Could it be possible? 🤔?

[Anonymous]

I realized men can read me like a book. Even if they don’t know me. One look at me and they can tell I give off this bad vibe that makes them avoid me. Not saying that’s a bad thing because you want to protect yourself. But, I figured out that’s what they think about me.

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Honestly, I’m mad at myself for not realizing this sooner. It makes so much sense.

[DannyUk2017]

Never Judge a Book by its cover, i don't read a person straight away, usually i Read the Body Language, and Mind Language, but i'm doing it long enough, to be able to make a decission. Done it before in my Teen years TOO SOON, and i lost the Person i wanted to be with, it had BackFired on me very bad, and since then i'm "reading" parralel with Patience.

[Asker]

I think if you find something off about a person, you should trust your instincts.

[DannyUk2017]

Not until at least 80% if not 100. That's how i "work"... 🤷‍♂️

[BoopBoopBeep]

What do you think the bad vibe is? There's a bunch of different types of bad vibes.

[Asker]

Like, they can tell something is off about me that will make our relationship go downhill.

[Asker]

Those kind of bad vibes.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No I gotcha... but "she's high maintenance" vs "she's stuck up" vs "she's going to steal my kidneys" are all bad vibes but would be addressed differently.

[Asker]

I have that “she’s a bitch that she’ll make my life miserable” vibe.

[BoopBoopBeep]

That's a bummer. I don't get that from you on here. Wonder what's different in real life. Haha, I mean, you know, besides... everything.

[Asker]

I’ll be honest and say I’m nice behind screen but a real bitch in real life. You can ask anyone who knows me.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why do you think you act differently?

[Asker]

No more questions please. I’m just am who I am.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Sure thing. Have a great evening (or whatever you have now)!

[Alli39]

I mean what do you think they're "reading" from you? I'm just confused by what a "bad vibe" might be?

[Asker]

You ever get this gut feeling about someone that just seems off?

[Alli39]

I mean, usually that's rooted in things like negative speech/behavior patterns or personal prejudices so I guess? So if you're implying that people see you and immediately think you're doing something that makes them uncomfortable, then it's not your vibe, it's the way you act. (Not trying to be rude, but I'm serious. If you find people avoiding you it's unlikely to be "vibes" so much as something about the way you act, speak, or otherwise present might be having some sort of common negative connotation.)

[TonyMetal___86]

Well they must have realized that you're a witch and can turn them into frogs or suppositories 🤣🤣

Bibidi bibidi boo 😱 🐸

[Asker]

LMAO 🤣

[krin_m]

Why do you think you give a bad vibe? May be in reality something is wrong with the men you encounter instead?

[Asker]

No, it’s me. They didn’t do anything wrong.

[krin_m]

What do you think you did wrong?

[Asker]

Be a total bitch for no reason.

[Asker]

I’m that type of person who would make you miserable on purpose.

[krin_m]

Ah OK.

[Asker]

I’ve done it to friends and family. If you were to meet them, they would tell you.

[krin_m]

Sounds like you enjoy being a bitch.

[Asker]

Just who I am 🤷‍♀️

[krin_m]

How does that affect your sex life?

[Asker]

Never had sex before

[krin_m]

Ah, may be that is the root cause.

[Asker]

What, never having sex before?

[krin_m]

Yeah.

[Asker]

Nah, that’s just my personality. I’ve always been this way.

[krin_m]

Hmmm.. DM me.

[Asker]

I sent you follow so we can send messages better.