Why do men dislike their wives/girlfriends posting bikini photos or sexually suggestive photos?

[Anonymous]

Especially if they're loyal partners and haven't done anything to imply they'll cheat

[Lliam]

I don't know what makes a guy think that the way to hold onto a partner is to keep her on a leash.
Those guys lust after their partners but they don't love them because they don't trust them. And the foundation of love is trust.
And some women are the same way, always snooping into their partner's phones, texts, emails and social media.

I don't know why a woman would stay with a guy who had a problem with her wearing a bikini at the beach or when swimming.

I was always delighted and proud to have a girlfriend who looked sexyi. Then again, I wasn't insecure. I knew she chose me, was proud to be with me, and wasn't in the market for anyone else. And if she was searching, there wouldn't be anything I could do about it. Treating her like a possession wouldn't make her more faithful.

I'm glad I didn't grow up during the age of cell phone cameras and on-line photos. But I wouldn't mind my partner posting happy bikini photos. Again, I'd be proud that that sexy woman was mine.
But I would be upset if she was sharing sexually suggestive photos with others. That would show lack of class. That would be like her wagging her bare ass at guys and giving them come hither looks over her shoulder. That is advertising. I'd dump a chick who did that.

The case with Jonah Hill is bizarre. He married a model for Christ sake. It was her job to pose for photo shoots and to look sexy. He probably married her for her public persona. Then to expect her to give up her career and cosplay her persona just for his own personal sexual gratification is pathetic.

I've heard of other guys doing that, too. Joe DiMaggio, for example, married Marilyn Monroe and then got jealous of her public persona.

I have no respect for guys who expect a woman to change for them. Those guys say "She should be modest now out of respect for me." Me, me me. But what they really mean is "I'm jealous and insecure and I don't trust my partner."

[TruthBringer]

It's called having boundaries.

Because men, especially those who are in a monogamous relationship and are invested in it, don't like it when their women 'advertise' themselves to the world as if they are single.

You see, when you're in a relationship, you can't act like you're single. Posting suggestive photos of yourself is an indirect message to the world that you're 'available' when you are not. At the same time, it raises concern as to why you feel the need to seek validation/affirmation (or even attention) from other people outside of your relationship. Because that's what you basically do when you post provocative photos of yourself.

Men are territorial. That's how we are biologically programmed. So we want to keep whatever is ours and have it remain ours. Don't like that idea? Then either be in an open-relationship or remain single.

This has nothing to do with insecurity. It has everything to do with boundaries that are based on values and preserving the integrity of the relationship.

[GreenLanternI0I]

Good man 👍

[Chthou95]

Well said

[Nikki1989]

LMAO

[Jersey2]

Spot on

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Exactly!

[TruthBringer]

@Nikki1989 I missed the part where it is funny?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Maybe because they think their attention/ feelings would matter more than the attention of internet strangers.. MY question would be why do these women think the only way to get attention is to post those kind of pics and why it matters to the point that they disregard the damage they could do to their relationship. If you really love someone their feelings would matter more than any attention you get online🤷‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

Wise words from the blondie sponge 💆🏼‍♀️😬

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 thanks caveman 😁

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome naughty spongy forehead 💆🏼‍♀️😬

[ManOnFire]

@Brainsbeforebeauty And also if you really love someone you should be showing yourself only to them. I don't understand women who are already taken wanting to display their bodies to the world, which includes other men. These are the same women who will take offense when a guy really tries to act on it and sleep with her.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@ManOnFire I totally agree with you

[Screenwriter]

I'd say posting such pictures means you're advertising to get attention from other men. Maybe it's just online comments. But why are you doing it. I'm sure most partners think your suggestive looks are for them, as well as your bikini body.

Do you want your man posting sexually suggestive photos online in his bikini underwear? or speedo?

It's not about cheating. It's about something being inappropriate. This is.

[kylee2437]

It’s her career. She is a model and she most likely has picked up a ton of gigs from her online posts and possibly agencies telling her she needs to post pics to advertise.

[Lionman95]

@kylee2437 Where did you get that information from?

[kylee2437]

@Lionman95 that is how modeling industry goes. Why do you think Instagram works best for people that are models?

[Lionman95]

@kylee2437 I was just wondering where you get the information from that the asker is a model. Because not every woman that posts bikini pictures on her instagram is a model.

[kylee2437]

@Lionman95 this question was brought to you by the Jonah hill and Sarah bradly situation

[kylee2437]

Brady*

[Lionman95]

@kylee2437 Interesting I didn´t know that because that wasn´t clear to me just out of the original question.

[kylee2437]

@Lionman95 the question is way too specific and matches their situation

[Lionman95]

@kylee2437 Maybe it´s just me that I can´t see it since I don´t watch the show.

[kylee2437]

@Lionman95 it’s not a show, it’s a real life relationship

[Lionman95]

@kylee2437 Ok I didn´t know them.

[Stoner710]

Yes we hate it, we don’t want so other guy waking off to photos of our wives/ girlfriends. Good look at why they’re trying to cancel Jonah Hill. He said he didn’t want his girlfriend serving with dudes. He doesn’t want his girlfriend posting bikini pics online and he doesn’t want his girlfriends house in suggest the photos on her Instagram and if she didn’t like the fact that she can move on and go find somebody else. And now he’s getting accused of emotional abuse and being controlling. That’s a normal guy’s attitude to their girlfriend posting suggestive and bikini photos online. There’s a difference between your job which is surfing in Jonah Hill’s now ex girlfriends case, and being a model, which she can model in dresses, she doesn’t have the model in it bikini or suggestive photos she can have her for her as a model and as a surfer and people taking just normal pictures of her would be fine with him but no she wants to post and take sexy suggested photos of her self and post them online so she broke up with him and now she’s trying to cancel him and get his career ruined but again that’s just a normal response from a normal guy.

[TruthBringer]

Very well said! Funny how she is now trying to ruin his life when he found happiness with someone else. And becoming a dad as well. She gives major narc vibes who is just bitter that she has become irrelevant in his life and failed to have him bend the knee.

[Lionman95]

Because from a guy´s perspective especially sexually suggestive photos are a sign that she´s at least open for another person. Because a woman posts such pictures to get attention from other guys. What will those other guys think? That´s she´s single. Any guy that looks at her sexually suggestive pics develops a sexual interest in her.
Guys know guys no guy unless he´s impotent will look at such pics looking for a platonic friendship.
For me a woman posting sexually suggestive pics is a redline, she can all day about being loyal but that action speaks for itself.
Imagine you´re in a relationship with a guy and you go with him to the mall and he looks at any women coming back especially on those wearing crop tops and hot pants or short skirts that are really short and sometimes show off that woman´s ass and he looks way more at them than at you.
Would you be disappointed because of that? Would it change anything if he said: But babe you know that I love you and I´m loyal. Maybe, maybe not.
The issue here is the same. The problem for guys is that it makes guys feel like their attention, effort/invest isn´t enough so women go to other guy´s too for validation and attention.

[ShadezMcgee]

It depends on the reason why. Like for example if they are a public persona/influencer/model, it makes sense they do that as it goes with their job.

Now, the issue is when it comes to women doing that and they are the only ones in the shot, it comes across as advertising themselves as being single and open to comments and invitations from other men. Validation thirst trap is what is looked at face value.

It's one thing if she poses with her husband while dressed like that because she is at least showing she is taken as opposed to the former.

It comes down to boundaries between the couple. The way I approach it is this, and I even told her, "I can't control what you do. If this is just you feeling yourself and wanting to share your life, fine. If you start talking to other guys and are using this as a way to seek validation, I am not cool with that."

She understood my stance and has either taken pictures with me or has gone out of her way to show me who sent her creepy DMs on messages as a way to laugh about it.

[msc545]

Short answer: These kinds of displays attract OTHER men, and the boyfriend or husband dosn't want to have to deal with that problem. He also, wisely, does not trust the woman doing it to not impulsively cheat.

Long Answer:

Insecurity: Some men may feel insecure or threatened by the attention their partners receive when posting bikini or sexually suggestive photos. They might worry about potential advances or comments from others, leading to feelings of jealousy or possessiveness.

Trust issues: For some men, seeing their partners share intimate or revealing photos might raise concerns about trust and fidelity. They may worry about how others perceive their relationship and question the motives behind such posts.

Privacy and boundaries: Sharing personal photos in revealing attire or suggestive poses can blur the line between private and public spheres. Men who value privacy may feel uncomfortable with the idea of their partners exposing themselves to a wide audience, including strangers, friends, or family members.

Cultural or societal expectations: In certain cultures or societies, there are norms and expectations surrounding modesty and appropriate behavior, particularly in public platforms. Men who adhere to these norms may feel uneasy about their partners deviating from these expectations by sharing revealing photos.

Fear of judgment or reputation: Some men might be concerned about the potential impact of their partners' photos on their own reputation or social standing. They may worry about being perceived negatively or judged by others based on the content their partners post.

[molonski2]

Affirmation , absolutely NOTHING worse , this practise should not be encouraged and should only be for single women , its like asking would you want your wife/ girlfriend to be a prostitute / exoctic dancer / attention seeking btch.

Any man who does like it , is spineless and not worth his salt.

[kylee2437]

Why are you insinuating how other men should feel about such topic? To cater to your own insecurity?

[molonski2]

@kylee2437
Its ZERO to do with me , its the desire for affirmation , utterly horrendous..

Join Onlyfans , I've seen this sht , time and time again. Just a tip..
A legitimate answer is just that , don't try and source the answer that you may desire , any man worth his salt would despise these actions , that's a FACT.

[kylee2437]

@molonski2 many men that hold these insecurities show time after time that these insecurities aren’t worth catering to. And many men use “a worth it guy would feel this way” to deflect the FACT that they don’t want to hold accountability to the insecurity issues they hold within

[molonski2]

@kylee2437 -- I will leave it with you.
I've given the answer the problem is not with the boyfriend.
Enjoy , and thanks for your opinion - which you had decided on , prior to asking a question , which was not a question.
Good luck - enjoy.

[kylee2437]

@molonski2 the problem IS with the boyfriend because that same girl can just go find someone that caters to her wants and more. That man is going to sit there and have to live with the insecurities he perpetuates onto women he wants.

[kylee2437]

And there’s no “good luck” I’ve experienced this lol and this man showed he wasn’t worth the hassle in the end.

[Asker]

@kylee2437 he's talking about how he feels about the topic and there's nothing wrong with that. He is a man after all..

If anyone is insinuating here it's us women 🤣 we don't know what it's like to think like a man

[kylee2437]

@asker a man thinking this way is also insinuating what is best for women. I’ve dated a man like this and he was just projecting wrong doings he did in our relationship

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 This has nothing to do with insecurity. That's such a typical buzzword used to shame men for having boundaries. Boundaries that are built on values and the need to preserve the integrity of a relationship.

The real insecurity is when a significant other feels the need to seek validation outside of their relationship. Because apparently, getting it from one's partner isn't enough.

You pin this in "insecurity" when in reality, you just don't understand how men think. And whatever is being said that you don't like, you try to stamp a negative label to suit your own ignorant biases.

