Guys, why do you demand to date virgins when your no where close to being one yourself?

[RoseySarah]

For better and tighter sex

Double standards

We deserve her

To help her learn

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[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I don't fit into the category of wanting to date a virgin. I dated one, we were in high school. Not a requirement in my book. Hopefully, I don't have to worry about dating again. :-)

[RoseySarah]

Hoping not!
Was it worth her being a virgin or to much to teach?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

We never had intercourse, we just dated. Definitely experimented in oral.

[petitedollbabee]

I’ve only met 3 guys irl who only date virgins, despite not being virgins themselves. And it was always clear to me that they date them because a virgin isn’t going to know the difference between good sex and bad sex, and these men were terrible at sex.. they had no interest in pleasing the woman, only themselves. So they preferred virgins who didn’t know better, since non-virgin women didn’t want to have sex with a loser who only cares about himself in the bedroom.

[yikesyikesyikes]

I think it's the older insecure man that needs younger girls to feel secure. A mature man would not want

[RoseySarah]

Very true
Most are like 34 who wants 22 virgins

[Billlewis]

That spot on comment is worth a follow, in my humble opinion. You're welcome to follow me as well, if you want. Thank you very much, ma'am.

[RoseySarah]

@Billlewis thanks

[Billlewis]

It was actually directed towards Ms. YikesYikesYikes, but I'm sure I can find an equally praise worthy comment from you, as well. I know I probably sound like an ass kissing simp, but is this an exciting time in history, or what? I mean, if we're going to go down the tubes in this ridiculous NWO, at least women are finally starting to ascend to their rightful place in society...

[Billlewis]

Don't get me wrong; I'm not one of those 'male feminists', although technically I probably fit some of the characteristics of that label. I just think one of the primary sources of our increasing lack of being able to lead meaningful lives is that sex is simply too easy for guys to obtain, and in so doing, we're failing to have the kind of emotional bond necessary for true happiness. I get eggs and tomatoes thrown at me every time I say this, but I firmly believe that less quick, easy no strings attached sex for men will compel us to be more appreciative of women. This is my opinion only.

[yikesyikesyikes]

@Billlewis Yes that is true but it goes further back then that. So we all still have our lizard brain that has the old time memories that are strange to us that is why we don't think about them. In this case if you think back to the old days people died young so old was ugly or they didn't get old so it's something ingrained in us. So in a case like this just like old woman want young men. Old men also want young woman because every body is thinking that old person is not for me I want fresh blood. And for the most part we have all matured and don't think like that but there are a lot of people who still do.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I agree wholeheartedly with you. When people, both male and female, hit on me when I'm out in public, if one of my friends asks me about it, my response is always the same -- that it's not me they want; they want what I've got.

[Billlewis]

I view guys who want to marry a virgin as being very unsure of themselves, and they seek out a woman who has a better chance of being less assertive than a more seasoned woman may be. As Ms Yikes
YikesYikes stated, insecurity is the driver of this trend, and it seems contrived to me. Then again, I've got some pretty kinky tastes myself... lol.

[RoseySarah]

@Billlewis lol lizard brain 🧠

[Monalisa77]

A mature man has been flirting with me when its pretty obvious id never had done it before

[AaronKrieger]

I'd rather date a woman who is not a virgin, since I'm not one myself. However, if she is, then I don't mind. It doesn't matter to me at the end of the day.

It's weird to me some men care about that despite not being a virgin, but I don't care that much that they do. It's their life

[LazerBean]

The vast majority of men do not do that sort of stupidity. It just happens that the few who do are very loud about it, and I think even then they mostly do it as a method to try and mask their low self-esteem

[RoseySarah]

True will agree 👍

[TheUniqueOne96]

Well, I am a virgin, but I think the reason why a lot of guys would want one, is because it's more attractive when a girl is.

It's easier for a girl to get laid compared to a guy, so if a woman has self control and doesn't just fuck anyone, it's more attractive, I guess.

[Nikki1989]

The only men that do that are virgins themselves, so they don't want to embarrass themselves in the bedroom, OR they are total creeps with pedo tendencies.

[mandyfire98]

I agree. I've found that most guys who have a hardline stance on only wanting virgins are guys that don't have experience and are terrified of being judged in bed. They don't want to be compared to others before them. They're hoping for a woman that doesn't know any better.

And then you're right, there are some guys that know most virgins are probably under age and they are attracted to that specifically.

