Why are 45 year old guys better then useless 30 year olds?

[Ilovethesunshine]

I just don't understand guys my own age. They put mommy first before wife or girlfriend.

I stop dating guys my own age years ago their all jerks and get upset when I tell them the truth that 45 year old men's are way more better then a 30 year old.

A 45 year old acts way more mature listens and acts like an adult unlike 30 year olds are all just a men child. Guys my own age would tell me you're not my mom but yet I had to be a mother figure instead of a girlfriend and always had the nosy mother involved in everything.

Yeah 45 year old men you don't see them crying over the phone to mommy. I can enjoy a good conversation and they are a lot more loving and actually put more effort in the relationship they make a woman feel loved.

[DannyUk2017]

Because life itself is seen different, Brain cells are more developed, and with the Age passing we encline more to Love, than just to pull the pants down, shagg like rabbits, and go Home, or if we are told that won't be Nothing more than F/b or Nsa, or Ons we don't create drama, we just go with the flow... At this Age i realised how Important was when Younger to not create drama, or let "tears" run couse i'm not her type, or "she went" with another... is hard to Understand Oposite Sex when we are young.
I am trying to teach now same thing, but all i get back is : "you're old paps, we know better". And all u hear after is: "we went, had a splif, shagged like rabbits, made videos/took pics, put her online, then she dumped me, and now i can't live without her nomore 🤦‍♂️". So yeah...

[TonyV]

They probably don't have a mom to talk to anymore sense they are 45...

Maybe they've got more patients to listen to young women tell an elaborate over the top 45 minute story instead of just saying she had a good day at work, they're use to dealing with young women cause he probably has a daughter near your age.

Go ahead and be a grave robber if you want, if you can't get along with any guy your age I'd say the problem is most likely you, cause you are the common denominator, I doubt the issue is every 30 year old guy.

Go ahead, date the greepy old guy that is just a little too found of you and has money to spend on you, just remember that dude likes 30 year old girls so I'd say you've got till about 35 before he replaces you with another 30 year old that thinks they are sooooo mature they need an older man.

Damn right I'm useless to you, I'm not in a relationship for you to use me in the first place, go use the fossil and leave me alone

[Ilovethesunshine]

What are you angry because I telling the truth that a 45 year old is a lot more mature and better than you? I rejected guys my own age and they throw a fit like a 5 year old. Look at you right now. I express myself my thoughts and you got angry. No maybe I just don't want to deal with momma's boy.

[TonyV]

I'm not throwing a tantrum, I don't give a shit who you date, I have a girlfriend.

I wouldn't want a woman my age, they are annoying to listen to, takes them hours to get to the point and now a days they are all playing the little victim game and refuse to take any responsibilities for their life.
I have no desire to find women my age.

You say I'm angry? Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black. Your shit talkingen your age, basiclly sounds like you can't handle a confident 30 year old man with options or god forbid who is happy alone without you, so you've found some simp ass, desperate 45 year old that be your "yes man", he'll always agree, listen and do whatever ypu want him too...
Fuck that, I will never be that spinless man.
I don't think it's an age thing for you, you just need some sackless bitchboy that obeys and listens, and no 30 year old is gonna do that simp shit

[Alwayreckles93]

Excuse me but what do you have against 30 year old beautiful successful woman? Why is it because you want a younger 21 year old whore that can't cook or clean that does not own a house and still has mommy and daddy paying their bills. Correction! A 30 year old beautiful woman we are successful we own a house we are debt free. My ex husband left me a stupid 2 year old drop out that works at a fast food restaurant has no degree does not own a house plays video games. AaI don't get it ! What do you dudes in your30's see in younger woman when you can get a beautiful mature successful 30 year old who owns a house and she is debt free?

[Alwayreckles93]

Just why? I mean ,30 year old beautiful mature woman we are better then a stupid 21 year old that has no money.

[Alwayreckles93]

You and some user here Fuentes I got into an argument with him on here because he wants to date younger woman. NO I AM 29 AND PEOPLE ALWAYS TELL ME I LOOK 18.