Sorry miss, but you have to do better than that.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer “seeking validation” yeah except 1. It’s her CAREER 2. He knew she posted actively on Instagram BEFORE they started dating. Just FYI their relationship started in August 2021 and those text messages are from December 2021. So he waited approximately 5 months into a relationship to specify what he calls “boundaries”

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 I wasn't talking about Jonah's situation here, miss. I was talking about in general.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer right and Jonah showed time after time he most likely wasn’t worth the boundaries he placed on Sarah. Relationship ended.

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Still talking about Jonah, are we? You seem to have missed the part where I said that what I said was about men in general. You're generalizing Jonah's situation to the general of men. Which is a false judgment from your end, especially since you don't have a proper grasp of Jonah's situation in the first place.

Having boundaries as a man to not want your woman to post provocative pictures has nothing to do with insecurity. It has to do with healthy boundaries.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer no I addressed Jonah in the situation that I specified about the fact that many men that inflict these boundaries when it’s too late, don’t even make the relationship worth staying around for. Of course I am generalizing his situation because abuse in relationships are common

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 So your entire statement is about Jonah and not men in general. Good to know. Makes sense to why your statements are so far from reality

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer it’s okay Jonah is also being accused right now of sexually assaulting a 16 year old. Good luck

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Bold of you to assume the whole point was about Jonah, in the first place. I merely contradicted your statement that men are "insecure" when they don't want their women to post themselves online. It is YOU who brought Jonah into the equation, nobody else.

We get it, strawman arguments are your go-to.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer like I said this same man is being accused of sexually assaulting a 16 year old.

[kylee2437]

This post is about Jonah LOL again no one asked you to contribute to a forum where you wanted to pick and choose when to talk about subjects

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 This post was about MEN in general. Not Jonah specifically. It may have been inspired by Jonah's situation, but it isn't about him. Learn the difference, missy.

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Delete what you want, love. You don't know what abuse is so I highly doubt what you call "abuse" by your ex would be actual abuse. With exception to the physical violence. I would love to hear his side of the story. Would most likely bring some nice nuance.

In any way, you've failed to prove how men in general are "insecure" for having boundaries. And I'm not going to hold my breath seeing you succeed in proving it either.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer stop trying to harass me you foul son of a bitch. I deleted your comment because I no longer want to engage with a low life

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Nobody is harassing you, sweetheart. This is a public forum where people are free to reply and voice their opinions. Not my fault you got frustrated failing to prove your words correct.

Imagine crying "harassment" on a public forum where you are surfing anonymously. Wow. Maybe you should take a break from the internet, love.

[kylee2437]

Yeah except you copied and pasted your comment so you continue to harass after I said I no longer want to engage, now you are blocked. Bye low life

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Ad hominems are a testament to the invalidity of your argument. Good to know you're running with your tail between your legs like after having your statements debunked.

Enjoy falsely accusing people of "abuse" and "insecurity" where it is not the case. Don't let the door hit you on the way out, missy 👋

[kylee2437]

The fact that you are STilL trying to harass me after I blocked you. Stop being a shitty low life and being insensitive towards abuse. No wonder why you are trying to Minimize this situation. Leave me alone you insensitive foul disgusting cunt bah

[kylee2437]

Bag *

[TruthBringer]

@Kylee2437 Oh hello, back for more attention, I see? Nobody is harassing you Karen. You blocked me to have the last say like a true coward and are not obligated to read or respond. Yet here you are doing it.

Throwing insults my way because you failed to prove your statements correct, and now crying victim of some imaginary "harassment" is just beyond pathetic, yet funny at the same time. Sweetheart, be on your way. You can't cry "harassment" when you're literally coming back for more.

[kylee2437]

@TruthFinder no I said get off my comment because I didn’t want to talk to you anymore, I only replied back this time because I noticed you replied back to me after I blocked you further proving you ARE attempting to harass me. Now I’m done. Bye cunt bag , hope you rot in your mothers basement

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Lmfao still coming back for more and throwing baseless insults. Yeah, no surprise you're single. Girl, go get your issues sorted out. You seem to enjoy your "abuse" and "harassment'.



Hopefully you're gone for good this time lmfao

[molonski2]

@TruthBringer extremely good summary , thankyou.

[TruthBringer]

Thank you, good sir!

[Miristheiss]

Dislike? That is a divorce.

You are taken. Quit advertising yourself sexually to other men for attention and likes and DM's and comments.

You are misguided. It is ignorant to ask why men don't like their partners getting half naked and then presenting themselves to other men to gauk at.

The real question is what is wrong with the women that they WANT to do this. How damaged are they that they need attention and validation this badly, they cannot see what normal and healthy boundaries are in LTR or marriages. A good woman wouldn't even want to do this.

[UniquelyBasic]

I think it's fine to not want your wife or girlfriend to be "Advertising" herself to other people and feel like certain things should be only shown in the confines of a relationship between the man and woman. Some people have those boundaries which I think is fine.

I also think it's stupid to find a woman on Instagram that's posting bikini pics or whatever and expect her to change just because she's with you now. That's a recipe for disaster in my opinion.

I personally don't care but I can see where other people are coming from.

[CountryWanderer]

Okay, let's deal with that second part, posting sexually suggestive photos. Why might someone find their partner being sexually suggestive toward other people a form of infidelity? Infidelity isn't just sex. Anything sexual or overly intimate with someone else would be, unless the partner has said that they don't mind. People do have different beliefs, convictions, and boundaries, so a couple should discuss their expectations as to what is fidelity and commitment and what each is fine with.

Now, I think there's a big difference between posting deliberately suggestive content, thirst traps, etc., and posting about normal, everyday life. If she's at the beach in a bikini, that's a normal public setting and there isn't anything provocative about that. But if she's then posing suggestively, that's now something else.

[PumpkinSpiceLatte4]

I don't get why people post photos like these on social media.. Like what's the purpose of this? Getting attention/validation from others? It shows a certain degree of insecurity, if you constantly need to be told you're beautiful. Social media has turned people into narcissists

[WhiteBoyChill]

Exactly why I refuse to date women nowadays. I’ve put in zero effort over the past three or four years.

[ManOnFire]

Sometimes it isn't about what she will do, but is about how he feels about other men looking at her like that, which I can understand. If it's a bikini photo she took on some kind of trip or summer day on the beach, I guess I won't say too much about that. But a woman who's already taken really shouldn't even be displaying herself sexually for others to see, especially men.

[HappyWoman34]

That was my guess. That he doesn’t like other men talking about her as a sexual object.

[ManOnFire]

@HappyWoman34 Not even necessarily talking about her as such, but thinking about her like that too. I wouldn't like that either.

[kylee2437]

So in Jonah Hills case, he was overall insecure of his girlfriends career choice. And he probably feels that way because he is 100% not the most attractive guy and he KNOWS she can do better than him and probably wondered why she chose him in the first place. That resulted in him personally attacking things that are apart of her and have always been apart of her since they met.

[kylee2437]

Aka it’s lack of accountability for his low self esteem

[inhua]

Jonah Hill's responsibility lies in him picking the wrong woman. nothing more

he should not have to tolerate or put up with disrespectful behavior

and he doesn't need to wonder why she chose him. it's obvious without his money and fame, he wouldn't get any girls because girls don't care about personality despite how much virtue signaling they do, plus Jonah Hill looks a soft target to walk all over and now she's learnt her lesson.

the moment an ugly man shows a little backbone and refuses to be a simp, he is suddenly a bad guy. it must be upsetting when a guy whose so ugly that he shouldn't stand up for himself actually stands up for himself. the audacity!

[kylee2437]

@inhua a career is not disrespectful behavior, he made it up as disrespectful behavior to try and dictate her out of what made him attracted to her in the first place. If he didn’t want someone that does those behaviors he swears is not his dating “preferences” he shouldn’t have went for her in the first place.

[kylee2437]

And it seems like people get dating all fucked up. You sit in a talking stage so you can see if that person matches your preferences, and what you can tolerate. He could’ve rejected her on site instead of trying to change what is apart of her.

[inhua]

I never said a career is disrespectful behavior. disrespectful behavior would be her right now airing out her dirty laundry despite Jonah Hill keeping everything behind closed doors and respecting the privacy of their relationship

and we have yet to hear Jonah Hill's side of the story, not that it'll make a difference since many people have already made up their minds that he's "abusive"

[kylee2437]

@inhua so it’s bad to expose someone’s toxic behaviors that another woman could be enduring from him and may need some signs to get out? Is that how you feel about the amber heard and Johnny depps situation?

[TruthBringer]

There is far more to Jonah's case than what you make of it. There is nothing wrong with what Jonah did when it comes to him setting boundaries. The only thing he did wrong was go for a woman with a 'surf' lifestyle and try to change that. Other than that, he did a very good job in communicating his boundaries and giving her the option to take it or leave it. Apparently, the woman herself agreed to his boundaries only to try and "change" him. When that didn't happen, she started a smear campaign against him on social media. She is not the innocent person you think she is.

Watch this video:
https://youtu.be/tka3y28qLUM

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer those weren’t boundaries , those are rules that he made to try and change what was currently going on and accepted for sometime. A person with boundaries doesn’t date someone with a lifestyle that holds a majority of what that person dislikes.

[kylee2437]

I just rejected a guy myself for this exact reason. His lifestyle wasn’t what I was into and instead of trying to get him to adjust, I just ended it. He asked why and I explained.

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Watch the video before you haste to your conclusions. Yes, they were boundaries. He has boundaries in what he wants in a relationship. The MISTAKE he made was, he was enforcing his boundaries with the wrong woman. Instead, he should have taken those boundaries and sought a woman who shared the same sentiments from the get-go. In other words, he should have sought a woman who doesn't have a lifestyle that overstep his boundaries. What Jonah did is equivalent to someone dating a stripper and trying to turn her into a house-wife. It's not going to work.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer you are just saying my point in different terms but aren’t holding him accountable for the biggest elephant in the room. He wouldn’t have had to even say those boundaries healthily or not if he didn’t go for her in the first place.

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Huh? Did you not read what I said? I clearly pointed out the FLAW in his actions. And you're saying I don't call out the elephant in the room? Sorry miss, just because YOU are intimidated by men having standards and boundaries, doesn't mean what Jonah did by having boundaries and communicating them was wrong. His only wrongdoing was associating with a woman whose lifestyle is already a red flag to his standards.

The true elephant in the room is that woman blasting him on the internet, trying to get him canceled, after she realized she couldn't make him bend the knee to her will.

Watch. The. Video.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer I read it and you addressed what I addressed exactly only you think the biggest elephant is his boundaries, his boundaries aren’t the issue. The way he used his boundaries against a girl that isn’t in his boundary range is EXACTLY what abusive and controlling men do

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 And that's where you are wrong. You think he was manipulating her when in reality, she is salty that he has a fiancé who is giving him a baby and suddenly started her smear campaign after that. Meaning, she is a salty person who couldn't get over Jonah Hill, and is now feeling the need to cancel him in an act of revenge.

Like I said: Watch. The. Video.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer I’ve been in a controlling and abusive relationship and what Jonah hill did is exactly what I went through. I have tattoos and piercings and my ex tried to turn me into a church reading non social media girl instead of just going for exactly that.