[HighValue]

Having many partners ruins someone's ability to pair bond long term. It is usually only women with a promiscuous past that get upset about good men not accepting a low quality woman.

Anyone with few or no past sexual partners should avoid others that have had many (more than 5) past sexual partners, or anyone that has ever had casual sex/friends with benefits/ons.

[IslaTheWitch]

I have no idea. And I don't understand.

But I wouldn't like to date an inexperienced man :D

[Anonymous]

People's preferences in dating can vary widely, and it's essential to recognize that individuals have diverse views on this matter. Some may prioritize shared values or experiences, while others may not consider virginity a significant factor. Communication and understanding each other's perspectives are crucial in any relationship.

[Kaneki05]

I am one, and would prefer my partner not to be one because well I would like one person knowing what they are doing lol. Learning from them would be easier.

[NavyOU37]

Because women with a high body count shows that she is willing to move on super quickly. She doesn't want to settle down. That's how us guys think of it.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure why that's supposed to matter. We also demand boobs and a pussy and we have neither of those. Chicks frequently demand height in a guy which they themselves lack. The idea that you can only want in another person what you yourself already have is asinine and doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to most real-world human interactions.

[NathanDavis]

nope... never done that myself

don't care about it either

[exitseven]

I had no such requirement even though when I was dating there were a lot more virgins than there are today

[Lliam]

Guys who want virgins have sexual issues. They're either insecure, inadequate, or have a bizarre fetish.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't demand a girl to be a virgin. I will take her as she is as long as she is disease-free.

[Anonymous]

I don't have to be a virgin to demand a virgin, since I have seen poor women who want rich men or ugly, old women who want a handsome man.

Although in my case I am also young and a university student and I don't like poor or old women.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Most men after about age 23 aren't expecting virgin women.

It's only the minority of dudes who will.

[Mark987]

I have no idea what guys have said that to you.. but that sounds like something from 30 years ago. No one has a right to say that on both sides

[LunarEclipse433]

I have never required a female to be a virgin. Too much training. LOL

[RoseySarah]

Lol well same for guys

[LunarEclipse433]

Now that’s funny

[stratford]

Erm, I don't? Not sure where you've heard this.

[RoseySarah]

Many times here on this site!

[stratford]

Some of the guys on GaG create such a bad impression that makes all guys look bad.

[hbkfan]

I haven't had sex in over a year so I don't want a Virgin I want someone who at least slept with someone once if they are a virgin but know what to do when the time comes that would be ok too

[TonyMetal___86]

I never had sex before meeting my ex wife and after divorce i never had sex, it's because i love to make sex only with my chosen one...

[Sunnybeach123]

I don't care if a girl is a virgin or not, as long as we both connect.

[SotiCoto]

Not applicable.
I don't fuck virgins nor those who can't distinguish between "you're" and "your".

[clampfan101]

First of all, I am one.
Second, it’s just a preference that she is one too.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've zero interest in dating virgins.

[RoseySarah]

Why no interest?

[BoopBoopBeep]

I've been with a handful over the years. Wasn't anything special and I don't want to have to explain everything or be the one that sets the mood/tone of our sex every time because she has no experience.

[Anonymous]

I don’t, that would be entirely wrong. I actually prefer a girl that knows what she’s doing.

[laozhu]

I don't care if the person I'm with is a virgin
I only care about whether two people can stay together for a long time

[amitkumar01]

Lets be realistic, if men n women had sex 500 times in their life , whose sexual organ will look like there is no life left in it !!!

[bblazerm]

I don't, I just don't want her to be throwing it around you know, when I am not myself, having had sex with only one person

[Anonymous]

Doesn't matter to me and it's the same with most guys in my opinion

[Anonymous]

Why does it matter? If it's his preference it's his preference.

[boggboss]

Never made such a demand even when I was one

[Andres77]

Not all guys want that.

[RoseySarah]

Really a lot on here want that

[Andres77]

I can only speak for myself

[Andres77]

I didn’t start out well and made a lot of mistakes so I would never expect anyone else to have to have been chaste in their lifetime

[colaman94]

I am one at 29 👋🏻👌🏻👀👀😅

[colaman94]

So I'd like to think there could still be mid to late 20s chicks who are also late bloomers. Otherwise experienced versus inexperienced makes me cringe lol. A man can dream lol. Not every chick gets to 30 having lost it 😘👏

[RedInnocent68]

Fear of judgment

[love_conquers_lust]

I can

[Worst]

Because I am one lol