If your girlfriend doesn't want to go to parties, is that a deal breaker?

[Anonymous]

If your girlfriend cares about you A LOT, but she doesn't like to go to parties with you or hang out with you and your friends at parties, would that be a deal breaker?

Would you consider it some type of rejection?

[RainyDayMan74]

I wouldn't call it a deal breaker. He probably just wants to show you off in front of his friends to show them what a wonderful woman he has in his life. There is a chance that he could interpret this as "maybe she's ashamed to be seen with me." You should talk to him to make sure that he's not feeling that. Have you considered maybe going to just one party?

[Asker]

OOOHHHH

I see

I don't want to go to parties but I've heard the terrible things that he's done at them.

[drummerdude25]

Maybe that's a sign that he's not the right guy for you then...

[Asker]

Well, he might be my boyfriend but that doesn't mean I want to marry him and mother his children. I'm young, I just want to have fun for now.

[Americanman]

I honestly wouldn't be very happy if I had a girlfriend that didn't ever want to hang out with my friends. If he's into partying and you're not that could turn into a big problem later in the relationship. I'm not telling you to go party with him, maybe you just need to find somebody you have more in common with.