[inhua]

Jonah Hill's behaviors weren't toxic. his only crime is being an ugly man who has standards and boundaries. it's clear she was never attracted to him in the first place and couldn't wait to hold his lack of sex appeal over his head to justify pointing the finger at him whenever the relationship would ever go south so she can escape all accountability

Amber Heard exposed herself with the Johnny Depp situation. she couldn't help herself but put fake bruises on her face, not that anyone would've believed Johnny Depp if he came out with the truth first anyways

[kylee2437]

@inhua he chose to inflict his boundaries on another person instead of taking action to go for a woman that fits hits direct and obvious boundaries. That is toxic. It’s like a priest going for a pornstar and telling her to become holy for him

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 I've also been in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who has BPD with comorbidity in NPD traits + depression. That relationship was cancerous to my mental health.

You don't know Jonah or his relationship so you don't have any credibility to call him abusive. Instead of trying to stick to facts and objectivity, you are projecting your own trauma response on Jonah's relationship, calling him abusive, all while neglecting the vindictive and evil deeds of his ex.

If you watched the video, like I have told you to do for the past 2 replies, you would have actually seen she is not innocent here.

Sounds like this is more about your ex than Jonah, Kylee. Quit your projection.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer his action of going for someone that doesn’t fit his initial standards is abusive. I don’t need to know his full relationship to deem that action abusive. I’ve been through it and my ex addressed his boundaries after he got to know me and asked me to be in a relationship with him and they were life changing boundaries on my part. It wasn’t okay and created a lot of toxicity on his side

[kylee2437]

@TruthFinder I never said she was innocent , I said the action that she called him out for is indeed abusive.

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Wrong. That has nothing to do with abuse. That has everything to do with poor choice. Trying to manipulate someone to conform to your boundaries is abusive. Which is something he hasn't done.

You didn't watch the video. Which is a testament that you just want to falsely accuse someone of things you wish he did. When in reality, he did not. All because you're now stuck within a trauma response and are now projecting your own ex's actions on Jonah.

What YOU have gone through may not be the case with what is happening in Jonah's case. He clearly communicated his boundaries and she went along. She is just as much at fault as he is.

Sorry, but your arguments hold no merit. They have already been debunked in the video I've provided.
https://youtu.be/tka3y28qLUM

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 YOU agreed to your ex's boundaries. That is YOUR fault, not his. Now I'm definitely not buying your arguments. Your ex communicated his boundaries and YOU agreed to them. That doesn't make him abusive. That makes you a fool for accepting.

[inhua]

boundaries aren't for other people. it's for the person themselves. he made it clear these were behaviors he wouldn't tolerate, he didn't force her to adjust her behaviors. he gave her an offer sheet and she signed it and now she's just regretting signing it because she wanted to bend those rules and now that he's happy with someone else

this would be no different if you're boyfriend went broke, refused to get another job and you wanted him to get another job or you'll dump him. by your logic, this would be abusive because you're threatening him to do something he doesn't want to do or risk being dumped

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer imagine speaking about my relationship meanwhile you just specified I shouldn’t talk about other peoples relationships because I don’t know their whole relationship. FYI I didn’t agree with my exes boundaries and me and him wouldn’t OFTEN get into arguments because of his unfair boundaries. It got to the point where he physically assaulted me at a destination wedding because he didn’t want me going to the bachelorette party meanwhile he partied it up at the bachelor party all night. Try again

[kylee2437]

@inhua correct. He made that boundary meanwhile he already invested time and effort into someone that right off the bat did not fit his standards. He made boundaries that are for himself for someone else to follow INSTEAD of following his OWN boundaries

[kylee2437]

Me and my ex would often get into fights***

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Ah, so you're not liking the taste of your own medicine, I see. So you don't like it when people form opinions about your own realtionship (which you brought forth yourself without anyone asking for it), but here you are doing the exact same thing to Jonah's relationship. All while you conveniently dismiss the crucial nuance that his ex started a smear campaign because she is bitter that Jonah found happiness with another woman all while failing to have him bend over to her own will.

Sorry miss, but Jonah did not show any signs of abusive. Communicating boundaries is not abusive. Either you take it or leave it. Those are the options he gave her. She chose to go along with it with certain hopes that did not materialize. And now she is starting a smear campaign right when he was getting a child. She is disgusting.

Also, if you didn't agree to your ex's boundaries, then I wonder why you two were together in the first place. It takes two to tango. Demonizing your ex all while dismissing your own autonomy that got you two together is just disingenuous. If you two were incompatible from the get to, then why even bother be in a relationship.

Clearly, your relationship is not the same as that of Jonah, yet you're sitting here making the association. Which is a testament that I was right about you trauma dumping on Jonah.

Try again.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer except I’m not speaking on their relationship as a whole, I am speaking on what she decided to expose , and what I am saying is , is she had a point. @inhua tried to insinuate that I accepted my exes boundaries which is completely and 100% false. So no what he did is not the same about what I spoke on in regards to what Sarah exposed about Jonah

[kylee2437]

@truthbinger Jonah insinuating his boundaries and placing them onto someone else after he already accepted how she is as a person in the beginning is abuse. There’s no secret about her life

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Your situation with you ex doesn't seem to be the same case as that of Jonah and Sarah. So not sure why you even try to bring your own situation in the equation when the two situations are different.

Sarah decided to "expose" Jonah, cherry picking snippets of texts, after when? When he is becoming a dad being happily in a relationship with someone else? That seems quite narcissistic from her end. That's what narcissists do. Engage in smear campaigns and try to sabotage the other person's life who "got away".

The point here, miss. Is that having boundaries has nothing to do with insecurity, and communicating them has nothing to do with abusive. Either you take it or leave it. That's bascially what Jonah has done from the looks of it. He did not hit her or any of that sort. He said "either you accept my boundaries or we go our separate ways". Which they eventually did.

SHE exposed HERSELF to be a bitter person who clearly has not moved on and feels the need to redeem her narcissistic ego by trying to cancel the guy. At a very crucial time in his life at that as well.

So in the end, this is mostly on her. Especially since she INITIALLY agreed to his boundaries. The only mistake he made was try to fit a square in a triangle shaped hole. Or in other words, date a woman whose lifestyle are incompatible with his views.

You can stop your traumadumping.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer actually it’s the exact same as their situation. It’s a man that accepted a woman for the pretty self she is and then once he won her over tried to change her into the girl that he initially wanted personality wise. And yes she may have agreed to his boundaries, that doesn’t make his boundaries correct because it obviously prohibited her in spots that were needed for her career and essentially held her back from being the woman she was before she started dating Jonah.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer we are talking about subjects that create trauma. If you don’t want to talk about such topics, then stop butting yourself into such topics. No one even asked you to comment on my comment.

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 That's not the same as abuse. That's just poor decision making skills from both sides. One side tried to mold a pretty lady to his own image. The other agreed despite it being against her lifestyle. That's not the same as abuse. Especially not when you try to make it sound like the guy is abusive for having boundaries.

The only thing that has happened here (and maybe even with your ex), is that both parties (man and the woman) were irrational in what they were getting themselves into. Only the difference between Jonah and your ex is that Jonah didn't resort to physical abuse.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer sorry you don’t get to use “poor decision making” as a replacement for abusive tendencies. The guy isn’t abusive for having boundaries, the guy is abusive for inflicting boundaries on someone that already didn’t fit his boundaries

[kylee2437]

@truthbinger so nice your bottom openly admits that he was emotionally abusive but at least he wasn’t physically abusive. And just so you know emotional abuse usually starts as a starter to physical abuse. Luckily they didn’t spend enough time in a relationship for it to get to that point

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Nope, I didn't say that. I said he made a mistake. A mistake is not synonymous with abuse.

Sorry Kylee, sounds like you're just projecting your own pain caused by your ex onto Jonah. Which is a poor motivator to try and assess the situation objectively.

You're yet to prove he was abusive. The "i've dealt with an abusive boyfriend" is not a valid argument. Your ex is not Jonah.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer nope actually I sided with Jonah until a girl I know put it into that perspective and my kind changed because it’s exactly what I went through

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer I dealt with the exact situation my ex also specified his boundaries 4 months into our relationship

[kylee2437]

Mind*

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 That still has nothing to do with abuse, just dumb choices that didn't benefit either of you. I made sure to communicate my boundaries from day 1 of getting to know my significant other. I also made sure she wasn't leading a lifestyle that contradicted my values.

So far, no issues whatsoever. Communicating boundaries much later in a relationship is not abuse. It's just poor decision making skills

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer abuse is a form of dumb choices. Just like drinking and driving is a dumb life choice but if you kill someone from it , you are going to kill. You can’t walk up to a judge and say “it was a poor decision”

[kylee2437]

You are going to jail*

[kylee2437]

Oh and luckily you specified on the word choices also because being abusive is also a choice

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Strawman arguments don't work either. We're talking specifically about not making your boundaries clear early on, and not about killing due to being intoxicated. That's a false equivlance fallacy as well. Communicating your boundaries a tad too late is not abuse in itself. Doing things like beating your partner for not living up to boundaries which you've communicated much later than you should have is an example of abuse.

You clearly don't know what abuse it. Take your nonsense elsewhere.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer no what I am saying is you saying “it was a mistake” is you trying to deflect accountability on the affect those types of actions had. It’s not strawman arguments, it’s you using deflection because you want Jonah to be right in this situation.

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 Nobody is deflecting accountability. I'm merely contradicting your false judgment of it being abuse. Just because I point out it is not abuse when communicating one's boundaries too late, does not mean the person is being relieved from taking accountability for such a mistake.

Bringing in murder due to intoxication is a strawman argument because you're dismissing the actual point while strawmanning a completely different scenario to attack the initial point.

You're starting to get desperate and it's showing.

[kylee2437]

Or let’s dumb this down even more it’s like someone saying “cheating was an honest mistake” okay but you still cheated..

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer his abuse is already proven. Their relationship started in August 2021 and he spent 5 months debating and twiddling his thumbs on his boundaries but then inflicted them when he felt insecure about something. That is abuse

[TruthBringer]

@kylee2437 That's not abuse. Sorry miss, no amount of straws will "prove" that not communicating one's boundaries is itself abuse. You clearly don't know what abuse is. Starting to think your ex is more innocent than what you make him out to be.

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer yes it is abuse. Trying to change someone and create arguments in a relationship because you don’t accept something that is apart of their career is abusive

[kylee2437]

@TruthBringer LOL get the fuck off my comment you scum

[kylee2437]

Any other thing you try and comment I’m deleting because no the fuck you did not just try to minimize my abuse story

[inhua]

no she chose to follow those boundaries and got upset when she didn't get her way with him and Jonah did follow his own boundaries and left her eventually. he should've done it straightaway but Jonah is too generous of a person to give others a chance to prove themselves

[JesseP1nk]

Thats what he did when he found out - he rejected her. I dont understand what people would have wanted he should have done - still being with her even that does not match with his boundaries? If my girlfriend left me and said she does not like i talk to other girls, should i go on the rooftops and scream "abuse!" No, thats her boundarie!

[grega239]

If she could do better, why was she with him in the 1st place?

