Men over the age of 45 are better then guys 29- 30's?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed recently guys over the age of 45 attend to be more loving and caring. This one very hot summer last year I was at a fetival, I was really thirsty and I was asking for water I saw a lot of guys my own did had water cases but they never for me all they said well there's a gas station around I even offer to pay for one water and yet they refuse. This one guy that went to my church he is 46 he saw me went to his truck and offer me a water I ask how much for the bottlenof water he refuse to take the money and gave it to me. This one time I got into a car accident this one guy bump into my car went off on my cussing calling me names I called the police made the report turns out this guy is 30 a very kind men got off his car and ask me if I was okay he tells the police his age 46 and tells the cop he witness the accident and the guy screaming at me. Guys over the age of 45 attend to be more kind ad respectful? Or are millenial men just a bunch of momma boys?

[Billlewis]

Although one reason for that is because guys tend to be more mature and considerate in their 40's than they are in their 20's and 30's -- but that's not the main reason -- the single greatest contributor to the average guy being much sweeter, more courteous, kind, gentle and often quite docile when they're a little older is because of the formidable power of ongoing, repeated and unending sexual frustration. The effect that being feverishly horny and being completely unable to consummate his ravenous desire for a woman -- over and over and over again, day after day, year after year had a combined, cumulative effect on a man's psyche, and a savvy, enterprising woman can harness that pent up frustration to her own great benefit and primal, erotic fulfillment.

[Asker]

I noticed men from 45 and over that generation were a lot of guys acted more mature. I remember when I was younger 8 a 25 year old were a lot more respect too senior citizens now a days a 25 year old guy makes fun of senior citizens play races on the road and act as if they own the planet something you never saw at the tiem when you were 20. I bet 18 year old yourself you weren't sitting around your friends goofying off. Im 31 and I see guys my own age goofying around.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It's not an age related thing to be respectful. However your situation is less about respect, and more about older men being "nicer" to younger women (had you been a guy, those older men would likely not have been as nice to you).

Respect is something you earn in life on a person to person basis, it takes time and effort, it's not really something you can typically get from strangers.

The word you are looking for is altruism, and thats very rare in every generation, because most people can't afford to be, especially during ecocomic depressions, but sometimes you get lucky.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Im 18 and i network well with old men 40-79

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Have no idea, the only thing i can imagine is that by that time they are probably hurt enough to know not everything that glitters is gold.

[Dinklex3]

I’ve never been with a man in their 40’s but there are a lot of men my age that are sweet and considerate.

[Mansearching]

Us guys that are in our 40s are just more respectful. Those guys you encountered are part of the me and only me generation.

Those 2 older guys did what I've would have done.

[Asker]

But evwn at the time when you were 21 or 25 I noticed you're generation acted more responsible and respectful. Guys my age just goof off about things.

[Mansearching]

It depends on how they were raised. I know a guy who was being totally disrespectful to a girl he was giving a ride to. He had a truck with standard transmission. She was sitting in the middle between him and another guy. Every time he shifted stick down he would slap her pu@@y. She was so dumb she didn't realize what he was doing.
He was just like those younger guys you encountered.

[Mansearching]

I never would think of that. Bc I was raised to show respect.
Now not all young guys are like that. Don't put them all in one basket.
I hope you realize that.

[Asker]

Was he a guy my age?

[Mansearching]

No. It was when i was in high school. He's my age now. Has he grown up? I don't know. Haven't seen or heard from him since grad.

[Asker]

Shocking I mean most guys you're age show respect.

[Asker]

I mean woman you're age had self respect I bet not one single girl at you're high school ended up pregnant. Unlike today we havea lot of stupidyoung pregnant teens.

[Mansearching]

Oh yeah they did. I know several girls eho got pregers. One had 4 before she was 18. Her last or 4th was in her senior year. Because she wanted kids before she started her career instead of during. Yes it was with same guy.

[Asker]

Is that girl now 30?

[Mansearching]

No. She's my age.

[Asker]

Did she like had sets of twins or triplets to have that many?

[Mansearching]

No. It was like 1 kid a year.

[Asker]

But people yourbage never not once fight or argue with each other. My generation people fight all the time.

[Mansearching]

Oh we fight and argue. Depends on the subject or situation. Most of the time we're adults and discuss and agree to disagree on things.
But you're right on your generation. Y'all fight about everything. Even saying good morning. I don't get it.

[Kinkyhubby]

Since I'm 49, I'm just done with the bullshit and the games people try to play. I'm open and honest if you where to ask me my opinion. I care deeply about the people I give my heart too. A lot of young guys are for themselves, and with half these dating apps and friends with benefits, these guys don't have to work hard to get sex, you ladies have made it easy for them. I think that's the big part of it.

[rachel776]

i have not been with someone that old yet but i know what you mean

[ProbablyClueless]

With age comes maturity, but that's not the reason those younger men didn't help you. They just didn't help you because they don't know you.

[Asker]

See what I mean , Yes me you're age are all just a bunch of mommas boy. You put you're mom forst before girlfriend or wife.

Intrestimg well the 46 year old didn't know me and he give me and took his time to asked if I was okay while the 31 year odl jerk kept on screaming yelling to pay fornhis dammged.

[Anonymous]

i'm 32. i'd take the 45 year old over the 29-30's. they're still so fucking immature.

[Awesomesauce2005]

the key to finding a younger more mature guy is to see who he hangs with. I am a nice helpful person and all my friends are 40+ years old.

[Fireguy17]

It may be an age thing, how they were raised, maturity level, kind of hard to pin down exactly.

[BLP11520]

I will say that we had a strict upbringing and learned values early in life. I have been told that I treat women better than most

[Asker]

See my point? Look at this user that made unnecessary comment about you calling.

[BLP11520]

Yeah

[BLP11520]

I don’t look or act my age very active

[BLP11520]

@Imtheking2010 ha ha I can out work most people ha ha

[BLP11520]

Go smoke a blunt

[BLP11520]

Was that racist?

[BLP11520]

@Imtheking2010 democrats founded the KKK

[jahaims]

Obviously on average someone with more life experience will be more mature

[Alex8736]

Millennial woke mama's boy's with the attitude of entitlement

[virtualwasp]

i can't comment.

[virtualwasp]

i dated a younger guy and went on 1 date with an older guy but he kept texting me for 2 years afte 1 date even after i asked him to leave me alone. even turned up at my work place

[Asker]

How old was this old dude?

[virtualwasp]

30 at the time i was 22