I think my male coworker likes my male crush… he starts to act rude to me when he’s around?

[Chelsdope0]

I think my coworker/friend he is bi or gay but hasn’t come out. He acts feminine sometimes… his voice can get girly sometimes. At first I noticed that he kind of had a disliking towards him. Said he’s “moody”… but lately I’ve been seeing him look at him a lot. Whenever he passes or whenever..

I think the thing that stung most is that whenever we are around him he starts to act really rude borderline disrespectful towards me. Whenever we are around him…

I don't know if my “crush” is closeted gay either. It doesn’t appear but idk… he doesn’t seem attracted to me. I’m avg. in looks

[BigDog1989]

So you think he's gay, basically?

[Chelsdope0]

My coworker or crush?

[BigDog1989]

Co-worker

[Chelsdope0]

I asked him and he said “I’m just chilling” so that wasn’t a no or yes answer… I don’t think a straight guy would answer that way but I just left it alone.

I just don’t know why he has to act very rude towards me when he’s around him.

[BigDog1989]

Who knows, but, if you think he likes him, ten maybe he is in fact gay

[Chelsdope0]

I have in fact caught him staring at him and like I said he is rude to me whenever he’s around. It’s like he’s trying to embarrass me

I don't know if the guy I like is secretly gay either…

[BigDog1989]

Maybe

[Chelsdope0]

Maybe what? How to know for sure

[BigDog1989]

See if he acts like it. Women usually have good "gaydar", right?

[Chelsdope0]

But he doesn’t give “gaydar”… but he is 20 possibly 19 and I’m 25 so he’s prob too young for me.

[BigDog1989]

Which makes you wonder why you'd go so low

[Chelsdope0]

What do you mean? “Go so low”

[BigDog1989]

That low of an age diff.

[Chelsdope0]

You’re saying that is a big gap in age? That’s too young?

[BigDog1989]

It's a big gap, I'm not saying it's not allowed, I'm saying, it's a big gap

[Chelsdope0]

Yeah it is. It’s immature to even have a crush on him. But I didn’t know his age at first. I thought he was 23.

[BigDog1989]

Yeah, I'm 34, people think I'm MUCH younger. I hate it. That's why I prefer having facial hair so that it makes me actually LOOK my age

[Chelsdope0]

So I should just let it go?

I’m 25 people still think I’m 18 or 21

[BigDog1989]

That sucks

[Chelsdope0]

I should move on? Is this kind of weird? … I shouldn’t feel like this?

[BigDog1989]

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