[kylee2437]

@inhua “chose these boundaries” she accommodated his boundaries and realized the accommodation doesn’t make any sense and obviously affected her. And who cares who left who? My abusive ex initiated our break up but our break up ended badly because of my ex

[kylee2437]

@jessdp1nk yeah no he didn’t directly reject her , their relationship continued until 2022, so that means he tried to put up a fight for over a year in regards to life changing boundaries. That is abuse in a nut shell by the way

[kylee2437]

@grega239 he did what most manipulative men do and was probably a great chill charming guy in the beginning and then 5 months in he chose to try and 360 her life. He was definitely not the attractive one in the relationship- but he went for the first girl that found him somewhat attractive

[grega239]

Hold up... didn't you mention accountability?

And why aren't you talking about her being accountable for her own choice of dating a manipulative guy?

Manipulation only works if you're naive enough.

And i doubt he lacks sellf esteem considering his occupation.

[kylee2437]

@grega239 wow what a victim blamer you are. Is it a child’s fault for having a manipulative parent too?

[inhua]

Jonah Hill never forced Sarah Brady to accommodate to his boundaries. she had the option to leave but instead she stayed and tried to change him instead. now because the experiment failed and he's now happy with someone else (with a baby on the way) she conveniently wants to bash him at this point in time despite having the opportunity to do so immediately after their breakup. its a crabs in the barrel mentality at best

this happens often when a woman thinks an ugly man is too weak to stand up for himself due to his lack of options, believing he can be a doormat to walk all over even though she'll gladly change herself to suit the attractive bad boy by smoking, getting tattoos/piercings, increasing sex appeal, taking up his hobbies etc.

[kylee2437]

@inhua your keyword is forced. I’m not reading the rest of your non sense since you think forcing people to do things is normal.

[inhua]

Sarah Brady wasn't forced to do anything against her will. you might as well say employers are forcing their employees to work by refusing to pay them for not showing up. both parties here have options and Sarah had options just like Jonah. she didn't have to be in a relationship with him and according to you, she can do better so there's even more accountability on her part for choosing him

[kylee2437]

@inhua their relationship lasted long than when Jonah gave sarah that ultimatum, so that’s false.

[inhua]

even with an ultimatum, Sarah still had options. it's not like as if there was a gun pointed at her head or anything of the sort demanding she take a certain option and nothing else

[kylee2437]

@inhua every abuse victim has options, that’s not how abuse works. That’s like saying “why didn’t the abuse victim just leave”

[inhua]

except she wasn't abused. just because something doesn't go your way doesn't make it abuse

would you leave your boyfriend if he refused to protect you from a home intruder? if you did, by your logic you are abusive to him because you're forcing him to do something he doesn't want to do

[kylee2437]

@inhua I wouldn’t expect my husband to put himself in front of a gun for me to begin with fYI. 2. That’s a ridiculous hypothetical

3. Yes of course she wasn’t abused in your logic because it doesn’t fit your logic on what you want to be correct. It didn’t go her way, and she’s very lucky it didn’t because Jonah would’ve held her back majorly in her career , which FYI if it did she could possibly sue for defamation and loss of enjoyment.

[kylee2437]

Aka if she refused money from her career within the time they dated because of his “rules” she can sue.

[inhua]

oh really? you wouldn't immediately lose respect and attraction for your boyfriend if he refused to lay down his life for you? you only consider this hypothetical ridiculous because it's poking holes in your logic. you're saying what sounds great on paper but won't work in practice

Sarah has no basis to sue Jonah outside of her own personal feelings. it's not his fault, his life got better than hers post-relationship especially if she can "do better"

[kylee2437]

@inhua a person is not obligated to lay down their life for me. I would also pick a guy that already naturally feels like that’s what he does for the woman he loves. So no you are wrong, and you are trying to insinuate what kind of men I go for, and if I should be mad because what I am saying doesn’t fit your agenda that you are trying to inch at

And if she has refused contracts because of his rule , yes she can sue. His rule took away money from her in that case

[inhua]

I agree. nobody is obligated to do anything for anyone. you can choose a guy who you think naturally feels like doing that and when the moment comes, he can still choose not to do so and you shouldn't be mad when he chooses not to do so

Jonah didn't force Sarah to refuse contracts. if she can do better like you claim she can do, then why doesn't she do better? why did she stay with Jonah instead of being with better options where she "wouldn't have to refuse" contracts?

[kylee2437]

@inhua thanks for restating what I said, except I would pick a man that already has a protector mindset. That’s the difference.

And yes he did insinuate she can’t do any contracts with male models. And maybe she realized she doesn’t want another man to have the chance to hold her back once again, that is the exact reason why I am actually single

[inhua]

good luck finding this protector mindset if you aren't willing to do what's needed to keep him

[kylee2437]

@inhua I don’t even want a partner lol I rejected someone last week and I have another guy that wanted me to be his girlfriend last year in my dms again currently. I don’t want one. “Good luck” to you to me. Passive aggressive brat

[kylee2437]

To you too**

[grega239]

Is she a child?

[kylee2437]

@grega239 would you ask that to any other abuse victim?

[grega239]

She wasn't abused.

[kylee2437]

@grega239 saying “she wasn’t abused” doesn’t mean she wasn’t. You are the third man to comment saying that and your words hold zero value

[grega239]

So if a man has boundaries, thats abuse?

[kylee2437]

@grega239 if he truly had boundaries, they would’ve never dated.

[grega239]

Why?

[kylee2437]

@grega239 because that’s what a boundary usually creates you to do. Just like a rejected dating someone last week because their life wasn’t fitting to my boundaries and standards. The difference between abuse and boundaries

[grega239]

It would be abuse if she couldnt leave.
She wasn't forced to stay so its not abuse.
Him being a dick isn't abuse

[kylee2437]

@grega239 most abuse victim is forced to stay, that’s not what abuse means

[kylee2437]

Most absurd victims aren’t forced to stay*

[grega239]

Ok she wasn't coerced to stay.

[kylee2437]

@grega239 we don’t know that fully , and 2. That still doesn’t make it abuse or not. That’s like asking an abuse victim “why did you choose to stay”

[kylee2437]

Or it is asking an abuse victim “why did you choose to stay” only in different wording

[grega239]

Ok. Why did she choose to stay? I've had this debate with a woman once. Her boyfriend was abusive and she stayed. I told her to leave, she wouldn't and at that point it was no longer my concern.

[kylee2437]

@grega239 it most likely was never a concern to you , you probably just wanted to insert yourself into someone else’s situation without understanding it’s still abuse whether she stays or not.

[grega239]

Insert myself? No no, they came to me with their problems. I offered a solution, they ignored it, making it no longer my problem. I mean should i have went and beat their guy to a pulp?

If they didn't want to remove themselves from the situation then its no longer my concern

[kylee2437]

@grega239 it seems like no abuse situation is a concern to you if it doesn’t work out in your favor. You are just demonstrating you don’t understand how abuse works. I stayed with my ex for a year and a half and it doesn’t change the fact that he assaulted me within that year and a half

[grega239]

Its not my concern if someone asks me for help and then ignores itnwhen i offeer a solution.

What favor?

And you stayed with him... Why?

[kylee2437]

@grega239 you are getting blocked, you obviously gaslight victims so it’s time to stop communicating with you. Good riddance

[ItsChloe]

This happened to me so i dumped his controlling ass. My ex didn’t like the fact that I was on OnlyFans and posting sexually explicit and nude content. He was saying the chauvinist shit like “you belong to me, not all these perverts and sugar daddies”.

Bitch please! I’m an independent woman who makes my own choices in life and won’t be told what to do by a controlling chauvinist.

[DextroShade]

You are going to die alone.

[ItsChloe]

@DextroShade so what if I am. I’d much rather be alone and happy instead of being in a toxic relationship.

[DextroShade]

You won't be happy, single childless women past a certain age are the most miserable category of human being and deservedly so.

[Boomchakalaca]

Not wife material

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin Holy shit. Imagine being the delusional guy that dated her

[ItsChloe]

@WhiteBoyChill @Boomchakalaca @DextroShade

Haters gonna hate. You’re just jealous that I’m raking in more dollars per month than you’ll get in a lifetime. All I need in my life are my loyal friends and happiness and I’m not gonna put myself in a toxic relationship just to not be lonely and have a kid.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Except the thing is virtually all men appear toxic to you because you yourself, are toxic

[jjj101010]

Your body your choice

[ItsChloe]

@jjj101010 thank you!

[jjj101010]

U r welcome

[TruthBringer]

@itschloe If you want to be prideful about being an OnlyFans h03, then be my guest. Just don't start complaining about ending up alone down the line because no man wants to put a ring on your finger after finding out about it. Many women who have decided to do OnlyFans regret it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezbD8vL308Q

As for your ex boyfriend, he has the right to not be okay with it. Especially if you decided to do it mid-relationship. But if you were doing it prior to getting with him, and he tried to "change' you, then the fault lies on his shoulders.

Go ahead and be independent and do whatever you want. Make sure you stay single because from the sound of it, you're not fit to be a significant other.

[KrakenAttackin]

@itsChloe

Sure babes.

[YesterdaysChild]

I'm trying to figure that out because they don't mind looking at some other guy's woman posting racy pics. You don't think all the girls on Only Fans are single, do you? So doesn't it seem like these guys are hypocrites? "Don't look at my woman but sit down so I can see the girls perform."

[Kelly6]

Best answer

[kylee2437]

Hit the nail on the head. Look at the answers from the men in this comment section. “Who wants a woman that posts for external validation” meanwhile that’s all they go for. This is why I’m single because it seems like more and more men are starting to jump onto the hypocritical abusive tednencies

[kylee2437]

Tendencies

[WhiteBoyChill]

@kylee2437 You are referring to my comment there.

1) I dont use social media, with the exception of this site

2) I don’t go for those women, because they’re trash

[kylee2437]

@WhiteBoyChill I’m not to assume, but very rarely when a guy says that do they go for girls that are within their standards. They go for pretty girls that are not within those standards

[WhiteBoyChill]

@kylee2437 That isn’t true for me though. I haven’t pursued a single girl in 4 years

[kylee2437]

@WhiteBoyChill you are within the very few then

[WhiteBoyChill]

@kylee2437 I am a man of integrity

[DextroShade]

When you do that you are advertising to other men, which is implying that you will cheat. On IG a high-status celebrity guy could slide into your DMs at any time so it's potentially a huge problem. Also, the fact that you need to do that means that you need validation and attention from other guys which is in itself a big problem. My wife is beautiful and she doesn't have any social media becauseshe doesn't need validation from random men online. I'm with Jonah Hill on this one: if you want to do that then just be single.

[aquamarine321]

To put this in a simple form for females to understand because females want certain things from their man while males want certain things from there women and know women and how they think and behave while men knows how men think and the reason why men do this is
1) he loves or like you, if he didn’t he wouldn’t care less what you do as long as he satisfied
2) in his mind it’s like your putting yourself out there on the relationship market
3) men are territorial, and he would prefer you to respect him by only showing your body to him and not the world, he doesn’t mean you can’t dress sexy , but dress sexy for him and feeling sexy yourself by not over exposing yourself

[AviatorTom]

It's disrespectful since it's usually interpreted as "advertising for sex" by men who view the pictures; women should know that. I really don't want a guy to be jerking off to pictures of my SO. Find some other woman for your self-pleasure.

