Why Do Men Approach Random Women On The Street, Then Complain Or Harass The Women When They Get Rejected?

[Aphrodite801]

Y’all approach girls who show no interest in you at ALL based off just LOOKS alone then cry or complain about them rejecting or ignoring you. It’s very obvious when a woman does NOT want you to approach them, leave them alone.

I know why

I don’t know why

[EmyyWolf]

Because they’re desperate, and lonely, and pathetic. Probably have no ambition or goals or anything better to do.

They don’t have a busy schedule. They don’t have kids or pets or anything to look to.

They’re literally the bottom of the barrel. It’s why when you reject them. They see you as the enemy. They see you as the bad guy. Someone who needs to be terminated. They feel as though they shT on their food. As if you’ve attacked them. As if you stole something from them.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/DhKPHsFmTBghttps://www.youtube.com/embed/0GXOVg5-HGQ

[EmyyWolf]

@aphrodite801

[joehypo1]

What is even worse is when they don't approch and just stair like they are a piece of meat when my daughter was a preteen I swear we would go somewhere and I would end up wanting to beat these fools they know she is under age and they don't care for every creep that is on the offender list there is at least 3 or 4 that should be on the list, another thing is i see is younger guys not knowing how to deal with rejection , you should not feel the need to go on a shooting spree because you got rejected instead they should think of maybe a diffrent way to approch a young lady and talk to them as if they are human and see where that gets you i say this now because Im a little older but I was once in them guys shoes I just was brought up diffrent i guess I dated same chick all through highschool

[richardcory]

Some guys are just creeps, who think they deserve whatever they want. Sorry you've run into them. Decent me don't behave like that

[BlackBeauty90]

Stop dressing like a cheap tramp in overly tight or revealing clothes & guys will stop approaching you like you're a prostitute.

I've never ever had this issue despite being attractive because I DON'T dress like a pathetic cheap slut.

[Screenwriter]

You know this is a fashion with loads of women who want to feel free enough to dress as they please.

You see guys in speedos at the beach who look like beached whales. Is this prostitute dressing? They're in overly tight and revealing clothing, but people don't call them sluts.

Though some minority of women do such dressing to get attention from men, I don't think most women are sluts who dress so. However, I think it's a MISTAKE, not a moral failure, because such outfits become SIGNALS to some men that they are loose and looking for sex, or are sexworkers.

Men who want a particular woman don't care WHAT she's wearing. If they're on the hunt, they're on the hunt. Modestly dressed or not.

[Aphrodite801]

Lol troll better dude

[Screenwriter]

I'm no dude. I work at the port in my city putting people on cruise ships I see revealing fashions every sail. Some ridiculously so. Most ages, all body types. I'm reporting on my experience. It's a FASHION, some part of it is advertisement, but women dress for themselves; to please themselves.

I'm not one who does this. But I defend their right to do so, even if I don't approve.

Men shouldn't harass women no matter what they wear. It's bad manners.

[Aphrodite801]

Clearly not talking to you, use your brain.

[Aphrodite801]

Do you not see my question? Why tf would I agree with what this person said 🤡 don’t know how you got it confused

[Swezie]

What you wear has nothing to do with dude harassing you I've been harassed by guy for standing outside my gate waiting for me Dad to pick me up and I was wearing an oversized track suit

[Sitaraxx]

maybe you're just not as attractive as you think you are

I've been dressed in tracksuit bottoms, no makeup and I've had men approach me or catcall me

[Darkrainbow]

Or just stfu

[BlackBeauty90]

@aphrodite801 not a dude I'm not a tramp or s*** or worthless prostitute

[mandyfire98]

I don't mind if a guy approaches but it's the after rejection part that bothers me and scares me everytime. Some men can get violent.

[Aphrodite801]

Has a man gotten violent with you before?

[mandyfire98]

Yeah i've had guys in college get a bit physical and aggressive.

[Billlewis]

Guys really need to get better at accepting rejection, because being rejected by a beautiful woman is an important part of the male psychosexual being, and if it's handled properly, can actually play a key role in helping him develop the skills that will make him more appealing to the next woman he pursues. Being bitter and angry only compounds the negativity, and ruins any possibility of improving yourself for the women you date/serve in the future.

[Aphrodite801]

Yeah that’s the big problem, it’s so gross how some men act after rejection. I hope you reported those guys in college, I don’t let anything “physical” slide with men.

