Is it shallow to only date virgins, if you, you're self is a virgin?

[Anonymous]

[Man-O-Metal]

Absolutely not. I'm in the same boat as you. I got set up with a friend of a friend not too long ago, and she's a great person. But she had "history" with multiple guys. I was trying to be open minded and tried to put it aside, but deep down I knew it would always bother me. That's not the reason I ended things with her though. I need someone who holds the same standard. She said she respected my decision of waiting till marriage, and then always signaled that she was ready anytime I was. But I haven't lost hope and certainly ain't guna stop searching just because of that. So keep your head up and just stick to what you're comfortable with.

[JamesDiaz11]

It's not shallow to want to date/ marry a virgin. Being a virgin, without another guys penis up inside them, is preferred by most (if not all) guys. Aside from cucks, who would want their women to sleep with other men?

Being a virgin also shows character, as it's easy for women to have sex, and many are peer pressured into having sex simply to appease their 304 friends. If she values herself enough to deny her own impulses, and not give her body to men, she's shown herself a woman of high character.

[cryscrys1]

You are not shallow
Also there are virgins out there maybe not in the US you might have to extend your search into other continents. If you are an American don’t search up until your local Target.

[jennifer_bloom]

At least 2 of the last 3 guys I liked were virgins and they were all good looking and one might have been older than me.

[OlderAndWiser]

How do you know someone is a virgin before you have your first date with them?

[inhua]

it's a preference and not really shallow considering one's virginity or lack thereof is well within their control whereas it's more shallow to judge based on height, age or ethnicity because those factors can not be changed.

[Berethor]

It's having high standards, so many hos nowadays, good luck with finding a virgin. :)

[Asker]

Being a virgin and wanting a virgin high standards?

[Berethor]

Dating only virgin girls is high standard, there is some girls who want a virgin guy for similar reasons but it's fairly rare, anyway religion-wise no one should have sex without marriage.

[WonderBell99]

lmao… looks like you do not realize that the absence of hymen does not signify anything. It could break due to numerous reasons, especially when swimming, dancing or even running.

[Berethor]

Sources? the hymen can break from horse riding but there is sidesaddle for that.

[WonderBell99]

“ In fact, it is very common for females to tear their hymens inadvertently, through physical exercise such as cycling, horse riding, gymnastics or other vigorous forms of exercise. Likewise, masturbation, vaginal speculums, injury or tampon use can tear or stretch your hymen.”

Common sense, really.

[Berethor]

List of things that a good virgin girl should no do, gymnastics are different from running.

[WonderBell99]

LMFAO

[slatyb]

At 30 to 35? How many virgins do you think there are that are old enough for you to date?

[Aimée__LJ]

It's not shallow it just gets a bit weird the older you are. It's pretty rare to find a virgin in their 30s which means you'll be trying to go for younger people which under age 25 is just plain wrong

[TroyDT2]

Those who are excluded will say so, but you are allowed to have whatever standards you want for friends and lovers.

[Anonymous]

Virgins should stick to other virgins and leave us experienced folk alone.

[Twalli]

No, in fact virgins are the only people who should have this requirement.

[rachel776]

no that's fair

[TacosRAwesome]

No not shallow.

[Hellraiser1984]

Nope. At least you're not dating a whore.

[shortster]

No, that seems reasonable.

[LazerBean]

Not at all.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, it is not.

[In_Trance]

whatever works for you