What does it mean when he says this to me after I rejected him?

[Anonymous]

So I do admit was playing hard to get to make him want me and yesterday he confronted me privately via text and said, "Please don't play mind games with people, people don't have time for that. If you keep on playing these games you're going to get into an awful relationship with an awful partner who'll cheat you and you'll be left feeling cynical and resentful about the world." These were basically his words and I know I was playing games but what does he mean by all this? Will it really happen.

[Oigit]

You where playing mind games by trying to play hard to get. More often then not we attract what we put out there. So if you play games, you are going to attract people that will play games with you. Also it can very much land you in a situation with someone is a hell of a lot better at playing games then you. In a way you are setting yourself up for someone playing serious games with you and more then likely using you for for everything they can get out of you.

Also, both men and women can sometimes to wonder where all the good men or women have gone. Like they can't find a good one and seem to bounce from one failed relationship to another. This can lead to think that all of it is the other parties fault and not their own. But the reality is genuinely people are seeing a lot of red flags and avoiding them. Those red flags being indications that you are the kind of person that wants to play games and or use people.

So instead of these people wondering why there are no good ones left, they need to ask themselves what they did to run them off

[sw1916]

Yeah it will. That’s fucked up that you’re playing with someone’s emotions. If you want him, tell him. If you don’t, let him go. Don’t fuck with peoples heads.