24 year-old guy who's never had a girlfriend and looks younger than his age.

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As the title states, I'm 24 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands or gone on a date, and no girl has ever shown the slightest interest in me. I'm also currently attending college, just so you know.

I'm not exactly handsome in any way, just average, I suppose. The thing that bugs me, though, is that I look way younger than 24, and I've been getting more self-conscious about it lately. I can pass for 16 or 17. I have a small frame and I'm not really that tall. Some would say that I'm going to enjoy my youthful looks later down the years, which is true, it'll be sorta nice, but I think it'll hurt my chances of ever being in a relationship with women my age and older. They'd probably feel awkward being around me because of my looks. I know if I ever tried going bars/parties to talk to girls it will end in failure since they won't take me seriously (I don't go to them, anyway..not my thing).

I also have a somewhat dorky/quiet personality, so couple that with my appearance and I end up giving off a 'little brother' vibe. It's not like I look like a little kid or anything, I mean, I wear jeans, sometimes cargo pants, and regular shirts (and the occasional band shirt), and my hair is short.

For the most part, never having had a girlfriend doesn't bother me much. I know you don't need someone else to validate your existence, and I certainly don't want a girlfriend just for the sake of saying I have one, but I gotta admit, every now and then it'll bum me out late at night thinking about it, or when I go to the theater and see couples there.

Any opinions/advice from girls on this? Would you ever go for guys like me? Thank you for your time. :D
24 year-old guy who's never had a girlfriend and looks younger than his age.
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