[mandyfire98]

I was usually lucky and had guys that knew me at the bars or clubs and they'd normally step in.

[Billlewis]

If I'm totally honest with myself, I've received greater benefit from the women whom I was unsuccessful in having sex with than all the women I slept with, combined, because you learn more about how to conduct yourself when you lose than when you win. Seriously.

[Aphrodite801]

@Billie you’re literally talking to your self dude. Knowing how to handle rejection obviously does not make a man more wanted by the next woman he pursues. Doesn’t matter how you approach a woman if she doesn’t want you then you’re gonna get rejected or fake number. These type of guys ofc always act nice and proper until they get rejected.

[Aphrodite801]

@mandy good. I always recommend women to carry when they go outside by themselves

[Billlewis]

I think you may be misinterpreting what my point is -- that there is more to our relationships than just physical intimacy, and that most guys take longer to mature emotionally than women do. Dating as a male is similar to being a salesman, which I was for many years, in that you have to go through literally dozens of rejections to make one sale. That's all I'm saying.

[Aphrodite801]

Your point is to try and make yourself feel better about being rejected. That’s obviously clear.

[Aphrodite801]

Dating is like being a salesman? 🤣🤣 dude you are weird. That is just not true, no one forced you to approach a bunch of women. YOU had to go through a bunch of rejections because you were approaching everybody. That’s not a good thing to do.

[elizamichale1]

Yea coz they think they r too gud n how dare she said no

[LiamJHayden]

Some guys are oblivious and entitled. When I ask if she rejects (super common) I just wish her a nice day and move on.

[Aphrodite801]

You’ve approached random women on the street who didn’t show interest in you?

[provokeesmokee]

They're dumb and think with their dick-brain until they mature into actual grown adult men.

[Pohjolan]

Ironic. Last week there was a woman complaining about men not approaching women on the street anymore.

[EricSummer]

Most women do not like being approached in the street, but some do. It's simply different women who had these opposite opinions.

If choosing this method you must be prepared for a low success rate of no more than 5% for a mini date like having a coffee nearby to chat some more.

[Aphrodite801]

Ok? Just because one person complains about something not happening doesn’t mean it’s not happening. Men approach women everywhere all the time.

[Gopackers02]

I don't know any men that do that. But to harass them seems unnecessary and rude. I got rejected just recently but I didn’t nuts.

[Aphrodite801]

You’ve never seen stories of men killing women for rejecting them? That’s not rare at all.

[Gopackers02]

Killing? I mean i personally have no friends nor know anyone that’d go to that length. But I know some men go mental when rejected. I’m happy to say I know woman as well as men have preferences and I may or may not be what they want in a guy and if not I can accept it but some dudes can’t accept it

[Aphrodite801]

We’re tired of it.

[JesseP1nk]

Easy question. Because men are not taught how to speak to women. Their "knowledge" comes from movies and reality shit shows.

[Aphrodite801]

Men do not kill or verbally assault women for rejection in movies or shows 99% of the time. Stop trying to make excuses. You don’t need to be taught basic skills.

[robocop666]

If a woman wants your attention she will look and smile at you

[Sitaraxx]

um no.
Some of us are just super friendly and we smile at everyone who looks at us

[robocop666]

@Sitaraxx not when they stare hard or say sleezy things to you. Thats an invitation. I know the difference between kindness and an invitation

[Sitaraxx]

yes if theyre saying sleezy things to you thats an invitation
but not a smile alone..

[Subflics]

Man that sucks that those kind of people approach you

[TooHot2Care]

Not every woman feels the same way as you, and not every guy is weird about rejection.

[Aphrodite801]

When it comes to men harassing women? 😂 yes they do. Don’t care that hurts your feelings. Stop harassing random women.

[Sasha0426]

You’re right. Not every woman is the same and not every guy is the same. However, you should’ve know what kind of guys she was referring to and which women who don’t like unwanted attention.

[TooHot2Care]

@Sasha0426 Wow, that was very well told, but consider this : I genuinely do not care.

[Aphrodite801]

Then why didn’t you post an opinion? 😂😂 triggered indeed.

[Aphrodite801]

Oh and…change your username.

[gothbxtch]

those men are creeps

[jakesanterden1]

Too many good looking girls these days