[Ilovethesunshine]

TonyV Lol Why are you so triggered , Is it because 45 year old men are better then you're generation 😂

[Alwayreckles93]

Your fucking old you are no spring Chicken ! I bet I can get a 25 year old guy if I wanted too.

[Ilovethesunshine]

Oh my God you are so trigger 🤩🤩🤩

[Ilovethesunshine]

Well I wouldn't want a momma's little boy and much less chubby 😂😆😆

[TonyV]

y'all blew up my comment section and in the triggered one? Lol

Must have struck a nerve here lol, little to close to home?
y'all are some very upset old ladies aren't you?
Did I ever say I wanted younger? Maybe I want older too cause women my age are immature, maybe I'm just done with immature women all together.
Why is it OK for you to want to date outside your age pool but your going to presume what I want and judge me for it? Thats what we call hypocrisy.

Oh know, some girl to ugly to even have a profile pic thinks I'm chubby, how ever will I sleep at night.🤣🤣🤣

[TonyV]

Just seems very over bearing and control freak of you, not only have ypu written of men in their 30s but for some reason, those same men you don't want, you are very buthurt that they might date women in there twenties.
Sounds more like you do want a guy your age but are buthurt cause you can't get one, cause like I said, if you don't even want us what do you care what we do?
Maybe I want a 45 year old woman? What that's really successful, not your sad idea of succesful.

[Ilovethesunshine]

TonyV you are hilarious 😂😆😆😆
A 45 year men are better looking then you 😆😆😆

[Alwayreckles93]

STOP CALLING ME OLD! NO DISGRACEFUL! 30 IS NOT OLD. People always think I'm 18 ,19 FYI I am much younger than you. FYI a 21 year old guy acts way more mature then you. The guy in your profile picture looks like a sad divorce 50 year old. Are you sure you didn't lie about your age? Yes you are super old! You look like your over 50 year old grandpa.

[TonyV]

I'm glad we both having fun here, I get a kick out of your hypocrisy 🤣

If you look so good why don't you snap us a sexy profile pic like a real person, bet you won't, cause you're far from cute aren't you?😂😂

[Alwayreckles93]

TonyV Im a Christian lady and sexy is a huge sin! God does not like that! Again I look better then you. You look like your over 50 and chubby too. People always think I am young I bet a lot of 25 year old guys want to date me.

[TonyV]

@Alwaysreckless That's the best excuse you can come up with? Christian?
They don't do date you just fuck, which you clearly don't do sense it's a sin.

So are you gonna show your ugly mug? Or keep spitting out weak, lame insults.
FYI critisms on my looks have zero effect from rude bitchs that ate to afraid to even show their faces.

So y'all are creaming your panties for 45 year olds (sure that's a sin fyi) but you insult to me is I look 50? Which we both know is a lie... how is a girl as rude as you so bad at thinking up insults? Probably cause you're grasping at straws

[Alwayreckles93]

No stop insulting me! My problem with you. You said 30 year old woman are and no 30 year old woman is not considered old. You insulted me calling me old and you called me ugly so I say you look 50 oh wait is that a wrinkle on your face? Yeah you have a lot of wrinkles.

[TonyV]

Well 30 is old for women lol, and really? Now your gonna pretend I have wrinkles? I don't have a single wrinkles, not even crows feet.
Your insults are bad and you should feel bad.

[Alwayreckles93]

30 is not old 😡 One of my guy friends he is 21 and he know how to plant palm trees and he owns several palm trees bet you don't even know or can't even do the hard work to plant a palm tree. Bet you never own a palm tree. I never said I wanted 45 year old dude never said I was desperate. Only 25 year guys want to date me. FYI a 21 year old has better mindset then you.

[TonyV]

Uuuuuuuuuh, why would I care about palm trees? Great he can dig a hole and set a plant in it. Hate to burst your bubble but my job beats that, I'm a construction wireman and an electrician in training. I'm doing underground pvc conduit runs right now so yes... I know how to use a shovel😂😂😂.

