Would you have a problem with your girlfriend being stronger than you?

Question

I’m stronger than my boyfriend physically in a lot of areas except arms and shoulders and he doesn’t care, actually thinks it is hot. What is your opinion? Would you feel imasculine? And I’m not saying she is going to look masculine, she’s just fit and strong. I’m not asking about appearance.

Would you have a problem with your girlfriend being stronger than you?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

tbh if the guy is easily intimidated or insecure , maybe. but why would you want to be with someone like that anyway? the same way if my boyfriend was better than me at say cooking, would i feel bad about that? no i dont care that much really. being strong and fit is good for everyone , man or woman.
and hey you sound alright i mean if your arms and shoulders aren't stronger it must be your lower body right? most women work out their lower body where as men mostly work out their upper body.
maybe its bc men like to be the dominant one or whatever so they would like to be strong, but ehh that still shouldn't be that big of a problem.

Leafpool2 · Accepted Answer

Never. The only people who would are cowards.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Those men who answered "No" are all desperately lying! Majority of the voters are from 3rd world countries trying to get greencards.

DrinkJavaSeeSharp · Accepted Answer

You having a boyfriend just breaks my heart.. And that of a lot of guys here..

englisc · Answer

Yeah I would. Strength studies using hand grip strength as a measure - with grip strength being a good indicator of overall strength - show that 90% of women score lower than 95% of men. Even with elite female athletes in sports that require good grip strength such as Judo score in the lowest 25% of men - below the average untrained man.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17186303

So if a woman was stronger than me, especially a woman who isn't an elite athlete, unless I had some kind of disability yeah I'd have a problem with being so weak.

Funerestle · Answer

It wouldn’t bother me, I’m fit and reasonably strong, but so is my wife, actually she is fitter than me, and her lower body much stronger than mine. I love it, because we play fight often, and she uses her lower body to her advantage with locks and holds that I can’t escape, I guess it is also because she is more flexible. All thumbs up👍 with me.

Hope I was of some help

Nik1hil · Answer

i will not be a problem , but i will like to know how.. because, it is not possible, i am crazy strong them most women..

it is possible if she hits gym etc..

it will not hurt my masculinity , neither will i feel emasculated..
instead it will be fun since i can take a strong girl to events like shooting range, since she can handle a bullets recoil..

Leo3572 · Answer

Yes. I would think I'm doing something terribly wrong and start working out a lot more. Luckily it's unlikely this will ever happen to me. Maybe when it comes to the butt or maybe a little little bit to the legs, but that would be oke since booty and leg workout is well known to be feminine and so are those muscles.

Buckzor · Answer

Meh, im not overly strong but I still think it would be unlikely my girlfriend would be stronger than me, obviously possible, just dont see it.
If she were? Id be pissed and train to make sure I end up stronger 🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, because they only way for that to be possible would for her to be a man... and I'd have a problem with my girlfriend being a man...

Now if you said ''strong'' then sure, no problem. I take it your boyfriend doesn't train if you are stronger than him.

Fbomb · Answer

My girlfriend had me pinned last night for 15 minutes straight. She even slapped me around a little bit. And to top it off she only weighs about 110 lbs! The view in the mirror looked like a cavewoman wrestling a mammoth.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

No problems. We are not in a competition with each other, nor do we have a violent relationship. Thinking about it, a strong female partner would be of advantage: I'd have an excuse not to carry the shopping bags for example... ;)

rmgnow · Answer

You say you're stronger that your boyfriend, but you posting this leads me to think that he is mentally stronger than you.

Dutchman90 · Answer

Not sure, but Id say that the guy should be able to defend his girl. It is more about if you dont mind I think :) I do wrestling, and I love fitness so I cannot replace myself in his position. Strong girls are hot tho...

MayBlythe · Answer

I am also one of the more physically strong women, and my fiance doesn't mind one bit

herguy · Answer

Personally I wouldn't like it. I have nothing against girls being strong, but I am a dominant guy and I like skinny, lightweight girls who are into being dominated..

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

No and yes, i would love to have a healthy girlfriend but im the man, i need to be the responsible "man of the house" and dont take this the wrong way you feminists

Demised · Answer

No. I actually watched a clip a friend of mine sent me where a muscular gal wearing a pink tank top n red cap is posing. Man... i instantly fell in love. Like wtf? I dunno wheres she from but i would love to marry a gal like her 😊

Jam321 · Answer

I have a girlfriend who is taller and stronger than me. And first of all, remove this girl's photo as strong.

