Why are men cheaters?

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One more man who is taken, he added me from the time I was using Bumble after break up.  He has been messaging me and sending his workout pictures without asking me.  One pic, he sent me I noticed a yellow note where was written some cute things by a girl obviously. I asked him what it said? And he tried to avoid it. I guessed he had a girlfriend.  I haven’t responded him since then and later on he has been messaging again.  I feel so sorry for these girls…

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

I asked the internet, got this answer, looked it over, and I really agree with it!:

Top Reasons Why Men Cheat

• more sex (the desire for a more active sex life)
• sexual variety (the desire for different type of sex or particular sex act)
• opportunistic sex ( presented with an opportunity to have sex without getting caught)
• to satisfy sexual curiosity (about having sex with a particular person)
• to reaffirm his sexuality
• a feeling of entitlement (the belief that it’s a man’s prerogative to cheat)
• the “thrill of the chase”
• the desire to feel important or special ( an ego boost)
• peer pressure
• sexual addiction

Top 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

• lack of emotional intimacy (a desire for a close emotional bond)
• dissatisfaction with her mate
• marital or relationship unhappiness
• a desire for male attention
• to reaffirm her desirability (To feel validated as a woman)
• to re-experience feelings of romance
• a desire to feel “special”
• boredom
• loneliness
• sexual excitement

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Anyone who cheats is a liar and no better than a thief. They are immoral scoundrels who use people to satisfy their own appetites.

I admit that, when I was young, I moved on from relationships eventually once I realized that I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with those girlfriends. But I never cheated on them when we were together. They were all good girls; really good people. And they were infatuated or in love with me and were totally monogamous. They had healthy values and ethics. I had been totally infatuated with each of them for quite a while, too. I never set out to use them. I would never lie to them or betray their trust and treat them like fools.

I had opportunities to cheat but I would never do that to someone. I guess I have ethics.

I felt terrible breaking up with them but I had to do it. Like I said, I was young and knew that I needed to experience life before settling down for good. Plus, I wasn't interested in having kids and they all wanted to eventually.

Yannishka · Accepted Answer

No need to put the gender label on that one. I have seen just as much betrayal from women as the men when it comes to cheating.

Cheaters are childish, cowards, selfish and too impulsive. They lack the spine and self respect. That is why Cheaters cheat.

rienna888 · Accepted Answer

i think mostly due to insecurity, + want to experiment and always wanting better, + not attracted to your partner enough/ not in love enough, feeling you could do better than your partner.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

We're living in a world where women now statistically cheat more than men, so I'm going to change the question...

Why do people cheat in general? Greedy, sex on the brain, can't self-validate and seek it out from other people, people, in general, no longer seem to have a moral position they'll hold and stay to when they get other options. The options are there a bit more thanks to technology... and the list could just go on.

It's a problem, and it's getting worse. It's already pretty bad, but I have this feeling it's just going to get worse and worse.

molonski2 · Answer

I think the word " cheating " is used far too often , many people are unfaithful men and women , its very well known that the easiest to get of the lot is married women , seeking something different , monogamy is not some easy given , opportunity arises , and you are a long time dead.

When I was about 40 , I was seeing 3 married women at once , and it was great , they were not going to hassel me , they didn't want me calling all the time , no one suspected any of these 3 . Infidelity happens , guys like multiples , new sex is great , exciting and raw. I'm not sure we were ever meant to be monogamous , but certainly women are in 50/50 or more , I know for a fact by experience.

JB2255 · Answer

I have no idea how anyone cheats on anyone, like I obviously understand why people may do it but I really think it just depends how you were raised and what kind of romantic environment you might've seen growing up. It sucks having to worry about people with low morals going out and cheating but that is the minority of people. As for why guys might cheat more, probably just guys who can't control their hormones or don't have a good relationship with their partner, but I don't know to be exact, all I know is I wish people like that didn't exist.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most men that approach me in the real world or online are married.  So you have to wonder, do their wives know what they are doing?

Anonymous · Answer

I think it’s just a human thing that both do it. They, or should I say women, say men cheat more. I think we both cheat equally, women are just better at hiding it. There’s a saying, don’t quote me on it, but, women let men know what they want them to know,

Vegasrunner · Answer

A man "cheating" is much different than a woman. For men sex is like taking a piss any urinal will do. For a woman it's much more of an emotional connection. A guy can cheat on his girl, come home and still be willing to protect her if someone breaks in if a girl cheats on her man, the relationships over.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Only a tiny percentage of men cheat and these are the Chad Thundercock's. Why do they cheat? First, they don't see themselves in a committed relationship with any one girl, whereas the girls assumes they are committed. Second, women ( including married, engaged, "committed") throw themselves at Chad Thundercock. Chad has no reason NOT to have sex with a lot of women.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Not all Guys are Cheaters, You Girls just seem to find the ones that don't or would never Cheat Unattractive or not Interesting.

There are heaps of Guys out there that would never Cheat, But you Girls ignore them usually because they are Shy or for numerous other reasons.

I'm sorry if you got Cheated on, But its your own Fault because your the one who chose him so it's your mistake not anybody else's.

spartan55 · Answer

Why does this get you all bent out of shape? You think it's just guys who do stuff like that? Somewhere along the way a woman ignored the fact that he had a girlfriend and fucked him.
Not sure why you are so amazed this happens.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why are women cheaters? I've fucked 3 women and, so far, 2 of them were cheaters! One cheated on her hubby, the other cheated on me. I stayed loyal to both of them!

strateguy632 · Answer

some men cheat when their partner is "not available" in contrast to women cheat, when they see someone cute like the pool cleaner guy, so lady cheat more than men do.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

The same reason SOME women are, because they can be.

I hated Bumble. I hated dating apps in general because of the pressure, it didn’t feel organic.

He may lack character and honor but at least he has good physical taste.

petitedollbabee · Answer

It’s not a “men” thing.. it’s just people in general. People cheat because they’re scummy.

exitseven · Answer

I really don't get it. Maybe there is something they are not getting from the relationship or maybe they have a personality flaw that they want to sabotage themselves.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Well I don't know what you expected from a dating app, I saw it coming from a mile away no lie

inhua · Answer

a muscular guy with a shirtless pic profile. what could possibly go wrong?

TomMarks · Answer

I’m sorry that you have had to deal with that but I could ask the same question in reverse when it comes to my ex-gf.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Because multiple women want to have sex with them.

Unit1 · Answer

And here we are the non-cheaters being nearly totally unnoticeable by the opposite sex. Either that or I'm not a man.

slatyb · Answer

For the same reason women are cheaters. The numbers are about equal.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Some guys think they are invincible. They should just be honest with you if they want an open relationship

VforVindication · Answer

Why are women attracted to men with wives/girlfriends is what i want to know. That should be the real question.

Christoff92 · Answer

Assuming he thinks you're hot and his girlfriend is nothing like you. Poor girl 😔

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Why are so many women "open" to such cheaters?

Lokiion · Answer

Low self esteem since of confidence and self worth or they just dumb

Anonymous · Answer

The same reason women are. They both have character flaws.

justabuddy · Answer

Because it's a selfish act and they think they can get away with it or don't care. Best to avoid those, their fun comes at your cost.

Paige90 · Answer

Women cheat as much or more than guys

In_Trance · Answer

For the same reason women are

Heolurt · Answer

I supposed for similar reasons women are

ballweevil · Answer

same is as why are female cheaters

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