And no, you don't have a better mindset than me, frankly know that I know your a 21 year old child there's no reason to argue with you, you haven't experience much yet ( made obvious by how impressed you are by trees😄) and you just don't know anything yet.
Being real right now, when your 24 you're gonna look back at what you thought you knew at 21 and realize how wrong you are.
We keep this back and forth going if want, I just wanted to see how long you 2 would drag this out but honestly I'm not gonna take anything a 21 year old has to say serious

[Alwayreckles93]

See I do look young you think I'm actually 21 lol. I am actually 29 but people always tell me I look 18.

[Alwayreckles93]

Stop lying you have no idea how to plant a palm tree in fact you don't know anything about palm trees. I bet if someone give you a palm tree you wouldn't even know how to maintain it.

[TonyV]

1 you just said you were 21 and 2 your profile says 21, so what is it 21 or 29? Don't really care either way you're a liar.

3 I have no idea what you look like, you don't have a pic dumbass

4 I don't give a fuck about palm trees, how are palm trees a flex? It's a plant, you put it in the ground and It grows, how is that so hard for you to understand?
5 great people think you look younger, big deal, most people think I'm 24, who fucking cares.

Good to know if I plant a palm tree bitchs will wet their panties over it, I keep that as a back up plan lol

[TonyV]

Oh wait you do have a pic, it's a dumb God quote, do you still believe in the Easter bunny too?

[Alwayreckles93]

You are possessed by demons! I am a pentecostal and I had felt the holy spirit something you never experienced you will burn in hell.

[TonyV]

Well that was a weird one, does pentecostal mean you've fucked the quiere boys too? Or is the priest only allowed to do that?

[PeteBy]

Looks to me like you're not only throwing a tantrum but the baby stroller has gone and you're using your rattles as maracas! Bless! As for old fossil and other remarks. Apart from being unnecessary, you actually think we're that old! I'd put you back in your baby bouncer and pat you on the head and you'd be a nice little boy.

[TonyV]

Jesus this question was from 12 days again what the fuck are you doing reading comments now?
Imagine being 45 and still white knighting, simping for random women on the internet🤣🤣🤣.
You ain't patting nobody on the head grandpa, I'd fold your shirt with you still in it, youbaint gonna gunshot after I steal your advil, I can take a 45 year old😂

[Ilovethesunshine]

TonyV Are you throwing a tantrum because this 45 year old men is way better then you more intelligent. What are you 5? Lol

[Ilovethesunshine]

@PeteBy He is jealous of you because you he know you are better then him lol yes I agree he belongs in the strollers and baby bouncer.

[TonyV]

Me no, I just find it funny when boomers get their diapers in a twist.

An old simp that thinks this is gonna impress women by groveling at their feet don't bother me much, it's just kind of pathetic, I pitty all of you.

[Ilovethesunshine]

TonyV Do you need you're pacifier or 🍼? 😆

[TonyV]

Are you the dumb lying chick that's not sure if she's 21 or 30?

One old guy that wants to fuck dumb bimbos like you Simpson gor you and now you're ready to do this all over again huh?

Have fun with your grandpa fetish

[Alwayreckles93]

TonyV you are possessed by demons and when you die you will burn in hell. GLORY BR TO GOD! OK BET YOU NEVER GRAB THE BIBLE!

[TonyV]

No, I dont grab the bible, religion is just a crutch for weak people who can't handle reality. Not only is there no proof any religion is real, even if one was real you dont know which one it is, you may be reading the wrong holy book and going to "hell" anyways.

People who practice religion aren't good people anyways, just a bunch of judgement pricks that think their shit dont stick, looking down on others cause they believe they are better cause they choose to waste every Saturday listening to the preacher cherry pick the "good" stories out the book.

How often do you guys read the passage about what people are ok to enslave? How often do you read the one about the old bald prick that had god send bears to male children to death for mocking him?

Religion is a joke and incant take anyone whi believes in demons, ghosts, or man in the clouds serious. Your insults dont faze me, not when the first word out your mouth is demons... you crazy fucking cultist.

