Is my ex missing me or something?

[Anonymous]

He dumped me in may. Since that we’ve been in no contact.

I noticed that yesterday he liked a post that had a old couple sitting in front lake and watching sunset. The post had a capture ”this picture makes me happy”

I don't know why he’s so sappy..

[ManOnFire]

It's not uncommon for dumpers to miss the lover they dumped and experience what is called "dumper's regret" or "dumper's remorse," where they find themselves thinking about you and wondering if letting you go was really the right decision. What he did by Liking your old post is a common mousy gesture for dumpers: they're sending these goofy little hints that they're thinking about you, but they want you to be the one to try to reach out to them because they're not strong enough to do it.

My advice to you would be not to do anything. Stay in no contact. If someone is really meant for you, they would've never dumped you in the first place.

[Messianic_Monk]

I think this is stretching something simple. if he liked one of your pictures I'd think it's possible... but this is not that. he might be pining for a relationship because he feels lonely... but that doesn't mean he wants you.

[Unknown_user101]

I don't want to sound rude or come off disrespectful, but I don't think it's related to him missing you. Perhaps if he starts liking your posts or you notice that he's liked posts about missing an ex or something then maybe. At this point move on and find someone better, you deserve a happy and healthy relationship ♡

[Smashingdoozy]

You're reading too much into something so mundane... You're looking for a sign that isn't there. If he missed you be would make it painfully obvious, i. e. getting in contact.

[DermalPunch]

The post makes him happy. That's all. If he hasn't reached out ith simething valuable to say (not hey or whatever) nothing matters.

[DermalPunch]

Men don't dump women they really like. It's too much work to get one they want to keep so if they really want you they won't give a kther guy a chance to scoop you up.

[Asker]

He said we has different life goals

[Asker]

Have*

[DermalPunch]

You have posted so many questions about this guy. Please you need to put your focus elsewhere. It's getting unhealthy.

[kylee2437]

That has no significance on if it has anything to do with you.

[Asker]

I’ve also noticed that bunch of fake accounts have started to to view my stories on instagram. My page is public

[Asker]

Also this week I saw him in public. I walked past him.

[kylee2437]

Just because you want him back, doesn’t mean he wants you. If he hasn’t reached out directly and with purpose, assume he doesn’t want you back.

[madhatters4]

i wouldn't take much away from it. you note it but based solely on that i would not take anything away from it.

[Anonymous]

I hate to say it, but dose that necessarily mean he misses you or a different girl. Just saying it’s a bit presumptuous to assume cause he likes the picture of an older couple it must be associated with you.

[sheikalana]

You're reading too much into it. Let him be happy and do not assume anything.

[Sebastian2388]

It's July 4th weekend with Uber/GrubHub/Drizly/AirBnB-SwimplyApp you can roleplay your favorite.. That's a trick question

[normandi]

A smart man will never miss a woman... it is an opportunity to try something another taste

[Anonymiss1234]

Don't overthink it. He's bored and submitting to his feed.

[boggboss]

U are reading into stuff because thats ehat u want

[Asker]

I’ve also noticed that bunch of fake accounts have started to to view my stories on instagram. My page is public

[boggboss]

Could be him being curios but that done mean he misses u

[Asker]

Also this week I saw him in public. I walked past him.

[boggboss]

OK so what

[Asker]

I just miss him a lot. I’m proud of my self for going no contact right away almost 8 weeks ago

[boggboss]

Missing him is fine and well done but again that dont chamge the fact that I think u are reading into this situation because of how u feel not him

[Asker]

If I reach out to him after 8 weeks would it be weird?

[boggboss]

Why go no contact for that time to then message him

[Asker]

I don't know just to catch up?

[boggboss]

Lol why are u lying we both no u would jump at the choice if he said let's get back together

[Asker]

I do want him back. What should I do then?

[boggboss]

If he has nit contacted u in 8 months how do u think u can even get him back

[Asker]

8 weeks not months

[boggboss]

OK 8 weeks

[Asker]

Are you saying no people in this earth have reconnected after 8 weeks of no contact? It does happen you know

[boggboss]

And are u saying every couple rekindle after breaking up what makes u think it will work out just because u want it too

[Asker]

It might not but I feel like maybe I should try

[boggboss]

So send him a message lol

[Asker]

What should I sent to him? Just hey?

[boggboss]

I already don't think it will work so I wouldn't know what to send lol

[socially_confused]

I wouldn't read too much into it.

[Selliebeanz]

Thats kind of a stretch

[spartan55]

I think that's wishful thinking on your part.

[In_Trance]

stop paying attention to your ex

[Anonymous]

Um no?

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean there’s no indication whatsoever that shows he’s missing you 🤷🏽‍♀️