Why do I only get sexually propositioned even though I dress modestly and act decently?

[Anonymous]

I pretty much never get approached and all I get are lustful stares.

And if I do get talking to a guy they only want sex when I do not carry myself this way.

I feel as though all the men I encounter and try to see if something could work want to take me down a peg or two or make me feel insecure.

[Thatpearl26]

Hmmm. Are there unsettling rumors going around about you? What I would do if I were you I’d spend time in respectable places. Libraries popular cafes. After all if you respect yourself you should be in a respectable place. Respectable places attract respectable people. Don’t hang around at lousy places that scream there are douchebags in here!

[Asker]

No, I just go to normal places. It seems souches are everywhere.

[gothbxtch]

creeps will be creeps. it’s not about clothes or behavior at all.

[gothbxtch]

thank you!

[Anonymous]

Just complete idiots pretty much, too much porn these days, too much masturbation, too little romance

[Asker]

So sad.

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed, to few genuine connection between souls, pure and vibrant. Very sad. What is also sad is that women just adapt to that like it is something natural when it isn't

[Asker]

No, I refuse. Maybe that's why it seems like I'm doing something wrong because women are putting up with that garbage.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but then again you are not doing anything wrong the roots of wrong is coming from being sexually propositioned, just people looking for passing pleasures still not being able to control their sexuality.

[Asker]

Yes, I know. Thanks.

[Opinion Owner]

Wish you the best and hope you find something truly beautiful and to an extent pure.

[jshm2]

You've probably got bad/jealous friends talking behind your back.

[Asker]

Funny you mention that. Because Insplit with an asshole. He dumped. me. was trying to come back no apology nothing. Ignored totally.

But now, a lot of neighborhood guys have been watching me. I have been dressing better and just been more positive and leveling up my psyche, attitude, everything.

I don't know if he was talking smack or if my swlf-upgrade has been noticed. But the neighborhood men don't act out of line.

[Anonymous]

Not all guys are equal. In what way are you trying to get appreciated

[Asker]

As a person and possibly a life partner and not solely as sperm receptacle. I know that is asking a lot these days.

[Asker]

And not as a breathing object to be used, abused then dismissed.

[Opinion Owner]

So you're looking for people to say positive things about you or your look

[Asker]

So that's what you gleaned from my response? I care about people saying g nice things about my look... really?

[Anonymous]

Because other women have set you up for it.

[Asker]

Specifically or just women in general

[Opinion Owner]

In general. And not all women, but women as a gender have set themselves up for this over the last few decades.