[TonyV]

Ment Sunday, whatever, like it really matters which day you waste.

[Alwayreckles93]

TonyV Your useless mother fault for not teaching you about going to church and worshiping the Lord. I could die today and I will go to heaven I obey God's rulers. I don't wear pants woman should only be allowed to wear pants or skirts only pants are only for men. NO STOP CALLING US CHRISTIANS judgmental YOU ARE THE judgmental ONE ON HERE I GUESS YOUR USELESS MOTHER Never Teach YOU ABOUT NOT TO JUDGE OTHERS. Which on of the ten comments. If you can't followed Christian standers that's not my fault it's your mother's for not teaching you about God. I don't think your mother has ever taken you to church as a kid. I cants stand woman wear crop tops showing of their skin not having self respect.

[Alwayreckles93]

TonyV you die today I bet you will end up going straight to hell. Especially if you are drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes. All alcoholic drinks are from the devil.

[TonyV]

What makes you so sure of all the religions christianity is the "real" one?
How you gonna not act judgmental? I have a different opinion and you say I'm full of demons? That's being judgmental dumbass.

[TonyV]

Also heaven and hell aren't real so in not worried about it, I dont obey anyone, fuck that. Have fun wasting your life obeying an imaginary man

[Alwayreckles93]

Stop calling me judgmental because I am not I am a nice sweet person. No I am not judgmental you need to get your act together. God is good. Don't you dear called God imaginary man. I have dreams about Jesus Christ that is proof that Jesus Christ is real. I dance and spin around to Christian music and felt the holly spirit. I can tell never been touch by the holly spirit.

[Alwayreckles93]

I am against woman wearing pants and make up it's a sin.

[TonyV]

God is imaginary, and why are you even mentioning pants?

[Alwayreckles93]

Because woman SHOULD NOT WEAR PANTS! OR WEAR MAKE UP ! It's a sin!

[TonyV]

The bible is a joke, its says slaves are ok as long as they are foreigners but pants are a sin? Like I said it's a joke.

[Apple1996]

Probably depends on the man not his age. My guy settled down with me at 17 and has been decently mature ever since I've been with him.

[NYCQuestions1976]

I wouldn't call 30 year old guys "useless", but I believe that I've got a perfect example of what you're expressing and experiencing with many guys around your age. One of my family members just turned 29 years old. He's got a great career with benefits, he owns three rental properties, a boat and a few other recreational vehicles, and he also does a lot of side hustling (fixing motorcycles, ATVs, lawn mowers, snow throwers, etcetera) for extra money. It sounds like he's got his "adult" life together... and financially, that's true. However his long-time girlfriend broke up with him because all he wants to do in his free time is ride jet skis and ATVs with his friends, go out drinking with his friends, and he refuses to move out of his parents' basement. So it's an "emotional maturity" that you're seeking, and not necessarily "usefulness".

[Ilovethesunshine]

He puts mommy first before his girlfriend.
Yeah I would break it up also!
His mom is like what? In her 60's that woman isn't going to last that long.

[NYCQuestions1976]

She's 55. I don't believe him staying home is about being close to either of his parents. He's about prioritizing having a good time in his free time over having a girlfriend and starting an "adult" life. Regardless, I agree with you that it's frustrating from a potential significant other's point of view.

[Ilovethesunshine]

You just proved my point a men you're age has way more intelligence and common sense. That's why I can't stand dating men my own age they're all selfs self centered.

[Anonymous]

Obviously you need to date older guys to get what you want, I like younger women anyway, it’s just how it is

[Ilovethesunshine]

So you are willing to date a 30 year old woman?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I would

[Anonymous]

I been in love with a woman who just turned 30 recently and I'm 44 soon to be 45 in a couple of months. Been deeply in love with her for almost 5 years

[Ilovethesunshine]

Ask her out 😀Are you friends with her?

