Guys, Guys over the age of 40 are better respectful and more civilized the age 29 -39 ?

[Alwayreckles93]

I've realized and noticed recently that giys around my age attend to act like spolied brats and angry whenever they don't agree with someone else opinion not only that but they start with insults and name calling, Typical mommas boy behavior. I see guys in their 40 act a lit more mature civilzed and know how to handel difficult situations. One time a giy that waslets just say mature in his 40s even went to his truck and give me a water bottle it wasa hot summer day. Guys my age had even took their anger out on my truck by Strachaning it over a stupid parking spot.

[WhiteBoyChill]

“not only that but they start with insults and name callin”

Exactly right. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve been on this site and thought to myself, “are these really adults”, “why do they act even less mature and chivalrous than my 12 year old cousin”

[Alwayreckles93]

Wait so you witness 30 year olds acting like 5 year olds calling other people nams just because thy dont like or agree wjat someone else has said? The othernday thisnone guy on here got so offended and angry becaue I've said I perfer chick fil a because its a christian business establishment he called me stupid just because I'm a republican.

[Alwayreckles93]

Your 12 year old little cousin has more common sense then these deranged 30 year olds.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yes, that’s right. My 12 year old cousin is far better tempered than those man childs

[Exterminatore]

This is how unintelligent people are. They can’t disagree as an adult. Can’t have a debate without name calling all dissenters.

I expect nothing different from the many low IQ people in this world.

Last weekend I was at a buddies place. His blank neighbor came over. We talked politics. He believes in systematic racism. I don’t. We had drinks and cigars. Laughed and talked. No one name called. No one even raised their voice or became very intense in their speaking. Why?

Because this is how mature adults with higher than average IQ’s conduct themselves. We hugged and shook hands and bid each other well at the end of the night as well.

Low IQ people do the opposite and you can see it on here regularly l.

[Exterminatore]

*black neighbor not blank neighbor.

[Alwayreckles93]

@Exterminatore See Sir thisbwhat I mean a guy my agebwouldntry to start a fight. I don't know how many times I try to stop my ex from trying to beat someone else just because he didn't disagree.

[236color]

Sadly those younger guys are being influenced by this masculinity/alpha male bullshit. In the words of Ken Wilber "Testosterone engenders two and only two emotions; fuck it or kill it." Somewhat older guys, more experienced and frequently in more stable relationships, tend to be able to hear over the hormones pounding in their ears better.

[Exterminatore]

Yes. With age usually comes wisdom. That is for those who can be trained to be wise.


We just aren’t as in shape or as good looking in most cases as we used to be.

[Alwayreckles93]

Sir but your age generation took things a lot more seriously and even at yhe time when you were in highschool you guys acted a lot kore mature. Sir I've seen guys my own ages goofying off , Or if they don't agree with a statemet they get all defensive about it and start calling people names wand insults. I don't see that behavior with your generation. Also I've noticed guys your age attend to appreciative. With Shawn a lor of times I would cook dinner he would ditch me and go at his moms to play vidoe games. Oh and his mom ran the show. Because according to guys my ow age thier mommas is the had of their house hold.

[Exterminatore]

Anyone younger than my generation is basically a spoiled looser. I have little compassion for any of them.

There are some idiots in my generation, same as any other, but not like they generations that came after us.

[Alwayreckles93]

Sir believe me my generation is worst later guys my agebhate it get angry becuse we choose smart older mature men.

[Exterminatore]

Gen z is the worst. Your generation is not great but Gen z is lost.

[Alwayreckles93]

Sirnyou have no idea believe when I mean my generation is worst it is the worst one. At least people from your generation dont fight with each other.

[Exterminatore]

I do have a very good idea. I have to work with them and interact with them in public. Moreover I have 2 in my house and I know just how bad Gen Z is. They’re generally all spoiled and self serving little monsters.

[Alwayreckles93]

More likelittle demons. Those kids are possess tgey need an exorcism.

[Exterminatore]

Nah. This is what sin looks like. These are all common behaviors and attitudes among sinners. No need of an exorcism. Their hearts are rotten and from it proceeds rotten behavior.

Sin is accepted, promoted and tolerated these days so we shouldn’t be surprised at how degenerate our society has become.

[Alwayreckles93]

The thing isnifnthey don't maturenthey will suffer big time.

[slatyb]

Some people do learn to behave better with maturity, so in a sense that's true. But I don't think there's all tha much difference. People who are nice tend to stay nice, and people who aren't rarely become nice.

[Mansearching]

We are to a point. Until someone keeps pushing our buttons until we can't take it anymore.

[Alwayreckles93]

See you guys are a lot more civilized. Must guys my agebwould try to get into a fight

[Mansearching]

Probably. But it depends on the situation and the person.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I honestly think that's an unfair assessment you can't judge all of us on the actions of a few. I'm very mature and if you was mine you'd know that. Plus there are some older guys that play games as well. Your a good woman don't let what you've gone through with you ex change you and done limit yourself as far as whom you date instead take your time and get to know men and who knows what you seek may be right in front of you. Hint! Hint!

[inhua]

more respectful and civilized? nah they just lack the energy and testosterone to engage in any physical activity

[Alwayreckles93]

In my younger years I date guys my own age they. I've learn lesson guys my own age ranges are spoiled mommas boys.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

False. Being respectful and civilized is something you learn in your youth by whoever is raising you.