[DarkWinterNights]

Because seeking validation from strangers isn’t what men or women in happy relationships do. You’re basically putting yourself out there for any potentially higher bidder. Keeping one foot out the door. It’s basically like staying active on a dating app while you’re with someone.

[stepyo99]

Women: God! Men are such pigs! They'll just ogle at every woman they see, even if I'm standing right there with my husband/boyfriend!

Also women: Why is my husband/boyfriend so insecure about me dressing and posing like a slut? It's not like I'm ever going to cheat!

Women are completely incapable of introspection.

[Anonymous]

this is hilarious. i love how these boys are acting. they want it to be okay for them to stare at half naked chicks on the internet, watch porn, jerk off on other women, but it is not okay for their partner to post sexy photos. lol, poor little dumb boys.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Uhm yeah. Because men don’t want to date attention whores

[WhiteBoyChill]

@KrakenAttackin Imagine being that stupid

[Opinion Owner]

guess what? im with someone and he's all over me.. i have my own simp, because men want me. surprise surprise. why ignore the gist of my post, though? lolllll

[Opinion Owner]

oh yes bring more people please lmao

[WhiteBoyChill]

I didn’t ignore what you wrote.

You were complaining about guys not wanting to date women of your kind. I was just giving you an honest answer on why that is the case.

Most guys don’t want to date women that are obsessed with attention

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill well im in a very happy relationship, and those women are too and those who aren't have high standards.. and you know what i realized? you hate it so much because you can't have the hot women that deep down you're desperate to have. thats fine, but dont lie to yourself into hating them because you dont wanna face the fact that you're alone and no one wants you. no offense...

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t consider them “hot” though. They look like damaged souls to me that have been around the block too many times.

[WhiteBoyChill]

How else do you explain them still needing to feel the constant attention social media gives them?

[KrakenAttackin]

@WhiteBoyChill No kidding, she doesn't get it at all. A guy has a fantasy to jerk off so. She is fishing for more real live men.

I feel sorry for this chick, she will never have a happy relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

think whatever you want bro lol who cares about what you both losers think? i bet neither of you even get any pussy lmao. what do you even know about happy relationships if losers can't even be in one :( keep hating and we'll keep living our best livesss!!!

[Opinion Owner]

none of the words you type behind those screens is gonna change how women wanna live their lives.. you both are probably one of those losers who live their lives online when there are so much more in life than that. its kinda sad, but i couldnt care less so..

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol u come off as so desperate

[Cody20]

I personally would love to see my girl in a bikini or hot outfit on social media out of nowhere, but for some guys, it can feel like u are taking their masculinity away by showing others what they in their mind think is theirs, some may also be very insecure about thinking you are more attractive than them and sometimes the comments on these posts from random creeps can upset guys too. Just have a talk about it if you both feel really uncomfortable in separate ways about it.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Even a monkey can tell that when you expose you open doors for people especially other men to comment or flirt

And obviously you like it , you get validation
You get more options and an escape also more possibilities to cheat

Nobody like those odds , men are possesive they don't want someone commenting sexually explicitly or flirting with their wives or girlfriends

[BlackJeep]

Bikini photos are fine but sexually suggestive photos are a no go because it looks like she's seeking attention elsewhere. My girlfriend posts beach photos where she's wearing a bikini because that's what she wears to the beach and I see nothing wrong with that

[RavVid]

I remember a girlfriend going out without a bra and objecting to that. She came back and told me a guy had stared at her nipples and pretended to be offended. I thought she was deliberately seeking that response and considered it to be unfaithful to give other guys erections.

[Angelo75]

Also there is the aspect that such pictures will eventually attract the attention of players or other men who wants to flirt with her.

Eventually there is a higher chance that one of them will pose as a better partner, and if the wife/girlfriend isn't a very strong person, she could end up falling for that other guy.

[kylee2437]

What a crock. It’s that’s the case then men that feel this way need to look inward about on if they are even partner material to begin with

[Angelo75]

@kylee2437 Don't kill the messenger. The question was asked and the answer was given. No one asked about an opinion about the answer. So please focus on answering the question itself.

[kylee2437]

@Angelo75 ahhh so here you are a man trying to dictate me a woman how to use this app. How ironic

[Angelo75]

@kylee2437 well like I said before. The person posted a question about what "goes through mens head".
An answer was given about what goes through a mens head.
If you want to get into a discussion about what kind of feeling you have towards either the men with such thoughts or with someone saying what goes through the mind of men, well that would deviate from the purpose of this post.
Please start another post to do that.

I'm not going further in that discussion on this post.

[magiusX26]

technically posting these types of pics are in themselves an indicator of being ready to cheat/leave as these types of pics are of you in ways that should be more reserved for him only but instead posting them online screams "give me attention and validation" and possibly tells your guy that he, his attention, and his validation is not good enough.

[Kinkyhubby]

They don't want to deal with unwanted attention on their girlfriends or wives. Men know what other men are thinking, regardless how innocent it may be for the woman. Plus the wife should be a role model for the daughter, and doesn't want his daughter acting this way.

[John_Doesnt]

Because wives/girlfriends almost never dress sexy for their boyfriend after about 6 months of dating. Sure during the first couple weeks she's high maintenance and always in sexy outfits, but at some point it's all sweatpants and t-shirts. It's not just jealousy, it's also wondering why she doesn't put that effort into her appearance for her man.

[Jacq_attack]

If it's a bikini pic for no reason other than to get guys commenting then no. Sexually suggestive is totally out. Why be in a relationship if you feel the need to do that unless it's an open relationship you're in.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

For the same reason why you women would get mad if perhaps a boyfriend of yours posts a video of him helicoptering his thing in order to get female attention.


Or I hope so cause it’s obviously normal to feel that way in situations like that

[desidoll]

My husband has no issue with me doing that because he knows I am loyal to him. He has no insecurity when it comes to this matter. Also, I don’t care what other men think of it because obviously, they are not paying my bills 😁

[soe11]

desidoll
Exactly I go no problem whatsoever when my girlfriend wearing and posting her pictures with micro bikini.

[Anonymous]

A women who seeks sexual attention from strangers is not loyal. She is looking for the next best thing.

Any male who is ok with this isn’t a partner, he is a fool being used until she finds someone better.

If a guy partner was seeking sexual attention from women online or in public from other women, most females would not be ok with it.

[Hinaaaaa]

I think that's what a man will do cause he don't like it if another man thinking or fantasizing his woman. It's just that men are biologically like that... Just a bit more protective of their own Woman.

[jahaims]

Sharing your body sexually outside of a relationship is cheating. The only reason to post sexual pictures is for attention. You are seeking sexual attention which is obviously cheating.

[Asker]

Would the same rule apply if a man posted a photo of himself shirtless in swimming trunks?

[jahaims]

Pretending like male and female anatomy are the same for the sake of you trying to prove a point isn't going to work.

[Asker]

Why not?

[jahaims]

Because I live in reality.

[BasedBaeBecca]

Because they want to keep their girls to themselves, away from the eyes of other guys. When girls behave too flirtatious, even if they may be completely loyal to you, this can make men feel insecure and jealous.

[Anonymous]

This may be difficult for you to understand, but its advertisement. It suggests to others that you dont respect the person you're with and you're available to fuck. Its a boundary issue. But hey if you dont respect the person you're with, i am sure you will have a bright future on only fans.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It's because they don't want other men to look at their woman in a sexual way, as her dressing, looking, and being sexual should be something between them. I think bikini photos are probably ok though.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Except they aren’t. Because posting bikini photos is still trying to solicit attention and get external validation

[scouty]

Suggestive photos I can understand. Bikini photos who cares? I’m showing the same amount of skin as a man in a Speedo. From the comments of the of the guys here it sounds like it’s somewhat possessive. Just because she is dating you doesn’t mean her body is yours to dictate

[jjj101010]

I agree, your body your choice

[Anonymous]

I would like my girlfriend or wife to post hot bikini pics or nude pics
Bcoz
1. Let the world know I have one of the hottest woman as my wife/girlfriend
2. It's her choice
3. I'm not insecure or jealous

Even if it's a open relationship with clear boundaries then it's all good
Yes I'm different from others

[Nikki1989]

That is their insecurities and their controlling nature showing through.

[SolitarySolace]

Because it's on par with cheating. You wouldn't go to a male friend's house and walk around in your bikini would you?

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Girls these days probably would. No dignity and unable to see consequences for their actions.

[SolitarySolace]

It’s not just that they can’t see the consequences, society doesn’t place any on them thanks to the sexual Revolution.

[Alli39]

Because people have insecurities that make them jealous (or maybe the just have a moral issue with the act regardless of the individual doing it).

[inhua]

same reason fathers dislike their daughters for doing the same thing as do sons dislike their mothers for doing the same thing

[Asker]

And what's that reason?

[inhua]

men who care about the women in their life don't like it when other men sexualize and objectify them. this can only be achieved when the woman sexualizes and objectifies herself

often times, women hate the idea of being a trophy wife/girlfriend to be paraded around but seemingly have no issue parading themselves out to the public and invited "unwanted" attention

[Apple1996]

They are insecure cause they know they can't compete with other men that might hit on her

[Soldieronmission]

But we're not really competing if we're in a loyal relationship right.. But I get what you mean

[WhiteBoyChill]

What is this horse sh*t I’m reading?

Why the hell should any guy date a girl that’s so narcissistic she requires attention from everybody?

[Apple1996]

@Soldieronmission yes that's the point if the man is confident with himself and the relationship then he wouldn't be worried about others stealing his girl

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill whats wrong with getting attention? A man doesn't own a woman just cuz they are in a relationship together

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill also its only a picture. Not like she's offering herself up for marriage and having babies from other men 😂

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don't know. Maybe the fact that women who want attention and post pictures constantly are obnoxious.

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill everyone wants attention. It's natural for humans to want that

[WhiteBoyChill]

It isn’t natural though. People can still live fulfilling lifestyles just by having hobbies and good friends

[WhiteBoyChill]

The validation of strangers should not be a requirement of happiness for people. And as a matter of fact, its those that require the attention of others that are in fact the least happy

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill that's the difference between men and women. Most women don't have hobbies or a bunch of a friends. It's not on our nature to have those things especially if we have busy lives that don't allow for it

[WhiteBoyChill]

Guess what? Men have busy lives too. But we still can find the time for things every now and then. Also I know plenty of extroverted women with vibrant social lives

[Apple1996]

@WhiteBoyChill people who have time for that don't have real lives weighing them down. And the only girls that I've met like that are sluts irl. So it's either they are getting attention in person by a lot of men or posting pics and getting attention online by a lot of men.

[WhiteBoyChill]

But whoever said every woman needs constant attention? Plenty of women I don’t use social media and are happy enough without it

[WhiteBoyChill]

I know*

[Boomchakalaca]

Because they say “its an ad” advertising ur body for other people then ur partner lol

[TruthBringer]

That's basically what it is ;)

[BoopBoopBeep]

Because women that need outside validation from random men on the internet are too needy to date.

