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I consider it a GOOD thing if a prospective partner has friends. Opposite sex friends will, if anything, give you a better idea of how their sex thinks and operates. What's the harm? They might want to have sex with her? So? Are they going to RAPE her? That's not what friends do. Was there some big event where all of humanity collectively traded in their ability to say no to the prospect of sex, and I was just out sick that day? A partner who's loyal to you won't cheat on you; a partner who isn't loyal isn't loyal, regardless of whether temptation occurs or not.
In fairness, I'll point out that I did, for a while, encourage one of my girlfriends to make more female friends, but that was because ALL of her friends were male- that didn't bother me in itself, but she seemed to be developing some nasty attitudes about women, which would NOT have done her self-esteem any favors.
Every time I see a girl with lots of guy friends, I always wonder why. ESPECIALLY IF SHE DOESN'T HAVE GIRLFRIENDS. It doesn't bother me that much. I just know what my friendships with women are like, and there's always been so much drama that I don't honestly enjoy interacting with most women enough to want to do it on a solely platonic-friendly level very often. Most single guys I know don't keep casual female friends around for that same reason.
So when a woman is a regular in a group of guys... I just have to wonder.
I would for sure care if my boyfriend had lots of girl friends. Call it insecurity or trust issues. You can trust your boyfriend/girlfriend but you can't trust that their friends would never fall in love and see your boyfriend/girlfriend in a different light
That’s one of the reasons I got dumped in 2018. I went to a church where most of the late teens to mid 30s adults were men and the guy I dated thought I had too many chances to cheat on him since I had so many male friends from church.
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Well even more people to judge if you can trust and understand. So it's harder to trust her because of all extra job to screen her friend group for red flags. It's easier to not take the risk. You will probably be friend 1.
It depends on the circumstances and what sort of contact she has with them.
What we know is that women can and will fuck any guy they want, any place they want, any time they want. Just ask them.
You want guys around as a backup plan, in case he doesn't work out. Guys would do well to adopt the same approach.
As long as she's loyal and still tending to me while I'm home on my ps4 and paying the bills, she's free to be with any friends at her discretion.
I agree with you if it's a healthy, intense sexually, trusting relationship there should be nothing to worry about.
I’m kool with it but I did make Some of my friends break up with their boyfriends (wasn’t my intention).
If the girl wants to cheat she will do it. Male friends will not do shit
I wouldn't be cool with that now if she had like 1 or 2 it wouldn't bother me but a lot of them yes it would
When we were dating she did have a lot of guy friends. It didn't bother me.
I would not date a girl who had a lot of "guy" friends.
Why would that be a reason to mistrust someone?
It depends on the guy and guys in question
Red flag
Would not bother me one bit.
Nope
Yes I would. I'm a jealous person.
yeah it would bother me
Nope.
NEVER.
Not at all
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