What does he feel when I reject him?

[Anonymous]

Hi I dated this guy, we went out 3 times. He is super attractive, successful, whatever.

Anyway, after the third date I reached out to see him in which he replied “I’m busy etc etc” so I just left the ball in his court.

2.5 months later he messages me suggesting we get a drink with like. No apologies or anything. I basically acted indifferent and just told him I am not interested.

my question is how do you think this makes him feel or if he feels anything at all lol. I am not going to be someone’s 2nd or 3rd option. No matter how hot they are or how good the sex is.

[RespectfulGuy]

3 dates, and only 3 dates? Then 2.5 months?

We'll, he needed a fuck hence he contacted you.

You said no.

If it were me, I moved on at that moment. No hurt feelings.

And likely he does the same. No hurt feelings. He probably doesn't feel a thing as well.

Sorry if you think he'll cry for a week or month or needed medication to cope.

Sorry. No. He probably went partying that night with his pack. And fuck his night off with some ONS.

Sorry. Its 2023. And don't believe movies made in 1983 or before. They're so,... 1980s.

[Asker]

Cheers. Makes me feel better hey

[RespectfulGuy]

Cheers! Glad to be of help. Have a GREAT day ahead.

[spartan55]

He got over it in the time it took you to read this.

[Asker]

Onto the next on his roster

[spartan55]

I'm sure you would prefer he was all mad and shit, but that's not how guys like that operate.

[Asker]

Well I think it definitely surprised him and that is enough to make me feel better ha ha ha

[Asker]

How do they operate

[spartan55]

Whatever does it for ya.

[spartan55]

You were just another piece of ass.

[Mariammhan]

Angry or not important

[Asker]

Good

[Mariammhan]

🙌🙌🙌

[KatherineJ]

If it was 8 weeks, probably not much.