[socially_confused]

It may vary from person to person, but I think it is because of fear of losing them, or them cheating, and just overall jealousy.

[Bigjake1995]

I love it.

[RingOfFire]

I think the real question is how could you possibly not already understand the answer to this question? Your generation really scares me sometimes. But then again my generation scared the hell out of my parent's generation too. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[nastyb]

its because they are insecure... every young woman has pics like that

[TruthBringer]

Wrong and wrong.

Boundaries based on values and the need to preserve the integrity of a monogamous relationship has nothing to do with insecurity.

And no, not every woman has pics like that. I know plenty of women who don't, including my girlfriend. Not every woman is out there trying to seek validation on social media.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

because your girlfriend is the type of chick who never dresses up, never takes care of how she looks, has no pride in how she looks. she's the type who wears jeans and t shirt instead of a dress and makeup.

We , feminine ladies, take a lot of pride and care for how we look. If we have a nice body, we would want to show it off.

plus you are insecure because you're afraid that some dude will message her on instagram and steal your girlfriend. we all know what you're thinking.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

its kinda like saying... you're afraid some other dude will take your girlfriend so you forbid her to wear any nice , pretty clothes that shows off her figure. She must dress like a grandma going to church in order for you to feel safe.

[TruthBringer]

LMFAO once again you’re wrong on ALL levels. Especially about my girlfriend and my relationship with her. My girlfriend takes PRIDE in her body & looks, is in the best shape she ever is (regularly worksout), wears Vintage dresses (and gets plenty of compliments for it), and wears makeup just enough to make her look neat whenever she dresses up. Unlike many of you ladies, she doesn’t need makeup every time she gets out of the house because she is beautiful without it.
The only thing she does not do is post provocative pictures of herself online. Why? Because he has dignity. She also does not feel the need to seek validation from other people other than her own boyfriend (me) and family.

Your little delusional assumption of me being “afraid” another guy would snatch her from me is as pathetic as it gets. Women like you have a hard time accepting that men have and are allowed to have standards & boundaries. So, anything you don’t like, you put a stigmatizing label on top. That’s not how the world works, missy. There is a difference between insecurity and having boundaries to PRESERVE the integrity of a relationship.

My girlfriend is free to post pictures of herself in a bikini and put her profile ‘public’. No problem with me. I would just end things with her and find myself a woman who does not feel the need to seek validation elsewhere and showcase her body in a way that suggests she is ‘single’, even though she is not.
Sorry love, but you thinking that every pretty woman is out there advertising herself online is a flawed view of reality. Not every woman does that and not every woman feels the need to do that. Plenty of women out there who respect themselves, their relationships and have things going on in their lives that don’t make them feel like they have to seek validation from outsiders. Unlike you, not every woman uses her sexuality to feel adequate within society.

[TruthBringer]

Your entire reply revolves around: I want to have my cake and eat it too and anyone who does not agree is “insecure”.

You failed to provide a coherent counter-argument other than false assumptions and regurgitated feminist shaming tactics. But hey, whatever delusion helps you sleep at night.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

who the hell wears vintage dresses? probably one of those 1950s church girl looks.
and what kinda girl who has a shit ton of pride hate taking pictures?

quit pretending.. your girlfriend has no pride in the way she looks. because any girl who has pride in how she looks would love taking pics.

im pretty sure your girlfriend is the type with no ass and tits. thats why she hates taking pics in bikinis.

[Women like you have a hard time accepting that men have and are allowed to have standards & boundaries. ]

insecure men have plenty more boundaries than confident men. you're just afraid of losing your girlfriend to some random guy online.

im pretty sure you're also the type of guy who tells his girlfriend about what she can wear or can't wear. or the type who forbids his girlfriend from wearing jeans cuz he ass looks too big in it.

Nobody likes controlling insecure men. Just the same way a jealous woman who is always demanding to check her boyfriend's phone cuz she thinks he's cheating...

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Your entire reply revolves around: I want to have my cake and eat it too and anyone who does not agree is “insecure”.]

your entire reply revolves around: Controlling behavior. The type of guy who dictates how someone else dresses entirely based upon if he feels safe or not

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Because he has dignity. She also does not feel the need to seek validation from other people other than her own boyfriend (me) and family.]

what makes you think girls who take pride in their appearance and want to show off their good looks have no dignity?

surely, girls who love the way they look have more pride and dignity than a girl who hides from the camera right? compare a girl who loves everything about herself with a girl who has absolutely nothing to show off about herself... who has more dignity?

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[The only thing she does not do is post provocative pictures of herself online. Why? Because he has dignity. She also does not feel the need to seek validation from other people other than her own boyfriend (me) and family.]

what is wrong with appreciating comments from strangers? I worked extremely hard to have a nice body so why can't I accept compliments from strangers? why should it be a crime? how does appreciating compliments from others mean that I don't respect myself? If I love the way I look, I have the right to show it off.
I don't work hard as hell to look amazing , just to hide it away from the world.
I can easily tell you're just an insecure controlling man who is deathly afraid of losing his girlfriend to another man online. You don't feel good enough for her so you're constantly afraid of losing her.
Getting compliments online is not cheating ok? It just means I want to reap the rewards of my hard work (to look good)

[TruthBringer]

Imagine talking about insecurity and then proceed to talk smack about other people's significant others with rather baseless and inaccurate assumptions of "having no tits or ass". So much cope trying to talk shit about my girlfriend all to cope with your own inferiority complex. I can smell your bitterness from a mile away. The level of projection is palpable!



No sweetheart, it seems like you don't actually know what Vintage dresses even are. Not to blame you, only people with class actually know what they are.



I know it is hard for you to grasp, love. But not every pretty girl out there feels the need to fish for validation or attention from outsiders to feel good about themselves. They are raised in healthy families and have healthy relationships with people, have things going on in their lives and therefore don't need to act like sluts online to feel somewhat validated. They don't feel the need to objectify themselves because they have more things going on than their sexuality. And men with an ounce of self-respect seek those types to have long-term relationships and not women like yourself 😘

Now back to your OnlyFans and your simps, love.

@Wraith_Cemetery Come have a good laugh. According to this fine "lady", our women are "hideous" because they don't advertise themselves online like prostitutes 😂

[TruthBringer]

"your entire reply revolves around: Controlling behavior. The type of guy who dictates how someone else dresses entirely based upon if he feels safe or not"

"insecure men have plenty more boundaries than confident men. you're just afraid of losing your girlfriend to some random guy online."

Thanks for proving you don't know anything about the correlation between self-esteem and boundaries. With your logic, confident people don't have boundaries. Lmfao the delusion.

Just say you want a weak yes-man you can walk all over and that you're tired of getting rejected by men who don't put up with your BS. So to deal with the dent they cause to your self-esteem, you try to stigmatize them with false and baseless assumptions.

[TruthBringer]

Wait, so you basically admitted to be working hard just to fish for validation from strangers online. And here you are calling others "insecure" when it is INSECURE PEOPLE who do that. 😂😂 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Sweetheart, you have no leg to stand on. A true confident woman doesn't feel the need to fish for validation by advertising herself to the world. Only those who suffer from an inferiority complex do that. Psychology 101.

www.psychologytoday.com/.../using-social-media-reassurance-and-validation

I advise to aim your pitiful projection someone else. It's not working on me ;)



PS: Funny how you assume I control my girlfriend's wardrobe when I literally bought her a pair of jeans the other day because I liked how it looks on her 😂 🤦‍♂️. But hey, keep guessing.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[But not every pretty girl out there feels the need to fish for validation or attention from outsiders to feel good about themselves. ]

Girls don't post photos just for validation. girls post photos cuz they have PRIDE in the way they look. They would continue to post photos even IF THEY didn't RECEIVE ANY COMPLIMENTS from strangers. why? cuz they KNOW THEY LOOK GOOD. These girls are far from insecure.

I would post pretty or hot profile photo of myself on facebook even if I disabled my comments so nobody could compliment me. Because I enjoy looking good. And there is nothing wrong with that. Who doesn't like to look good? your girlfriend certainly hates looking good. haha

It has absolutely nothing to do with insecurity. because truth is... INSECURE PEOPLE hate showing themselves. Insecure people hate photos to be taken of them.

I'm pretty but put on makeup to look prettier. Your girlfriend puts on makeup only to look neat instead pretty. why? because she has a jealous boyfriend. she's afraid that if she is too pretty, then he might lose her to another guy...

she is in a controlling relationship where her boundaries are violated. she has no freedom. she needs to get permission for every single photo she wants to post online, she needs to ask for permission for every single piece of clothing she wears, she needs to get her boyfriend's permission for every single man she interacts with in her life.

now thats a sad life to a very insecure man

[TruthBringer]

Nope. Women who post provocative pictures online are most definitely seeking validation. This is a psychological fact. You don't just post provocative pictures of yourself online without an underlying intention. It's called a THIRST TRAP for a reason.

Women who genuinely like to share events in life do so without the means of highlighting their sexual features, most especially the ones who are in a relationship. ADvertising yourself to the world in a sexual way while being in a relationship is an indirect way telling the world you're single.

And you calling men who have a problem with that as "insecure" is beyond pathetic to say the least. That's no different from someone telling you that you're toxic or insecure for having a problem that your man goes to a strip club or puts himself in situations where horny women try to have a go.

There is a difference between being "insecure because she is going to leave" and not entertaining the thought of a relationship with a woman who opens the backdoor for new potential suitors. That's a direct violation of the relationship and a sign that she is not fully invested. This jeapordizes the integrity of the relationship.

Sorry miss, but if there is one group who is the true insecure ones, then it is the group needing to fish for validation from strangers online. Your accomplishments are not good enough in our eyes unless you get ACTIVE AFFIRMATION from others. According to Psychology, that's a clear sign of low self-esteem. Whereas those who are truly confident in themselves don't feel the need to get validated by others, let alone try to seek it. Why? Because they are already secure in their themselves.

[TruthBringer]

I also love how you keep on making inaccurate assumptions about me, my relationship and my girlfriend.

Sweetheart, my girlfriend is way beyond your level. One that you will never reach. Unlike you, she doesn't feel the need to asexualize herself for a bunch of creeps online to feel somewhat adequate. She trains and works on herself for HERSELF and for her loved one (me). I know it's hard for you to grasp that concept because you're suffering from an inferiority complex and do not know the concept of a healthy loving relationship

My girlfriend wears make up slightly to look neat because she doesn't need to alter her already beautiful looks. She looks STUNNING in dresses and even gets compliments from strangers just being outside.
"she needs to get permission for every single photo she wants to post online, she needs to ask for permission for every single piece of clothing she wears"
Sorry missy, maybe because you like to date such guys or happen to be this type of girl yourself, doesn't mean I am like that.

Your narcissism, arrogance and the need to smear others to validate yourself is an awful sign of low self-esteem. So keep on projecting.

Now that is a sad life to a very insecure girl who clearly did not experience proper love from her father, and therefore feels the need to take dump on other people and seek validation from strangers just to ease the pain of her inferiority complex.

