Is it a red flag if a guy lies about their virginity?

[MementoMori777]

if a guy lies to a woman that they aren't but they are, cause its the advice id get from people, is to lie about it, i know it sucks for the woman straight up cause i know she's expecting a "good time" i guess, is it a red flag in dating tho? cause i know lying isn't good but if it comes from shame then its more of a fib no? im just asking, dont bash on my innocent little soul 😇😂

[beautyjoyfover200]

I mean if you can't be honest about if your a virgin or not then how is it supposed to be fun with sex. I wouldn’t care if you are but don’t lie about it. The whole point is to be open and honest while being intimate with each other etc and if you don’t know anything that when help of guidance comes from your partner and have fun experiencing those things together.

[MementoMori777]

I've heard around that it turns women off or they seek experience in a partner, even some virgins tbh so it kinda strangles hope for a while to think of that 😂

[beautyjoyfover200]

Yeah true too. I guess it depend on the person kind of thing

[MementoMori777]

yea that sucks

[LostandFound__x]

Definitely!!! But to be fair I never ask guys. I'm too jealous to know about their past love lives. I like to think I'm their first, last and one and only lol (if I like them and I'm dating them of course).

[MementoMori777]

fair enough, then maybe its not the best choice to listen to this advice i have been given

[LostandFound__x]

In my opinion a good time comes from chemistry and passion.

[MementoMori777]

well of course, thats something we can agree on, thats what makes it love making i guess but it seems many people nowadays look for the wrong things in it but im glad women like you exist, i wish there was more

[LostandFound__x]

I think a lot of mature women have the same mindset as me. If they don’t they haven’t matured yet

[MementoMori777]

then they haven't matured yet lol but i appreciate the advice, thanks 🙂💯

[es_annie]

Yes, if I was put in a situation where the guy lied about me being a virgin I would be upset solely because I’m wary of STDs.

[MementoMori777]

the guy lying about you being a virgin? im guessing you had a typo annie? 🙃

[es_annie]

Oop—that’s a typo for sure, I did as I played HL

[MementoMori777]

so if a guy was a virgin and lied to you that he wasn't, it would bother you annie?

[es_annie]

I misunderstood thought if he lied about being a virgin

[MementoMori777]

yep so how would you take it Annie? how would you feel, give me a glimpse into the annie brain in this situation lol

[Anonymous]

You shouldn’t lie, because it doesn’t really matter there’s guys that aren’t virgins that suck in bed. I guess if you don’t know her well and she doesn’t ask you don’t need to say anything.

[MementoMori777]

i dont do hookups, so i know at the moment it happens, she will most likely have to know, i dont plan on doing so but i can't say it doesn't somewhat tempt me to make things easier

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no if you plan a relationship with someone then starting with a lie will make everything more complicated not easier.

[Opinion Owner]

You shouldn’t feel shame because it’s your choice to be a virgin until it feels right to lose it.

[MementoMori777]

yea you are right anon it just seems somewhat shameful in a way, it looks just plain and boring i guess, i think a male virginity is repulsive to people, i guess cause it always seems like its not by choice which puts me in the spot that people assume nobody wants me so it turns people off i guess, I don't know why people are repulsed by it, i just know they are 😐

[MementoMori777]

😂**&

[JoyGirl]

Definitely a red flag. 🤡

[MementoMori777]

dont 🤡 me 😂

[JoyGirl]

I will, because you are a clown. 🤡

[MementoMori777]

am not, im a joker, its better than a clown 😒

[JoyGirl]

You can’t be joker. 😡

[MementoMori777]

yes i can only cause it pissed you off 😂

[JoyGirl]

😡😡😡

[MementoMori777]

heeeheeeheee 😈

[jahaims]

Lying is a red flag period

[MementoMori777]

understood lol

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is

[MementoMori777]

fair enough bro

[Iron_Man]

Thanks