[Ilovethesunshine]

Most women my age we like men you're age because guys you're age take things and relationships seriously we feel love and mor like a girlfriend unlike 30 year old men we become the substitute mom they act all childish. Men you're generation are better !

[Opinion Owner]

She's with some ugly skinny guy with tattoos all over his body and long fake dyed red hair. Guys who I've shown his picture to actually laugh at him. And yet she won't bother with me though

[Ilovethesunshine]

How old is that guy?

[Opinion Owner]

He's really 23 but lied about his age saying he's 25

[Ilovethesunshine]

Oh my gosh I guess she want to babysit.
My boyfriend he is you're same age and his treated me way better and the best relationship i ever been in.
I used to date guys my own age they all turn out to be jerks.

[Ilovethesunshine]

He you told her that you like her?

[Opinion Owner]

I told her I love her so many times. She only said it once to me in 5 years but has no problem saying it to guys she's only known a few months

[Ilovethesunshine]

She will regret her decision one day.

[Ilovethesunshine]

That woman is so dumb and doesn't realize she has a keeper but let me tell you that 23 year old men is a coward I bet if she gets in a hard situation that 23 year old will run away and live her crying and you will be there for her protecting her listening to her and comfort her.

[Opinion Owner]

I do now and had been for 5 years

[Opinion Owner]

And never once got a thank you

[Ilovethesunshine]

She so ungrateful you could at least get a Thank you. Every fight she has with her boyfriend she comes to you crying?

[Opinion Owner]

No the irony is her and him haven't fought. And she kept her fights with her exes private at the time until later when she made it all known

[Ilovethesunshine]

So you confess to her?

[Opinion Owner]

A long time ago I did and it still holds true to this day

[Ilovethesunshine]

Well she's will regret her decision.

[TroyDT]

So you're 29, stopped dating guys your own age "years ago" and yet think guys who are now 30 are useless when you haven't dated anyone that age "in years." I must be missing something.

[Ilovethesunshine]

I've seen my friends struggle a 30 year old still want to go out play video games and have fun. Advice do not get married oh and yes 45 year old can look much better then a 30 year old men. A

[PeteBy]

Kind of see her point. I mean what kind of guy plays video games when he's in a relationship. Lacks maturity and generally hangs around with the guys still. That's not normal in my culture. Jobs and relationship take over. Hell I was production manager of a company at 18. I'd not trust an 18 year old American to tie his shoes! Then again I am not sure a 45 year old American could lol

[FilmGuy93]

More life experience. But be wary of dating older men, because the sort of guys who date women who are that much younger usually aren't doing it because they want to take that woman seriously.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s your experience. I’m sure other women would disagree with you

[Ilovethesunshine]

No men you're age aren't worth it. Look at the way you spoke to you're ex girlfriend alwayreckles horrible language.
I read you're argument on here.
That's why I don't do online dating.

[Danny_dan92]

Why does everyone think we have dated lol

[Ilovethesunshine]

Dude are you seriously kidding me! 😯
First guys go all crazy about a girl when you can't get her.

Once you go on a relationship you treat woman like an item.

You were rude to alwayreckles I am not stupid. I read that post from two years ago.!

[Ilovethesunshine]

The two of you argue like an old boomer married couple!

[Danny_dan92]

@Alwaysreckles93

[Danny_dan92]

@Alwayreckles93

[Alwayreckles93]

Danny_dan92 Oh my gosh are you seriously 😂😂😂😂😂 we never even dated , Why do people think we dated 😂😂😂😂😂

[Ilovethesunshine]

@Alwayreckles93 Wait what?

[PeteBy]

I am all ears lol

[Ilovethesunshine]

So you are willing to date a 30 year old woman?

[maximumpower]

Ever stop to think that maybe it's not them?
Reread your entry and consider it.

[Zolly99999]

More life experience and maturity.

[Ilovethesunshine]

Woman love mature intelligent men 😘💕

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Because they have 15 more years of experience

[Wise4myage]

Life experience.

[Luckycharms12]

Can't say every guy. Maybe it's your taste in Men

[Apologies456]

You need to get out more weirdo