Project your daddy issues elsewhere, girly. Back to your OnlyFans simps.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Nope. Women who post provocative pictures online are most definitely seeking validation. ]

Provocative is beauty. If I have a nice figure, why can't I show it off? Its quite funny how you go around GAG mocking older women and saying that a woman's self worth is completely based on her looks. YET, you say that being sexy or good looking should be a crime. If my beauty is my worth, why can't I show off my beauty?

whats so wrong with compliments? sounds like compliments are ridiculously offensive to you. Doesn't matter what you say cuz EVERYONE LOVES COMPLIMENTS. Beautiful women love compliments... Ugly girls love compliments... You can't sit here and insist that there are girls out there who don't like compliments. I'm pretty sure your girlfriend would really appreciate it if someone called her pretty... I'm sure she would like more of those compliments.

I like posting pics of myself online. And its to update my friends and distant family on my life. If I were to go shopping and wanted to take a pic in front of a statue, I would want to look as pretty as possible. And no, don't guilt trip me for wanting to look as good as possible... I'm not gonna try to make myself look ugly as hell because an insecure angry boyfriend is afraid of losing me.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[[Sweetheart, my girlfriend is way beyond your level. One that you will never reach. Unlike you, she doesn't feel the need to asexualize herself for a bunch of creeps online to feel somewhat adequate. She trains and works on herself for HERSELF and for her loved one (me). I know it's hard for you to grasp that concept because you're suffering from an inferiority complex and do not know the concept of a healthy loving relationship]

she's not in a healthy loving relationship. she's bending over to a very insecure jealous man just to appease him. And such a controlling relationship will end up being more controlling when it enters marriage. Your girlfriend has NO BACKBONE and has NO BOUNDARIES as a person.

[My girlfriend wears make up slightly to look neat because she doesn't need to alter her already beautiful looks. She looks STUNNING in dresses and even gets compliments from strangers just being outside.]

When average looking girls wear a little bit makeup, they end up looking "neat" because they are not pretty. Pretty girls can end up looking "stunning" with just a tiny bit of makeup. your girlfriend looks neat because she's not a "pretty girl".

[TruthBringer]

Hahahah the level of cope is palpable! Sweetheart, keep on guessing.

My girlfriend is a far higher leveled person than you are and also managed to secure herself a loving healthy relationship. Whereas you're fishing for external validation and will never find genuine happiness.

You wear make up because you look hideous without it. Whereas my girlfriend does not even need it to look pretty, in the first place. But I'll let you know when she starts giving a shit about some social media slut's opinion. I wouldn't hold your breath, love 😂😂

Come back when you managed to secure a decent man who isn't some simp who bends over backwards at your every whimp. Sorry love, but men of value don't commit to attention seeking E-thots.

[TruthBringer]

Sweetheart, you're seeking validation from others to help you feel pretty. That's a clear indication you are not pretty. Truly pretty women know they are happy and don't feel the need to seek it. That's not you.

But hey, whatever helps you cope, Narc 😂

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

Sweetie... when pretty girls wear a little bit of makeup, they look even prettier. they don't just look neat.

thats how I know your girlfriend is not pretty.

Just because you call your boyfriend beautiful , it doesn't mean she is beautiful.
every boyfriend calls his girlfriend beautiful. I have seen men call their 200 pound gfs beautiful, it doesn't mean she is.

My 65 yr old father calls my 64 yr old mother "beautiful" but is she actually beautiful? i don't think so...

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Sweetheart, you're seeking validation from others to help you feel pretty. ]

your girlfriend doesn't post pics cuz she's not pretty. she doesn't post because she wouldn't get any compliments over the internet anyways...

[TruthBringer]

Sweetheart, my girlfriend is pretty with or without make up. Unlike you, she doesn't need make up to feel pretty or to post herself on social media. And when she does post herself, she doesn't advertise herself like some slut. She posts nice pictures of herself doing activities, with me, or with family.

All I'm reading from you is:
"I am an ugly girl who did not get proper love from daddy and now feel the need to talk trash about other people and their relationships because I can't secure myself a decent man. So I will hate on anybody who did succeed in it"

Get your cannister of copium refilled, love <3

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

I look gorgeous when I put a little bit of makeup on. Pretty girls dont look "neat" when they put makeup on...

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Sweetheart, my girlfriend is pretty with or without make up. Unlike you, she doesn't need make up to feel pretty or to post herself on social media. And when she does post herself, she doesn't advertise herself like some slut. ]

she likely wouldn't get any compliments over the internet even if she wore makeup. just an honest fact...

[TruthBringer]

Your interpretation of "neat" is different from mine.

Notice how you're so hell-bent on attacking my girlfriend? All in an attempt to pull her down. That's a clear indication she is on a higher level than you. Don't worry, I'll tell her she has a fan.

In the mean time:
keep on projecting, ugly girl ;)

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

listen dude... YOU said she looked "neat" with makeup on... I didn't say that.

I'm just going off of what you said.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

Only average looking girls look "neat" with a bit makeup on. Pretty girls look gorgeous with a little bit of makeup on. It doesn't take a lot of makeup to make a pretty girl look hot.

[TruthBringer]

Like I said, your interpretation of what neat is is not the same as mine. I also already told you she looks pretty with AND without makeup.

But hey, it is generally known that ugly girls like to hate on pretty girls because of insecurity, envy and jealousy. Hence why you're hell-bent on attacking my girlfriend for absolutely no reason all while she also has not done anything to you.

Typical behavior from an ugly girl desperate for external validation. No wonder you're fishing for affirmation online. But please do go ahead and keep telling me how "pretty" you are and how ugly others are.
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[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

I don' think so... take a look at what you wrote:

[My girlfriend takes PRIDE in her body & looks, is in the best shape she ever is (regularly worksout), wears Vintage dresses (and gets plenty of compliments for it), and wears makeup just enough to make her look neat whenever she dresses up.]

no pretty girl just looks "neat" with makeup on. when pretty girls wear makeup, they look hot.

You can pretend all you want. But you can always slip up.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Typical behavior from an ugly girl desperate for external validation. No wonder you're fishing for affirmation online. But please do go ahead and keep telling me how "pretty" you are and how ugly others are.]

because I am a pretty girl. And when I wear makeup, I look gorgeous. "neat" is far from an accurate description of how I look. Men don't call beautiful women " neat"... they call her gorgeous or hot. Just the truth...

so you can quit lying and pretending...

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[[My girlfriend takes PRIDE in her body & looks, is in the best shape she ever is (regularly worksout), wears Vintage dresses (and gets plenty of compliments for it), and wears makeup just enough to make her look neat whenever she dresses up.]]

and from the way you wrote this, it sounds like people are complimenting how pretty the dress is rather than how pretty she is...

here's another slip up.

[TruthBringer]

I love it when a triggered ugly girl is spamming with replies because she is so insecure trying to insult a man's girlfriend. Like that will bother me or my girl.

Like I said, ugly girls are notorious for trying to drag down pretty girls and ruin any chance they get for suitors. That's you, sweetheart. Keep on hating on pretty girls who get men easily without advertising themselves in a slutty way.

"because I am a pretty girl. And when I wear makeup, I look gorgeous. "neat" is far from an accurate description of how I look."

Pretty girls don't need to wear make up love.

[TruthBringer]

"and from the way you wrote this, it sounds like people are complimenting how pretty the dress is rather than how pretty she is..."

Another thing with ugly girls, they can't manage to look good in dresses designed for pretty girls. If you don't look good in what you wear, you won't get compliments for what you wear, sweetheart.

You know what they say, let a woman talk long enough and she will tell on herself. You did plenty of times, ugly girl. Keep hating on pretty girls to make yourself feel better 😂😂

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

Your girlfriend is the one who is too ashamed to even take a picture , hun... be careful about who you call "ugly"

Nobody thinks your girlfriend is beautiful, only you do.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[["because I am a pretty girl. And when I wear makeup, I look gorgeous. "neat" is far from an accurate description of how I look."

Pretty girls don't need to wear make up love.]]

Actually pretty girls do wear makeup. Take a look at models... do they wear makeup? they sure do...

your girlfriend just doesn't wear makeup cuz she doesn't take pride in her appearance... like i said... she's the type of girl who dresses like a grandma going to church. Church girls are known to not wear any makeup. Unstylish girls don't wear makeup.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Like I said, ugly girls are notorious for trying to drag down pretty girls and ruin any chance they get for suitors. That's you, sweetheart. Keep on hating on pretty girls who get men easily without advertising themselves in a slutty way.]

what you've said so far has contradicted everything you've said about your girlfriend being beautiful. You can call her beautiful all you want... but your slip ups have proved you wrong...

when people compliment how pretty her dress is instead of how she looks... thats how you know she's not pretty.

when her man calls her makeup look "neat"... thats how you know she's not gorgeous.

sorry man... only you've made those slip ups... not me.

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Like I said, ugly girls are notorious for trying to drag down pretty girls and ruin any chance they get for suitors. That's you, sweetheart. Keep on hating on pretty girls who get men easily without advertising themselves in a slutty way.]

but YOU WOULDN'T DATE A GIRL WHO CAN GET ALL THE MEN... Not a guy who is so insecure and jealous that he won't even let his girlfriend post a pretty pic over the internet. You would hate dating a hot girl due to how often she gets hit on by other men...

haha here's another slip up...

[TruthBringer]

Sweetheart, I'm not even reading your posts. You're triggered so badly that your spamming me with more and more replies every time you choose to reply.

We get it, you're an ugly girl who has not experienced love from her father and is hating on pretty girls who are in happy relationships and don't feel the need to seek external validation to feel good about themselves.

I always love when seeing E-thots triggered about things they can't get that others can without being thots

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

you're not reading because you know your slip ups are real... and it hurts you bad...

lets be honest...

only you think your girlfriend is beautiful, nobody else thinks she's beautiful.

[TruthBringer]

Whatever helps you sleep at night, ugly girl ;)

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

well maybe if you haven't slipped up so much, I would still believe she is beautiful..

[Whatever helps you sleep at night, ugly girl ]

if calling me "ugly" makes you feel better about being proved wrong... haha

[TruthBringer]

Just because you like to use strawman arguments, doesn't mean I "slipped", darling.

"if calling me "ugly" makes you feel better about being proved wrong... haha"

If attacking my girlfriend makes you feel better about being exposed for an ugly insecure attention seeker, then hey, I'm happy to play pretend

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

these aren't strawman arguments, they're CONTRADICTIONS...

because pretty girls live a life difference experience compared to average looking girls... we get different compliments compared to average looking girls.

when you wear a nice dress out and everyone just compliments your dress but not your face... thats how you can tell that you're not pretty...

when your wear makeup and your man says "look Neats" instead of "babe, you look drop dead gorgeous"... thats how you know you're not pretty...

My man's mouth drops and he gets floored when I wear makeup... he doesn't just call me "neat looking"

[TruthBringer]

Wait, it just occurred to me. You're desperate for attention hence why you're arguing here endlessly. It all makes sense now. Sorry, love. I'm not here to compensate for the lack of attention you got from your dad. I'm going back to plan the vacation I'm taking with my girlfriend where we will celebrate our anniversary abroad. Something you're envious about because you can't get a man, in the first place.

