Guys, would it bother you if your girl were still friends with some of her previous boyfriends or friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Yes…. I’m not saying people can’t be friends a girl with former friends with benefits…. Yeah no that’s a no I don’t care if she’s still friends or not.

People can in some cases be friends with exes assuming they’re both mature some people do have a lot in common but aren’t compatible for a relationship. If she’s not still attracted to him that’s one thing.

At the end of the day a relationship comes down to trust. I don’t want to be with a woman I can’t trust period. I don’t want to have to question whose she’s with, who she is talking to, etc. That is just miserable if I can’t trust someone they’re not being in a serious relationship with me.

I can’t stop someone from cheating no matter how many rules I make. I know that… A cheater will find a way to cheat.

[Anonymous]

I think it would bother a majority of men, especially if they’re the dominant type. A man who isn’t really a dominant type would probably not have issues w it because he’s be more worried about losing her if he puts his foot down that he’s not ok w it. There’s a chance that if things went wrong w them she’d go back to her male “friends” to talk to them about it. But we pretty much all know as men that male “friends” are usually just trying to fuck or get in a relationship w their female friends, especially if she’s cute. Men who have self respect aren’t going to sign this deal in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

I would NEVER date a woman who I knew ever had friends with benefits.

As far as past boyfriends, it would depend on them and her attitude towards them. No relationship can exist for long without trust. Does she give me reason to trust her? If not it's not going to work out. Also, what is his attitude towards her. If I suspect he has anything but platonic motives towards her it's going to be a problem. Because beyond trust in relationship "RESPECT" is needed. She needs to respect my feelings and I need to respect hers. If I tell her I don't trust him, she needs to respect my take and stay away. The same goes for me. A man does not give his woman any reason to doubt he has eyes for any woman but her.

The answer to your question lies somewhere between respect and trust. And if an agreement can't be reached then the two might just have to accept they're not right for eachother.

[MrChinaski]

It seems like the hallmark of a healthy, well-adjusted girl. Some guys are weak and will feel vulnerable, though.

[jahaims]

Obviously red flags. I wouldn't date someone who was broken enough to have friends with benefits

[zombiewoof]

I would hope she is, i am friends with most of mine

[MrChinaski]

Finally... I find a fellow traveller.

[exitseven]

yes, it would bother me a lot.

[In_Trance]

That is an absolute deal breaker