Most Helpful Guy
You broke up with him so you can't expect him to give you closure. In the end closure comes from yourself not the other person.
From how you write it, him not being in a rush to sleep with someone is a good thing is hows self confidence and lack of needing to rush into something.
The more important question here is why do you need him to sleep with someone? From how you write you clear care for him but are also feeling guilty for the breakup.
As others have said, cut all contact for 6 months or more and let him figure out what comes with his life.
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Most Helpful Girl
He is most likely just manipulating you because he isn't finding someone else at the moment/someone as good as you. If your ex truly loved you, you would never have left him in the 1st place. Don't fall for those fake feelings just because he just realizes what he lost.