanted to stay friends with a guy she once hooked up with?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

We wouldn’t even be together. Because for one they have a history, so the minute something goes wrong between us to where she’s feeling vulnerable there’s a chance she’s going to talk to him. He’s going to play the role. How I’m a jerk, how he would never treat her that way, if she needs anything call or message him, etc, etc. Then one thing could lead to another. Besides if she had a hookup w him that means she wasn’t even involved emotionally meaning she’d just sleep w some random dude, which could be him again.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Professional associations are okay. Some of us are from small circles, there's a lot of "crosstalk". Wishing birthday/Christmas wishes and whatnot are fine. The occasional text, but certainly not whole conversations when her time is supposed to be with me. If she's going to ask to hang out with them, let's see how she feels about me hanging out with my exes. More than anything I will not suffer hypocrisy.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't think it would particularly bother me, but I would wonder why. Most women get really weird about holding onto relationship with other men when they start dating someone new, so it would be extremely unusual for a woman to want to complicate her romantic relationship by staying in touch with another man she's had sex with.

[Reorx]

No, I trust her until she gives me a reason not to; if she still has eyes for other men after running my gauntlet she's free to go, just don't expect to be welcomed back after she chose to leave.

[MementoMori777]

nah id make her choose, whatever way it goes ill be okay with

[mommymommymommy]

Why she'd want to, is what id be wondering, but, id "let" her.

Thats my prerogative

[BlackJeep]

I would pass on her. I don't need that kind on nonsense in my life

[spartan55]

I wouldn't be having that.

[slatyb]

That depends on how friendly she is going to be.

[awsamb]

I’d be bothered. And I’d have no issue telling her

[Anonymous]

Yes I would, because I wouldn't see the point in her staying in touch with an ex.

[ashish804]

ofcourse as she may get aroused another time

[SnowedIn]

Nope.

[dudeinohio]

Yes definitely