If a guy is still around as a friend do they really want you still?

[daisychainaddict]

[_Maya_]

Want you how? Like want you for more than a friend? Maybe but do you not just have guy friends that are just friends or do you believe they always have some ulterior motive to get with you? I have a few good guy friends that have never made a pass at me or even indicated they want more. Surely at the age of 40 you would have had guy friends that just wanted to be friends.

[daisychainaddict]

No, we were dating, very seriously... making plans for the future. I then had panic attacks due to my last relationship being abusive. So, we called it. Now I want him (not the abuser, but the guy who is still my friend) back... but we are just friends because thats what he wants.

[_Maya_]

Okay. Didn't have that info. But didn't you just answer your own question? You said he just wants to be friends so that would mean he doesn't want you then.

[Iron_Man]

If they like you more than a friend. But sometimes true friends are really genuine

[Anonymous]

By age 40 you should know this, this is a high school question.

[spartan55]

Still around after what?

[Kacka]

yes mostly

[Rvstar]

Yes for sure