You don't magically become respectful and civilized because you happen to reach 40 plus years old.

[Exterminatore]

You’re part right. For those who we’re taught properly, they will grow in wisdom, for those who weren’t, they will still grow but a tiny bit.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Exterminatore: She didn't ask about wisdom. She asked about respect and being civilized.

[Exterminatore]

Which is part of wisdom.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Exterminatore: I don't see how?

[Alwayreckles93]

Hispanic cool guy I was also referring to wisdom. Honestly most guys my agebare jerks so attached to momma.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You didn't mentioned wisdom not one time.

[Exterminatore]

@hispanic

Wisdom is knowledge of how to approach any given situation usually by gained experience or observation of others experiences.

That’s why proper conduct is part of wisdom.

You wouldn’t approach any issue in life today the same as you would have at age 16 right? In many cases you won’t approach issues today the same as you will when you’re 50.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Exterminatore: Problem with that, your definition of wisdom and how to approach life situations differs from culture to culture.

What you call uncivilized, others call the norm.

[Exterminatore]

@hispanic

That’s true. I can’t deny that.

[Alwayreckles93]

Hispaniccoolguy You guys don't appreciate traditional woman. You said it before that cooking and cleaning that we are not maids. Modern woman are useless wife material drinking , smoking , clubing partying. Honestly I don't agree modern womans lifestyle.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yep. I stand by that. If I marry a woman, she will be wife, not butler.

There's nothing wrong with cooking and cleaning as those things need to be done but your mind set is the turn off.

[Alwayreckles93]

Hispanic cool guy But the bible says The husbad is the Leader of the house hold plusnthe guys should be older

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

What does that have to do with what you are talking about?

[Alwayreckles93]

Guys my age don't attend church, read the bible and they consider traditional woman lame they all want the worldly demonic modern woman. If I could chooseI be a stay at home mom and had 10 kids.

[eagle1951]

they weren't bought up like we older ones, we did something wrong, or show no respect we got are ass beat.

[jahaims]

You didn't know that the older the person is the more likely they are to be mature?

[Alwayreckles93]

While most of you guys depend so much on momma and never grew up. Look at us kow we are 30 and still acting like children. While you guys dont appreciate traditinal woman all you care about is those stupid vidoe games flirt with other young woman. So why even bother.

[jahaims]

You make a lot of assumptions to justify how you think and feel. You live in delusion.

[Alwayreckles93]

I live realistic. You know better a 45 year old guy is better then you.

[jahaims]

I'm 31, retired with 2 kids. So incorrect.

[Alwayreckles93]

Incorrect yeah right. Well my ex husband is your same age. I was married once and let me tell you my marraige was hell on Earth. I'm divorce but what do you care. All you you guys ever care about is mom , vidoe games , clubing and hitting the bars. I've learn my lesson not only my ex husband but also other guys my ow age a date way back before a got married they were all jerks amd again would put mom first before me and they would change woman as if it were socks. Let me tell you I been treated a lot better by my now fiance he is 46 not once do we aurgue he respects me something you guys lack at is respect. Of my divorce I was at this church festival last year hot summer day I was thirsty and this 30 year old you know what the herk said your look tired and thirty oh well it sucks being you while i brag about his water bottle in his hand and drink it , This 45 year old didn't say anything he just look at me went to his truck and he gave me a water bottle witout me asking that right there meat a lot to me so after my divorceand this I open my eyes and realized guys my age are nothing but spoiled mommas boys. I also realize dguys in their 40s attend to be more loving and caring respectful something you guys lack out. No sympathy nothing just a bunch of men childs mommas spoiled boys that what you guys are. So face it and admitted a 45 year old men is a lot better then you.

[jahaims]

You are mentally ill. Hope you seek help. Best of luck to you.

[Alwayreckles93]

Oh I need help wow , See right away woth your insults. If I were mentally Ill I wouldn't be debt free owning a paid off home truck and At age 30 I've buildt wealth. If I am engaged to a 46 year old men SO WHAT? ARETOU TRIGGER THAT A MATURE MEN IS A LOT BETTER THEN YOU?

[WhiteBoyChill]

@Alwayreckles93 I’ve dealt with that guy before. He’s insufferable.

But yeah, glad you found a good guy though, I’d like to get engaged too someday.

[Alwayreckles93]

@WhiteBoyChill No wonder this guy call me crazy but If his had issues with you and other I guess he is the one that needs to be locked up inside a mental Institution.

[Alwayreckles93]

@WhiteBoyChill Do youthink this guy is woke or a liberal?

[WhiteBoyChill]

He definitely is.

[Alwayreckles93]

@WhiteBoyChill Well that explains. Do you think its a possibility its that same guy Theking2010? I mean I believe it's the same guy. Im reporting him.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Dont believe so. The other guy was more off the rails

[Alwayreckles93]

@WhiteBoyChill That other guy do you believe maybe he is metally unstable?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Oh definitely.

[ericclayton]

Both genders are more mature as they age. It's not that hard to contemplate.

[EaterPeter]

Depends, most of the times yes, if you are trying to pull out your own bs then most likely not