What do I do about him? What is he thinking?

[ChooChooHaha]

He is my boss.
He has his shit together, more than I could even dream of having. He makes me strive to be better. He and I seem like we could really connect... but lately we've had a falling out. I don't know what to do. What do I do? He doesn't want to listen to me, he doesn't want to be anywhere near me. I'd kill to have him like me again. Trust me again. He has no idea what he does to me, how hot he makes me. How sad he makes me. How much I'd like to talk to him. How much I like him. I used to worship him... but not anymore. Not with the way he's been treating me... he's pushed me away himself.

What do I do? What is he thinking?

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What is he thinking? Cause with the way he's been treating me lately... I'm VERY aware / afraid / scared of him. I don't want to be with him.

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We flirted today. I flirted back. I know, but when everything else in life SUCKS, it's nice to not feel like a complete failure for 5 minutes.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you don’t try you will never know & in life I rather try & fail rather than not try at all. As for love it works in mysterious ways & as for the heart the heart wants what the heart wants but sometimes the heart can’t have it. As for your boss although he has his shit together you just have to remember he is still your boss & he also has a company to run. As for you I see you are falling for him & if he is already in a relationship or married you have to respect that & simply move on.

[ChooChooHaha]

Obviously on the relationship part. I'm no homewrecker.

[Surely]

Possibly his boss told him to knock it off with you or find another job!

[ChooChooHaha]

Not possible. It's his company.

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha. Okay. Newly divorced. Probably doesn’t want to jump into another relationship too soon. Rebound relationships usually don’t end the way most would like.
Be thankful he didn’t let things go further and create more hurt for you.

[ChooChooHaha]

Same. But he flirts with EVERYONE... so...

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha. He is newly single. Maybe married for several years. Divorce might be costing him a King’s Ransom. He is not wanting to answer to any one person. Which you can’t blame him. Probably wanting to plow several different fields. Give him some space, do your job and get over him for now!

[ChooChooHaha]

Yep. And he does.

[ChooChooHaha]

And I am.

[ChooChooHaha]

He already has destroyed any chance of being with him.

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha I know it hurts. But maybe for the best!
Best wishes to you.

[ChooChooHaha]

It is for the best. He's being a total slut.

[ChooChooHaha]

And he's very manipulative.

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha. You really don’t want to be involved with someone like him. Maybe that is why he is divorced!
Good thing that you found out sooner than later!

[ChooChooHaha]

As a single man, idgaf. He can do what he wants. He wants anything with me, he doesn't get to do half of this. No, I don't. Cause the second I messed up somewhat more than a minor mistake, his trust went right out the window, he showed. WHich is why I don't talk to him. He'll cut my throat if I show him where my armor isn't.

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha. Thank you for the MHO! Hope that you are ready to move on and find a good man to make you happy.

[ChooChooHaha]

And then something else happened, where it was like: REALLY?

[ChooChooHaha]

Of course. And I used to be married. I get it.

You're not making X a priority? Fascinating. I'm no rebounder. And yes. It is. I know it for a fact it's costing him a king's ransom.

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha. I was referring to $hit head on the marriage and rebounding part.

[ChooChooHaha]

Ah ok.

[Anonymous]

Write him a sexting page and just text it tell him how much you really need him... All men are dumb for a women wanting sex so he will want you again!

[spartan55]

Worst advice ever. This is her boss we are talking about... married boss.

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 she never said married why assume

[ChooChooHaha]

Newly Divorced.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry well I say go for it maybe text him a sexy sense get him excited and say you want him?
Guys are easy

[ChooChooHaha]

Lol. That's a 1 way ticket to firing and blackballing.

[Opinion Owner]

Well make. it. soft. and. anon... get. himt. hinking of you

[spartan55]

Newly divorced according to who? Him? 😂😂😂
I have some swampland in Florida to sell you.

[ChooChooHaha]

Seriously. He's newly divorced.

[spartan55]

How do you know?

[ChooChooHaha]

@spartan55 He's mentioned it.

[spartan55]

Lol... I'm sure he has.

[Opinion Owner]

But really make sure so many guys lie about newly divorced 😞! Have your coworkers help make sure he is

[ChooChooHaha]

I've asked his friends. He jabbers about it. I've seen the paperwork.

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha. When you can flirt for fun and keep your heart ❤️ out of it. Maybe even being a little D tease. Then you still feel good about yourself and not get hung up over him.
If he thinks that you are just flirting for fun. Then you will become more of a challenge to him. Whatever you allow to happen in that case is up to you! Happy flirting!

[Surely]

@ChooChooHaha. Oh. Thank you for the MHO!
Good luck!

[spartan55]

He's thinking his career and his wife are far more important than playing grab ass with you.

[ChooChooHaha]

😅 So the manipulation/ split personalities come out?

[spartan55]

Wth are you talking about? Manipulation and split personalities?

[ChooChooHaha]

Let me rephrase:
So he gets to try to manipulate me? He gets to say "I don't trust you" and call me sweetheart in the same sentence? He gets to rip me apart in front of people for mistakes I made, then fixed?

[spartan55]

You are all over the road... what do you mean 'he gets to?'

[ChooChooHaha]

It's ok for him to do any of that...

[spartan55]

I'd love to hear his version of all this. Somehow different I bet.

[spartan55]

And yeah, he gets to, he's the boss... duh.

[ChooChooHaha]

Nice attitude!

[ChooChooHaha]

And no, I'm telling you the truth.

[BigDog1989]

You let your liking for him, get in the way of how he treated you

And now your job, is likely in jeopardy BECAUSE OF IT

And i hope you DO GET FIRED

[ChooChooHaha]

Wtf is wrong with you?

[ChooChooHaha]

Not to mention, why?

[BigDog1989]

Why what?

[ChooChooHaha]

Why do you hope I get fired?

[BigDog1989]

Why do you think?

[ChooChooHaha]

No idea?

[BigDog1989]

God you're dumb

[ChooChooHaha]

Instead of insulting me, care to tell me what you're talking about?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Maybe things will get better with time.

[ChooChooHaha]

Hope so.

[DextroShade]

Have you fucked him?

[ChooChooHaha]

Nope. Mild filrts.

[DextroShade]

You should ask him out and throw yourself at him because he may be thinking you are a tease.

[ChooChooHaha]

How? He flirted with me, hands and all, I barely flirt back cause I don't know what to do/ i feel so unworthy.

[spartan55]

@ChooChooHaha
Ding ding ding! That's why he cooled off. You are acted like you weren't interested.

[ChooChooHaha]

Not to mention, never the right time.

[ChooChooHaha]

I am worthy of Achilles? I am worthy of even garnering the attention of someone so unattainable? I am but a peasant. A no one. A beggar. Who has everything intangible. Who fights for herself. Has a soul.