You go ahead and have the last say. Allow me to suggest seeking therapy because the level of bitterness you have for women prettier than yourself is quite concerning to your own mental health. You're free to have the last say now (not that I will read it) Ciao ciao 😘😘.

[nastyb]

and you said your girlfriend can get ANY man...

you wouldn't be able to date a girl who gets hit on all the time...

you can't even handle her getting compliments online.

how can you handle a hot girl who gets hit on by men all the time?

here's another contradiction...

[TruthBringer]

Indeed pretty girls live different lives. Hence why my girlfriend is in a loving relationship, experiencing true love and adventure while you're desperate to fish for external validation to make up for your inferiority complex.

No wonder you're using social media affirmation as a coping mechanism LMFAO!

Anyway, I really gotta go now <3

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

and you said your girlfriend can get ANY man...

you wouldn't be able to date a girl who gets hit on all the time...

you can't even handle her getting compliments online.

how can you handle a hot girl who gets hit on by men all the time?

here's another contradiction...

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

[Indeed pretty girls live different lives. Hence why my girlfriend is in a loving relationship, experiencing true love and adventure while you're desperate to fish for external validation to make up for your inferiority complex.]

pretty girls who have things to show off about don't have an inferiority complex.

only girls who don't wear makeup and hide from the camera... hates taking pictures have an inferiority complex.

if you were so pretty... why hide from the camera?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@nastyb so according to you insecure people who need to wear makeup and show off infront of a camera for validations do not have an "inferior complex"? now that is so ironic

[nastyb]

@Filthy_Immigrant

ugly or average looking people have nothing to show off about on the camera... just remember that... most average looking people who wear makeup aren't even gorgeous

[TruthBringer]

@Filthy_Immigrant Save your breath, she is going to strawman whatever you say all in a desperate attempt to cope with her inferiority complex. I love how she twisted whatever I said just to attack my girlfriend. Like when this conversation is about posting provocative pictures and she twisted it claiming my girlfriend never posts pictures of herself, which is something I never said. I only said my girlfriend doesn't post sexual pictures for validation, not that she never posts pictures at all 😂🤦‍♂️

This is typical manipulation tactics ugly girls use to pull women down they feel inferior towards 😂😂

This article sums up miserable women like her.
medium.com/.../10-traits-of-unhappy-people-that-show-how-miserable-they-truly-are-b8e0e3da4f28

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

nobody is twisting anything you've said... you just contradicted yourself so many times you've lost all credibility...

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@TruthBringer she sounds pretty familiar 😂😂

just when I thought all women were not the same. now she's accusing you of twisting things just like that other familiar person

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

Be nasty to other people and other people will be nasty to you in return... Don't be shocked.

[This is typical manipulation tactics ugly girls use to pull women down they feel inferior towards ]

is the ugly girl your girlfriend who hates taking pictures or the girl who loves taking pictures?

[nastyb]

@Filthy_Immigrant

I didn't twist any words...

I even copy and pasted what he said... you can check it out by scrolling up...

I always referred back to what he typed up...

[TruthBringer]

@Filthy_Immigrant See? What did I tell you? All delusional twisting of words and strawmanning what someone says just to attack girls prettier than her 😂😂.
Yeah, I'm finding her sound familiar indeed. Take a look at this profile of hers, wouldn't surprise me to be a burner account

[TruthBringer]

@Filthy_Immigrant Just ignore. Girl got daddy issues and tries to seek to compensate for it by arguing with random men online. Best thing to do with narcissists is to just ignore them. I'm going back to planning my holiday with my hot girlfriend who isn't a online slut <3

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

it seems like it really triggers you when other people say that your girlfriend isn't pretty...

[TruthBringer]

@nastyb That's funny. It seems like it really triggers you knowing that unlike you, other more attractive people are in wonderful relationships whereas you're fishing for a guy by acting like a slut.

Your strawman arguments hold no merit here. So keep on projecting love. I had a wonderful night with my hot girlfriend knowing she isn't a slut like you. You can have the last say, ugly girl. Deuces 😘✌️

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

I know it bothers you when I call your girlfriend ugly because you keep replying despite saying you don't care... YOU DO CARE... and its quite obvious.

nobody else thinks your girlfriend is beautiful, only you do.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

@TruthBringer Oh wow, thanks for tagging me mate! I had such a good laugh at this pathetic woman's projections and assumptions.

No worries though. Her comments are absolutely meaningless. I too am completely happy knowing that I have a dignified wife who doesn't need to advertise her body online. She is far from ugly too and is comfortable in her own skin. TRULY confident women don't need to expose themselves online. I find it hilarious how so many girls online think confidence means dressing half naked and covering up means you hate your body.

MODESTY is VALID and beautiful.

[nastyb]

@Wraith_Cemetery

The very same guys who say that modesty is beautiful are the same ones who say they only date girls 18-25. They're also the same guys who keep ogling at beautiful women with hourglass figures, scrolling through and liking hot girl pics on Instagram... The same guys who say that they prefer girls without makeup but its always high maintenance girls that get all the attention. Guys say they prefer a girl in t shirt and jeans but its always the girls in pretty dresses and heels that get all the attention.

we know what men are like... you don't have to continue pretending and lying.

[nastyb]

@Wraith_Cemetery

ever heard of Onlyfans?

there are literally men paying their hard earned money to that platform so they can view beautiful hot women.

So don't tell me that men prefer modesty.

Its time to quit lying

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@nastyb actually NO!

the guys who pay OnlyFans do so to jerkoff to the women on that site then move on with their lives, that's what porn is for. so it sounds to me like you can't tell LOVE and SEXUAL ATTRACTION apart. but dont worry, you are not alone; that's literally 95% of modern women nowadays

[TruthBringer]

@Wraith_Cemetery You're absolutely right! Nothing better than being in a relationship with a beautiful a non-slut woman showing off her real feminine beauty in a classy way. You should see how my woman does her hair and how stunning she looks in her Vintage dresses. Whenever we are out in the mall or anywhere else, both young and old people compliment her. And you can tell they are genuine compliments full of admiration.

Girls who feel the need to advertise themselves in a sexual manner are clearly deprived of a father's love and seek to fill the void with superficial online affirmation that will never be enough. It is also a sign of low-self esteem from a Psychological perspective.

Best to you and your woman!

[nastyb]

@Filthy_Immigrant

love and sexaul attraction are different?

what makes you think a guy is gonna approach an average looking girl with t shirt jeans and flip flops on over a girl with makeup and a pretty skirt with heels on?

what makes you think a man is gonna approach a woman with tiny tits and ass over a woman with perky beautiful breasts and a round large ass?

i don't know why men like you lie... when clearly looks are 100% paramount to you...

[nastyb]

@TruthBringer

because you're just deathly afraid that you will lose your girlfriend if her jeans are too tight. you're the type of guy who forbids all his gfs from wearing mini skirts. it has nothing to do with her. it has entirely to do with you.

your pretending isn't working.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@nastyb YES!

just because a guy beats his meat to a girl does not mean he loves that girl and is interested in a relationship with her. same goes when they approach hot women in public. it could be that maybe they just want to hit and run like people who live the hookup culture do.

is no wonder why you women who love advertizing yourselfs like prostitutes on social media always end up heartbroken and complain about men being liars. cause obviously you all think that men simping over you all means they automatically love you and again thats not how it works

[nastyb]

@Filthy_Immigrant

you're not gonna persuade anyone that a guy would ask a girl wearing flip flops and jeans t shirt over a girl with cleavage, nice legs and skirt and heels.

its time to give up.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@nastyb not shit I'm not. but again dont be surprised if the dudes who hit on you for showing lots of skin ONLY WANT YOU FOR SEX

[nastyb]

@Filthy_Immigrant

really? the same guys on here who say they want modest women are also the same guys who say they are willing to date women in their 20s and pay their hard earned money for onlyfans.

do you really think it sounds like these guys want modest girls? haha i don't think so...

[nastyb]

@Filthy_Immigrant

really? the same guys on here who say they want modest women are also the same guys who say they are ONLY* willing to date women in their 20s and pay their hard earned money for onlyfans.

do you really think it sounds like these guys want modest girls? haha i don't think so...

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@nastyb again, you go to OnlyFans to MASTURBATE to the women on there. OnlyFans is not a dating site. nobody goes there hoping that they're gonna get a date with the bimbos on there. so your logic.

so your comparison is extreme flawed and illogical.

[nastyb]

@Filthy_Immigrant

do you realize most men can't even get through the first few weeks of dating without sleeping with women?

and how do you expect me to believe that men won't date women on onlyfans? haha

you're absolutely ridiculous...
most men aren't church boys and most women aren't church girls. I don't know what kinda delusion you're living in.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@nastyb no sure what planet you're from.

I guess this means that if you love masturbating to gay men porn that means you are willing to TRY to date a gay man even if the probability of him dating you are low for the fact he doesn't like women.

also even if you do date a woman in OnlyFans just because she does porn in her OnlyFans does not mean she gives it up easy in real life so I'm not sure where you are trying to get at with a "men can't even get through the first few weeks of dating without sleeping with women"

oh wow! the girl who thinks OnlyFans is a dating site is calling me ridiculous and delusional!



and when did I said all men and women are church people? also church people get their freak on to every now and then, so I think its time already for you to take your black and white goggles off

[TruthBringer]

@Filthy_Immigrant LMFAO not only is she far from accurate with her baseless assumptions of people, but the fact she even thinks OF is for dating makes it even better. My guy, don't waste your time with this mindless ugly bimbo. The fact she has to unbutton a few buttons more shows she has no true beauty. So showing a bit more skin would compensate for her ugly ass.

This picture sums people like her up. Nothing new here, just move on lol

[Lis-the-librarian]

I think it's disrespectful to yourself and your partner, if you share pictures of yourself that are clearly with sexual undertone.
No matter the gender.

[JeffersonA]

Cause it is not for us!

It is for them and of course they want every one to see how sexy they look!

[Bricealan]

Because they are afraid, that those guys looking at them will get ideas of boning them, and got forbid,,,,,,,,,,,,, be jacking-off to them!!!

[Pyrofox]

It diminishes their value. Something that is free isn't rare nor is it valuable.

[Pyrofox]

It is the same reason women who are OF models, and porn stars struggle to keep men. A womans value is what is truly sacred. The minute you put a monthly access on ones body is the same moment the claim that you are a priceless. Also disappears if you come to the table and claim to be a priceless woman. A man doesn't want to find out your real value that you actually consider yourself is 5 dollars a month.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because it's advertising yourself.

No point to doing that unless you're single, otherwise it's disrespectful.

[DryGermanGuy]

„Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor‘s wife.“
- Decalogue

[WhiteBoyChill]

Isn’t the whole purpose of posting on social media to solicit attention from people? Why should any guy want a woman that looks for external validation?

[Paul09]

Probably because they stare at other women in bikinis too. And don't want that happening to there's. Lol

[sheikalana]

Because that's supposed to be be only for them to see not the rest of the world.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I just think it's inappropriate and disrespectful especially when married to be posting such photos online.

[Chthou95]

Because you know what kind of attention you're going to attract doing stuff like that. Most men are not going to be okay with sharing yourself on the internet

[Surely]

Because there will always be so called friends making rude and insulting comments about their girlfriend.