How much rejection from a woman changes guys?

[Anonymous]

[inhua]

there's no exact number because each rejection can be different ranging from small lies like "I already have a boyfriend" to rude recommendations like "fuck off go kill yourself" to creep shaming etc.

eventually rejection from women should change guys and they should rightfully change because as Albert Einstein once said, "insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results"

for example if a gentleman keeps getting rejected by women but he clearly observes bad boys/fuckboys attracting multiple girls with ease, what incentive does he have to stay the same and not change himself?

in nature, females of social mammalian species often bring communities together to raise offspring and in humans it comes in the form of families, schools etc. there's a biological imperative in males of any animal species to want to create a legacy and pass on their genes and rejection is the first step in preventing that

more often than not it's the reasoning behind the rejections not the number itself that changes guys for the better or worse. it's one thing to be rejected for bad clothing or a bad personality which can be easily changed. it's another to be rejected for something outside of their control like height or facial structure which is understandable because no guy chooses to be born short or born with a disfigured face. if dudes can choose their own genetics, most dudes would choose to be someone better than themselves and women's hypergamous nature often has them selecting for top tier men regardless of where she is on the totem pole.

[Billlewis]

Repeatedlly being rejected has a cumulative effect of de masculinizing, or 'wussifying' a guy to the point that he begins to view himself as inferior to other men who are more successful in getting pussy regularly. I honestly believe that I'm a much better person today as a result of not getting any pussy for so long, and I wouldn't change anything about my status as a weak beta male wimp.

[kylee2437]

I think it depends on the person. Rejection can change people for the better or worse depending on how they personally choose to handle the rejection

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not sure. Do you have a guy friend this happened to?

[Lionman95]

I´d say any rejection could change a guy. There´s no amount of rejection that´s important it rather depends on the impact. If a guy was really in love with a woman the rejection hits harder.
Then he either changes for the better or the worse.

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't let it bother me too much, what's the point?

So I am not someone's type, I'd rather try and go down in flames, than not try, and snuff-out before it even starts.

Besides, you can have a lot of fun being shot down.

[RoastedToast]

I'd recommend a guy to keep trying with the set purpose of getting rejected until it doesn't affect him anymore. Then you're golden. And if you happen to unintentionally not get rejected then win win

[RyanK9b]

Quite a bit. Izs actually to a certain degree healthy

[Billlewis]

@RyanK9b I know, right? I can't be the only person who thinks that being rejected by women for sex is actually very good for a guy to experience.

[Anonymous]

I only got rejected a couple of times, but it just resulted in me losing interest in dating and focusing on working and my hobbies.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. Some internalize that more than others.

[Anonymous]

With me it did not take very God damn much, fuck women.

[Anonymous]

It depends on if they take it personally which some guys sadly do.

[jahaims]

Every guy is different

[BLP11520]

It impacts a guy’s life sometimes for years

[Jamie05rhs]

A lot.

[In_Trance]

Depends on the guy