What does it mean when your ex wishes you all the best?

[Anonymous]

He said while he broke things off.

[Ckckaka]

Plain and simple: he wants to end things on good terms. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings more, but more importantly feel good about himself.

The one who dumps the other person always acts in such a situation from a position of power. So saying nice things doesn't cost him much in that case. But then again, it can be also genuine - he may sincerly care for you. It really depends on the person and the kind of relationship you two had.

[Asker]

If he cared for me does that mean he had feelings for me?

[Ckckaka]

I would say some feelings - yes, but as I said it depends on the person and nature of your relationship. Maybe you were friends before? He may genuinely like who you are as a person and wishes you well. Maybe he's a good person and wishes everyone well?
Or maybe he's a narcisisst and want people to admire him and see him as a good person? Maybe he wants you to think and speak well of him just for the sake of protecting his personal image around your mutual friends?

[Alli39]

Just means he's trying to end things peacefully and probably wants to convey that he actually did/does care about you even if your relationship is over.

[Dan_cColt]

Exactly what it means. Some people don't like leaving a relationship on bad terms or it didn't end on bad terms and if he cared about you in the relationship he might still care about you enough to say he wants the best for you.

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Like he feels sorry for me. Do you agree?

[ProbablyClueless]

Would you have preferred that he showed you a voodoo doll he made of you, or wished you to burn in the sulfur pits of hell?

He doesn't want to carry a conflict with you forward.

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Like he feels sorry for me. Do you agree?

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't agree with that analysis at all. I think that he just genuinely wants you to do well in life, but recognizes that (for whatever reason) you aren't a good fit for him. Not everything needs to be an insult.

[Asker]

He even went as far as to say ” may god bless you always” . does that mean he had feelings for me?

[BoopBoopBeep]

What's pathetic is how often you post this same question, get the exact same answers, reply in the exact same way. No wonder he left you.

[ProbablyClueless]

@Asker I don't think that's what it mean, no. I'm sorry =(

[ohsheeT]

It means he really did care to a point and he really wants you to succeed he wishes it didn't happen but it's done it's over with and that's it bye is what it means

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Like he feels sorry for me. Do you agree?

[ohsheeT]

No I don't. I think what ever happen between you both had been either going on for a while I he just couldn't take anymore . He was trying to tell you all the things that made him want to be with you.. he was telling you all the things he loved about you. But for what ever reasons. He can't take it any more.

[Asker]

He said it was because of different life goals

[ohsheeT]

Damn I think I've heard them all before I've never heard that one

[Asker]

Do you think his reason was genuine?

[ohsheeT]

Yes I think when most guys say that they. Mean it but I get the vibe he wanted out fast for some reason

[Asker]

Why did you get that vibe that he wanyed out fast?

[Asker]

Wanted*

[ohsheeT]

I'm not sure it's just the way that I read your wording
I could be wrong but it's as if he had another agenda going and he wanted a way. For whatever reasons or he wanted to get some place for whatever reasons

[Somebodysomeone]

Sounds like he was being a genuinely nice guy and that was his way of ending it on a good note. Seems like your over thinking it.

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Like he feels sorry for me. Do you agree?

[Somebodysomeone]

No I dont agree. Again it just sounds like he was being nice. He could have just said I think your pathetic and desperate for a man, but he didn't.

[DrKrieger]

I use that line too, it's a way of ending things cordially. You don't always have to hate an ex, but sometimes you can't be together due to location or time and you don't want them to be hung up over you for the breakup.

[Asker]

What do you mean by this ” you don't want them to be hung up over you for the breakup” ?

[DrKrieger]

I mean, you don't want the relationship status open for interpretation. They are breaking up with you, and there is no grey area

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Do you agree?

[Asker]

Like he feels sorry for me

[Fireguy17]

he does not have any resentment towards you and hopes that you will live long and prosper or have a good life.

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Like he feels sorry for me. Do you agree?

[Fireguy17]

no, he is wishing you well.
In an amicable split that is very common to want the best for your former partner.
It didn't happen with each other, but it will with the right person.
So no he isn't feeling sorry for you, he cares about you as a person and hopes only for the best for you.
However, if it was a case where it wasn't amicable, then it would be a whole different story, restraining orders, court battles, destroyed property, and then probably it would be more like I hope you rot in hell, vs caring about you.
Someone raised him right.
he still cares about you, just not in a way that you will be together as a couple.
Be happy for the way that it ended, most times it isn't that nice.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Why do you keep posting this? It's a simple question. You get the same answers every week. Are you slow or something?

[DreamLife7]

It's ridiculous, the same shit over and over.

[BCRanger10]

It means he wants you to have a happy and fulfilled life after the relationship ends.

[Anemone978]

He actually wants you to do well, just not with him lol

[spartan55]

Code for: don't let the door hit you in the ass on your way out

[BigDog1989]

It's like a job firing you. He's wishing you the best in your future endeavors. As in, good luck finding something else

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Like he feels sorry for me. Do you agree?

[BigDog1989]

Prob.

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[BigDog1989]

Why not

[exitseven]

It means that she feels guilty about breaking your heart and wants to let herself off the hook.

[rm_llort]

Means I care about you still, I want peace so don't be out to hurt me.

[Asker]

How does he still care about me?

[rm_llort]

You don't have to be shacked up to give a shit about other human beings. To put it frankly, if he didn't he'd tell you to go to hell or something.

[Asker]

So he has some feelings for me?

[rm_llort]

In the same way you have feelings if you see someone get injured walking in front of a car. You help them and wish them the best.

[Randomnamek]

Either he really does <...> he thought that would make himself look mature <...> Or, he hates your guts and said it facetiously

[Shamalien]

It means they are wishing you all the best. It means they want to end it peacefully

[KrakenAttackin]

He means "fuck off and don't ever contact me again".

[Starlove4]

He basically said deuces 🤭

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Do you agree?

[Starlove4]

I don’t agree. I’m not sure how u got that interpretation but to me it sounds like he thinks you’re a good girl but just not a good girl for him.

[Asker]

I don't know it just felt patronizing

[Asker]

Like he feels sorry for me

[Starlove4]

Has he treated u in a patronizing way before? However he meant it u should stop making post about him and forget about his ass. Do what he said and Go actually find someone to be crazy af in love with u. My ex broke up with me twice ! Can u believe that? I tried to kill my self over him ! But years later I’m pregnant and engaged by a sweet guy that is crazy as hell about me. That’s the best revenge !

[WhitneySnow]

It’s just something people say to be polite

[Annie_LevelUP_ADC]

A genuine and not a nasty goodbye.

[Kacka]

it mean he wishes the best?

[Asker]

he also said ” I’m very sure you’ll one beautiful day meet the right person because you have a kind heart and you’re a very nice person” it felt like he thought that I’m pathetic and desperate for a man. Like he feels sorry for me. Do you agree?

[Wise4myage]

He's cares about you to some degree?

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't want you lol 😆