Is he being friendly, or is he hitting on me?

[Anonymous]

There’s this older guy I’m friends with who I was in a tafe course with and just got back in touch with. He wanted to talk yesterday on FaceTime and we did and now he wants to do that again tonight, for fun, when we’re catching up tomorrow. My goal was friendship. Is this guy hitting on me or being friendly? I have Asperger’s, so I can’t read social cues. Please help?

[madhatters4]

what do you guys talk about? has he been physically affectionate in any ways? is he in a relationship? does he talk about other girls he's interested in?

i think the easy answer is that he may be into you. but perhaps he does just see you as a good platonic friend.

[madhatters4]

thanks for MHO

[rocksongwriter]

He's being friendly but there's a good chance that he's being very friendly because he likes you romantically. I'd say 70% chance he likes you romantically, 30% chance that he doesn't have romantic feelings and just wants to be friends.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

He is being extra friendly. Very close to hitting on you.

[normandi]

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