Why does a male come on to me just to say he doesn't like me?

[Anonymous]

[Curmudgeon]

They really should teach Aesop's fables in our schools. This is classic "Sour grapes":
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fox_and_the_Grapes

[Erroin]

You have anymore details? If we’re not interested then we’re wasting effort talking to you. What happened exactly

[Asker]

I was at the bar & he's saying how sexy dark skin women are and saying he'd have sex but not date me... he was a childhood friend too so it was extremely weird. He kept doing it too so it was weirder

[Erroin]

This may seem brutal, for that I apologize, but I know you want honesty. Guys automatically sort women into one of three categories. Date/marry, fling, and neither. He finds you physically attractive and wants to sleep with you. But for one reason or another, he can’t see himself being in a committed monogamous relationship with you. It’s anyone’s guess as to why that is, but that’s the long and short of what’s going on.

[Asker]

I'm not pretty to him. He doesn't believe in me or he doesn't believe I can be that 1 for him and that's okay. I know I am amazing... his loss

[Chelsdope0]

Such assholes honestly

i have feelings too.

[Asker]

Right

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women lead men on just to reject them.

[Asker]

I guess