Avallach · Answer

You are going to get all asnwers "I dont care", although immature guys do care and lie, mature ones honestly dont have anything negative with that

BigRob420 · Answer

It's like dating taller women. You gotta care more about feeling special than care for your S. O. for this to matter.

errez · Answer

I wouldn't have any problems with that. In fact, I think that this is pretty (and) sexy. :) Plus, this girlfriend probably won't stay stronger than me for long!

BlackSunAeon8 · Answer

I’m shocked how many guys said no. I think it’s embarrassing and pathetic considering what opportunities they are passing up with the male body. Men need to be the strong one to protect their girl.

TallAnon · Answer

Yes, but only because she would actually be a creep at that point.

I fought girls who competed in world championships of martial arts before and that wasn't a big problem for me. If she is stronger than that, that would not be normal.

CluelesslyClueless · Answer

I'm pretty huge, so she'd have to be jacked. At that point it gets into the realm of gross.

torwulf · Answer

Wouldn't care, but that would never happen. The percentage of women on earth who are stronger than me is probably in single digits. Maybe a larger percentage competes in leg strength.

Anonymous · Answer

Strength have literally nothing to do with relationships haha... I really wouldn’t mind dating a guy weaker than me

Dchrls78104 · Answer

If she's devoted and supportive, I wouldn't care. If she's disrespectful and abusive, I wouldn't be there.

Mikey81 · Answer

That's fine to me☺ Strong girls are really sexy and have georgeous bodies. Beeing physically challenged by a girl is a major turn on to me.👍

tzdc21 · Answer

Only if she frequently rubs it in my face or something. But other than that, not really

Edanurus · Answer

So your saying your stronger than your boyfriend apart from in upper body strength? That's normal, isn't it, I always thought that's the way it is?

Anonymous · Answer

Your boyfriend must look like a 10 year old. Since men are stronger than women. As for me personally, its not really possible, I am a 250 lbs guy and I have been a big guy always, stronger than most other guys, not to mention girls

MindTime · Answer

Wouldn't matter to me, so long as I could help her in other ways

MarkTwain · Answer

unless I have been in a catastrophic thing where I was left disable than, it's ok, but anything other than that No.

jesse1997 · Answer

Why would I be? Then she could do all the heavy lifting 😂😂 No, seriously now... I wouldn't care, as long as she doesn't rubs it in

BeenShook · Answer

It's not a deal breaker or anything, but I'd be motivated to get my ass to the gym again

TsubasaCorrupted · Answer

My girlfriend can kick my ass, fix my car and do home repairs. I have zero problem with it.

Midwestmind · Answer

Well I’m not saying I’m the strongest but I haven’t been with anyone that was stronger than me

MarkTheory · Answer

I'm not saying I'm super strong but I regularly lift so if she was stronger the me she'd look like a brolic betty so it's a no from me

Anonymous · Answer

Well I'm 6'3" and 220 lbs, so a girls who is stronger than men would not be very attractive just by virtue of her physical size.

ParsnipDuck · Answer

if they have massive bulky arms and legs its unattractive

Toughdeer · Answer

I'm really strong, I WANT mine to be stronger so we can fight each other.

ThatWeirdDude · Answer

You can start a fucking competition on who is the strongest lmfao

UniqueUsername132 · Answer

I'm so week I would be severely limiting my options if I cared

bakedgoods · Answer

I dont care less for me to do but a woman stronger than me odds unlikely to find someone like that

Skullpool · Answer

I guess I'll never find a women stronger than me, so, I can't really know if I would like to or not :/

Slim57 · Answer

I said no at first but then I thought about it and I kinda would be

MyDutch · Answer

It shouldn't be an issue at all! It'd probably even be very amusing.

Anonymous · Answer

Not if she uses her strength to hold me down and tie me up in the bedroom.

MrNameless · Answer

I'm guessing you squat and deadlift?

bacca400 · Answer

No. She can help me carry pavers and furniture.

Duvet · Answer

Like you squat and deadlift more than him?

alice55 · Answer

Personally I would not date a man weaker than me.

mike5150 · Answer

Nope doesn't really matter

IKissedAGirl · Answer

No I think that would be really attractive

HatingMySelfUsually · Answer

Kinda prefer it tbh lol

Agent · Answer

That actually is kind of hot tbh.

Krimsonkoolaid · Answer

Emotionally or fiscally.

TiredLesbian · Answer

No, I love strong women.

Nightflight95 · Answer

Strong girls are hot!

HeyThere94 · Answer

My girlfriend is stronger than me

MidnightCowboy · Answer

Not at all, I love stronger women

thehappyguuy23 · Answer

I am stronger than Hulk. So she doesn't exist!

lsaiah · Answer

No such thing as a girl stronger than me

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