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He was playful and looking then he pretended I didn’t exist the next day. Honestly, I’m not totally sure he left but he had a duffle bag and someone said “you’re a good chef” when he was leaving out the kitchen.
It really didn’t register with me that he could be leaving for good… I was passing through and he was at the door and I was about 4 ft away from him leaving out the same door. when he was leaving out I heard him say sorry I’m my direction.. but I didn’t know who he was talking to… I was not far behind him and it was just me and another chef but he wasn’t paying attention.. he had the door still help open and peeped his head back while saying “sorry”.. but there was only me in his view
It’s just all confusing. I don't know what happened
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Played how? You have to actually date or something to be played. You are not a victim here. Dude wasn't into you.
I’m not saying I’m a victim.
By asking if you were played? Yeah okay.
Yeah bc he acted one way then acted like I didn’t exist the next day.
Because he had other things going on besides you. You weren't the center of his universe. And what is 'acted one way' mean. Can you admit your feelings clouded the entire situation? He wasn't into you. Not sure why you won't accept that.
I was not into him. He showed interest first! What are you talking about?
If you weren't into him, then why are you going on and on about him leaving. Nice try.
How did he show interest?
How much did you even actually talk to him?
It should be proof that HE DID SHOW INTEREST FIRST !
Huh? Proof of what? You dodged my question. HOW did he show interest first? Be specific. How much did you actually TALK with him?
That's where the fantasy falls apart, when reality kicks in.
Why did he say sorry?
You don't even know if it was directed at you. I love how you keep ducking my questions.
It WAS
He was looking at me!
He was looking right in my direction
Yeah, okay. So what was the rest of that conversation?
He left out and I haven’t seen him since
He said it while he was leaving out. I think he was leaving the door open for me and I was still a few steps behind so he apologized I don't know
Yeah, that was probably it. That's something 9/10 people would do for anyone out of common courtesy. Yet somehow you are thinking it's some big deal? Come on, really?
The door is a swinging door. You don’t have to leave it open for anyone. Usually people don’t do that
But also, he was in my way a bit and he didn’t move. Ik he heard me but he was in my way. I had to slide by him. He didn’t say a word or look.
So he didn't say a word or even look at you... yet you think he's into you. You are out of your mind.
I never once said he was into me. I just asked why he was avoiding me. I was expressing how hurt I felt.
I’ve only been working there for almost a month so I was under the impression that maybe things were starting to progress.
I wasn’t saying that he’s into off the bat. I was saying that maybe we were getting comfortable around eachother and I wanted to see where things go.. I would show signs of being interested.
So him avoiding me hurt a bit.
You are just using word salad, we both know what you meant. Like I said in the beginning, you misread the, situation. You thought it was something WAY more than he did. It's really simple. You are just making it complicated.
Maybe but I think he likes my coworker so maybe
I put in my 2 weeks notice. I’ll never see him again
But whatever. He’s pathetic and he’s an asshole. No decent guy would smack a box out your hand. He can suck my invisible dick and I’ll let him know that myself.
I am good enough. I’ll let him know that
Oooookay... some anger issues? Good enough for what?
How will you let him know, going to track him down?
No I’m going to tell him at work if I see him
I don’t have anger issues
I don’t want to leave without out knowing for sure.. I’m scared to know for sure 🥺
Yeah, clearly. I can already answer for you: he's not into you. I'll bet the ranch on it. If I'm wrong let me know and I will gladly eat my words, deal?
If I may ask. No disrespect
Why do you say he’s not interested? What exactly did I say or what did he do for you to make that final conclusion?
Guys are simple. If we are interested you WILL know without a doubt. The examples don't indicate anything more than a work acquaintance. If he was into you it would have gone down different.
Oh okay. You’re right
Maybe with more time things would have developed, but not as they stood.
Yeah, I’ll just move on. I don’t think I’m his type anyway
Guys don't have types. Lol... whatever
Then what is it?
Could have been many different things. Everyone isn't going to be into you. No matter how much you are into them. Don't take this wrong, but do you not have much experience with guys?
No. I never had a boyfriend
Nothing wrong with that. I'll be glad to help you though.
Help me get a boyfriend? How so?
I saw him look but after that he avoided me again.. but he still said something to my other female coworker tho
With advice. That's how. How do you think I could tell you had little experience?
It's up to you.
Sure I remember you said I was unstable. What other advice do you have 🫠
That's not advice, that's just noting how you were acting at the time. Do what you want.
No just you calling me unstable over the years
I think I know who this is now, you won't listen to any advice anyway.
Yep it is