Guys, why are you still a virgin?

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What’s your reason for being a virgin as a male? And we all know that religion is not likely to be the reason. While there are men who are extremely religious. Majority aren’t.   Unattractive  No Social Skills Coward / Fearful Rejection Watch the following videos, are these you?👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇👇

DerekC321 · Accepted Answer

I almost lost my virginity but she thought my penis was too small.

peedy · Accepted Answer

Because no woman will have sex with me

Datboi65 · Answer

I've seen you on a few posts now and I've already formed an opinion about you. You're a feminist. You're a feminist that's miserable and likes to take her misery out on ridiculing men and "giving advice" when you have zero knowledge or experience on that regard.

I'm going to give you a realistic picture on why that's the case for many by looking at the bigger picture, something that I don't expect you to understand regardless.

Let's take a trip back memory lane, all the way to the 60's. Second wave feminism was on the agenda after the Civil Rights movement had ended, and famous social activist "Gloria Steinem" was at its forefront. Gloria Steinem wasn't your average person, she was very intelligent and had achieved highly specialized training in the CIA. Those skills have helped her out in influencing what would be the rest of American politics to this day.

We're now in the late 60's/70's and the streets are full of angry activists demanding removal of the "social stigma" behind sexual immorality, abortion rights and fighting to enter the workforce in some male-dominated industries. Look at the bigger picture, why would the most powerful men in the country allow any of this to happen? These women wouldn't have made a day's progress if it wasn't due to endorsement from the likes of the Rockerfeller Brothers and so on. Why would these men in high positions allow women to take that role in society? The answer is very simple. Money.

If you think about it, women are more likely to spend than men are. Men are higher earners and are more frugal on average, which is what makes us wealthier. Giant corporations like money, so they market towards women because they are more profitable in that sense. Unfortunately to men, when that's the case then in these social battles they are also likely to take on the side that would earn them more money. Remember, 2 incomes in the house is better than one, so more money. See where I'm going with this?

Fast forward to September 2012, a new revolutionary form of dating was created, online dating. At this point, Facebook, Twitter and Insta have already been in the picture and before all of them was MySpace when people used to communicate and do LDRs online. Tinder basically gave everyone the chance to review someone's profile, and then swipe right or left on them if they did/didn't like them. I know you're probably wondering, how am I going to link these 2 things together? Because it didn't happen immediately, this was a process.

Sexual immorality after 2nd and 3rd wave feminism was already on a high at this point. An app that allows people to meet up and date has only lead to an increase in that area, for women that is to say. For men, not so much, because not all men are made the same. There are winners and there are losers. Back when a woman only had access to those in her town, now she has access to men in a 150 mile radius, and with onlyfans that number has gone up even more. Results? A shitload of simping for women that are mid at best due to an already gynocentric society. When it comes to dating apps that is, only 5% of men sleep with all of them women, and the rest of the guys have less access to women.

Now what I had explained only covers the tip of the iceberg, and there are plenty more nuances which are to be considered in this 50 year or so process that had lead us to where we are today.

The question I wanted to ask you back is this. Why is that of any importance to you? And do you really believe that this behavior is something to celebrate?

If you didn't know already, there's a rise in a new phenomenon. There are more and more men who are starting to leave the West and move to other countries where the women are more traditional. You can laugh at it now, but in 50 years from now (the time it took for Feminism to make an impact) you will have a very different picture of what the West is like, if it would even exist in the same form. Therefore, I would suggest you start preparing for that day when you have to maintain all the infrastructure without the help of the high skilled labor, because it would suck when those roads start cracking and your nuclear power facilities cannot be maintained.

Be careful what you wish for.

Rtylerturek · Answer

I am a virgin because I believe that the powers of procreation are sacred, and are only to be used between a man and woman who have been legally and lawfully wedded.

I also believe that to use that procreative power outside of marriage will risk a child being brought into this world without having a family made up of two loving parents who are committed to each other’s welfare and that of the child—something I believe all children are entitled to.

Lastly, I feel like your question is inherently mocking those of us who value Chastity and Virtue in our sexual lives.

If I may be so bold, let me return the favor.

If I wanted, I could go tonight to the nearest bar, pick up a girl, have sex, and become like you. But you can never again be as I am.

It’s easy to sleep around. It takes true courage to stand up for what’s right, even when my instincts urge me to have sex with any willing girl.

JHNS98 · Answer

This goes way back.

Shyness from being bullied in primary school. I also had a crush on a friend in sophomore year of high school, which hit my heart in a hard way and partially still impacts me today.

I even adopted a harmful mindset of "why do I Keep approaching girls if everyone just rejects me" for many years.

In summary: I am a virgin because I can't approach women that are romantically interesting to me. I'm also a bit agoraphobic, so the club dance floor isn't really a place for me.

BigDog1989 · Answer

While I'm not "technically" a virgin, I still consider myself one because of the circumstances (it was not rape, or SA, I promise), I just wish I could take it back. I've not had sex since, and I have been waiting for the "RIGHT GIRL". I like someone and she likes me. We want to do it, just hasn't happened, yet

Alex-Snow · Answer

I just had sex for the first time 4 months ago. I was 17 almost 18. I had had a lot of great handjobs before that and a few bjs. I was nervous but psyched at the same time if u know what I mean. We had sex 3 times that afternoon (she was not a virgin and was on birth control) each orgasm kept getting better and better

MementoMori777 · Answer

Mine is religion, I stress too much about running into the perfect girl that kept herself pure and I didn't keep myself pure for her, it keeps me on the path, lay the hate on me Emy, I know it's coming 😌😂

Viktor001 · Answer

Working on myself, a career, mental health, etc. I recently did a mistake by trying to find someone, got hurt and now my mental health is dangerously bad.

Zachgoat308 · Answer

The reason people are virgins: Shy Afraid of Rejection

WomanWofbabylon · Answer

It took a while to realize that all women are the whores of Babylon. Once I figured it out, I realized I was waiting for something that didn’t exist.

exitseven · Answer

I was still a virgin because I was in a relationship with somebody who was waiting until marriage.

Tarrsg · Answer

Because of my high standards. I need a girl that’s so beautiful and really nice. I can’t settle for less. I’d rather stay a virgin then have sex with a girl that’s not wow.

Barracuda04 · Answer

I have had several older woman interested in me when I was 17-19 & they DID offer some "fun time" & 1 did give me a BJ (she was 54/I was 19) but that's about it

Don't know if the above counts as losing your virginity

Hollysdad1989 · Answer

Yeah that shipped at 15 when I first had sex with my now wife of 18 years.

Jltakk · Answer

Could be that things just didn't work out for them. You can't hypnotize every woman into saying yes to your advances.

LiamJHayden · Answer

These answers are kind of sad.

Keene13 · Answer

Premature ejaculation

Joshuabenitez · Answer

I am unlovable. Plain and simple.

Erron_Black · Answer

i can't find girl :D

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Guys, why do you demand to date virgins when your no where close to being one yourself?

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