So my ex mentioned this to me, and I'm feeling conflicted by this since when I broke up with him year and half ago I was kinda hoping he would date to figure out what he wanted... But hasn't. I know when we got together his previous LTR ended few months prior but this time he seems to be no hurry... Not interested? I dunno he mentioned before if we are meant to be together we will be and when I moved away he told me his mom was sad cuz now her "son is going to be alone" and last few texts were "I care about you" " I've been thinking about you with a kissy face" soo you think he still may want to be with me? I just can't stop thinking about him... And he's not giving me closure :(
Most Helpful Guy
You broke up with him so you can't expect him to give you closure. In the end closure comes from yourself not the other person.
From how you write it, him not being in a rush to sleep with someone is a good thing is hows self confidence and lack of needing to rush into something.
The more important question here is why do you need him to sleep with someone? From how you write you clear care for him but are also feeling guilty for the breakup.
As others have said, cut all contact for 6 months or more and let him figure out what comes with his life.1
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Most Helpful Girl
He is most likely just manipulating you because he isn't finding someone else at the moment/someone as good as you. If your ex truly loved you, you would never have left him in the 1st place. Don't fall for those fake feelings just because he just realizes what he lost.1